UNPLUGGED with Nicki Marie

Fall is here, Frankie is back, and apparently I have a book to write. Small problem: I have absolutely no idea what it was supposed to be about.
This week, my brother and I are talking all things fall—Halloween memories, fall fashion at 49, being single, manifesting what you want while also remembering to be grateful for what you already have, our Nantucket antics, and the vein in my leg that somehow earned its own segment.
We also get into my upcoming California trip, what the hell I'm supposed to wear to Paris Hilton's house, and the fact that I manage to bring up Disneyland approximately three times despite Frankie making it VERY clear he could not care less.
And finally: the book.
I apparently had a book idea so good that it led to a conversation with a publisher. The meeting is coming up. The idea? Gone. So naturally, we end the episode searching my Notes app for evidence that my ADHD brain didn't permanently delete my future literary career.
Just another normal conversation between siblings.
This & STFU with Nicki Marie — come hang out. We're not solving anything. We're just discussing it.

I put my kids’ old art table out to be donated…and then sat there staring at it while approximately 400 years of motherhood flashed before my eyes. So naturally, I brought it back inside. We’re not ready. 😂
This week’s solo episode is a little bit of everything: my current Dancing with the Stars obsession, why I’m rooting for Jackson Olsen and Connor Wood, the casual invitation I got to go to California TO PARIS HILTON’S HOUSE (???), and some ADHD thoughts because obviously.
And then we get a little sentimental. I’m coaching field hockey this fall, and being back in a sport that has been such a huge part of my life has reminded me of a piece of myself I didn’t realize I missed this much.
Basically: motherhood, midlife, ADHD, Paris Hilton, field hockey and an art table I apparently plan to keep until my children are 47.
THIS & STFU. Let me live.

Welcome to THIS & STFU — where I have some things to say, very few solutions, and absolutely no intention of pretending I have my life figured out.
This week: I joined a gym (apparently we're doing that now), I'm deep in my pre-teen mom era, and we're heading back to Disneyland California — so naturally I have thoughts.
We're talking motherhood, getting older, trying to take care of myself while simultaneously managing everyone else's life, Disney plans, and whatever else my ADHD brain decides we need to discuss along the way.
No advice. No perfect morning routines. No five steps to becoming your best self.
Just me talking about life while I'm living it.
This & STFU. Let me live. 😂
🎙️ New episodes every week with Nicki Marie — sometimes solo, sometimes with my brother Frankie, always slightly unhinged.

I’m going on my FIRST EVER Disney Cruise… and instead of pretending I know what I’m doing, I called in reinforcements. 😂🚢✨

I asked some of my favorite Disney people — serious Disney Cruise lovers, creators, and friends who have done this WAY more than I have — to tell me their MUSTS, favorite things, first-timer tips, and the stuff they wish they knew before their first cruise.

You’ll hear from some very familiar Disney faces, including:
AJ from Disney Food Blog,  Youtube | Instagram | Disney Food Blog
Adam & Christina from The Sunshine Explorers | Instagram
Lex & Cody from Lost BrosQ, Youtube | Instagram | TikTok

And if you missed it we had a special stand alone episode with Molly from Mammoth Club, (Youtube | Instagram) that you can find here.

I basically asked them:
🚢 What do I HAVE to do?
🍽️ What should I eat?
🛳️ What should I know before I board?
🏝️ What are the best things to do on the ship?
✨ What are the things first-time cruisers totally miss?
💰 What is actually worth it?
🤫 And what does nobody tell you until you've already figured it out the hard way?

So if you’re a Disney Cruise newbie like me, consider this your invitation to steal all of their best advice.
This is how I planned for my first Disney Cruise… by asking my Disney friends what they would do. ❤️
And then, of course, I took you with me.

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Welcome to another hilariously raw episode of Unplugged with Nicki Marie! Today, Nicki is diving headfirst into the chaotic survival season known to moms everywhere as Maycember. From unexpected school field trips to rapid-fire sports schedules, managing the end of the school year is a full-blown conundrum—especially when you are a working solo parent balancing severe ADHD .

In this unfiltered sit-down, Nicki does the shocking math on her long-ignored gym membership and adds up what she's been paying on average per workout. The fix? Cancel it on the spot and buy a certain piece of coveted workout equipment!

Then, we transition into an epic 1990s nostalgia scrapbook deep dive. Nicki unearths dead roses, old Disney postcards, and cringe-worthy high school love letters from the early 90's that perfectly expose early relationship red flags. She also reflects on her childhood modeling school days and shares powerful parenting advice inspired by her time as a bench-warmer for a 1988 New England Little League championship team .

To wrap things up, Nicki shares what it really feels like to wish for a relaxed brain, letting us into a vulnerable, rapid-fire motherhood stream of consciousness that tracks everything from pool chemicals to processing her daughter's final year of elementary school .

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