1087 - The Silent Trap That Stops Men Right Before They Win
28/1/2026 | 7 mins.
In this episode, Sathiya discusses the silent trap that many men face when trying to quit pornography. He emphasizes the importance of identity in recovery, explaining how feelings of unworthiness can lead to self-sabotage. By understanding one's identity in Christ, individuals can overcome these feelings and achieve true freedom. Sathiya encourages listeners to rely on God for their recovery and to commit their works to Him for success.
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Chapters:
(00:00) Understanding the Silent Trap
(01:26) The Importance of Identity in Recovery
(06:00) Relying on God for True Freedom
1086 - Jenna Riemersma: Why Jesus’ Approach to Sin Feels Backwards
26/1/2026 | 1h 1 mins.
In this conversation, Sathiya and Jenna Riemersma explore the integration of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy with faith-based perspectives. Jenna discusses the concept of 'parts' within ourselves, the importance of compassion in healing, and how to approach our internal struggles with curiosity rather than control. They also delve into Jenna's new book, 'Move Toward', which provides practical tools for self-awareness and emotional healing.
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Chapters:
(0:00) Introduction to IFS and Faith Integration
(02:02) Understanding Internal Family Systems (IFS)
(10:01) The Importance of Compassion in IFS
(19:27) Transforming Control into Compassion
(29:09) The Role of God in IFS Work
(32:41) Understanding the Burdened Spiritualizer Part
(37:31) The Heart Behind “Move Toward”
(45:15) The Three-Step IFS Tool: Notice, No, Need
(55:27) Moving Toward Ourselves with Compassion
(59:19) Next Steps and Resources for Transformation
1085 - Stop Waiting for the Perfect Moment
25/1/2026 | 9 mins.
In this episode, Sathiya discusses the balance between waiting on God's timing and taking proactive action in life. He emphasizes the dangers of perfectionism leading to procrastination and encourages listeners to take imperfect action towards their goals. Using scripture and personal anecdotes, Sathiya provides insights on how to navigate the tension between patience and proactivity, ultimately guiding listeners towards personal growth and integrity.
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Chapters:
(00:00) The Tension Between Waiting and Action
(03:40) Understanding the Problem
(08:34) Overcoming Perfectionism and Procrastination
1084 - Should You Give Up Sex To Quit Porn?
23/1/2026 | 9 mins.
In this episode, Sathiya discusses the relationship between quitting pornography and sexual activity within marriage. He addresses common concerns about performance anxiety and the importance of intimacy in the healing process. Through personal anecdotes and insights from coaching experiences, Sathiya emphasizes that sexual connection can be beneficial during recovery, provided it is approached with honesty and openness. He also introduces techniques like Sensate Touch to help couples rebuild intimacy in a healthy way.
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Chapters:
(00:00) Introduction to Freedom from Pornography
(00:56) The Impact of Quitting Pornography
(02:47) The Role of Sexual Intimacy in Recovery
(05:08) Addressing Performance Anxiety
(08:02) Building Intimacy Through Sensate Touch
1083 - How To Optimize Your Brain For Freedom From Pornography
21/1/2026 | 10 mins.
In this episode, Sathiya discusses the importance of optimizing the brain to achieve freedom from pornography addiction. He explains the detrimental effects of pornography on the brain, including desensitization, sensitization, hypofrontality, and reduced stress response. Sathiya emphasizes the power of neuroscience principles, such as the idea that neurons that fire together wire together, and provides practical strategies for breaking the cycle of addiction. He also highlights the significance of optimizing sleep to enhance brain health and decision-making capabilities.
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Chapters:
(00:00) Understanding the Brain's Role in Habits
(02:48) The Effects of Pornography on the Brain
(04:35) Rewiring the Brain: Breaking Associations
(07:57) Disrupting Circuits: Taking Action for Change
The Man Within Podcast is a faith-based show helping Christian men overcome their greatest battles—whether it’s breaking free from pornography, building stronger relationships, or discovering purpose.
Hosted by Sathiya Sam—coach, speaker, author, and founder of DeepClean™ Coaching—the podcast equips men with biblical truth, practical tools, and powerful testimonies to walk in confidence, integrity, and freedom.
With nearly 1 million downloads and past guests such as Dr. John Deloney, John Eldredge, Jon Gordon, Dr. Robert Glover, Ryan Miller, Colby Maier, Joshua Broome, Dr. Josh Axe, Jason Vallotton, Connor Beaton, Dr. Trish Leigh, Mike Signorelli, The Man Within Podcast has become one of the leading voices for men seeking lasting transformation.
If you’re tired of surface-level fixes and ready to grow, this podcast will challenge, inspire, and equip you to become the man God created you to be.