Ever wonder what your horses really think? Or how a trip to Alaska turned into a real-life reality show? Buckle up, because this episode is part confessional, part how-to, with a healthy sprinkle of "wait, did that really just happen?"
In this episode:
The power of authenticity and ditching "book event Heather" for your real self
The wild, weird, and wonderful world of horse care, from hoof drama to boundary setting
The importance of book cover control and keeping your sanity in the horse world
Timestamps:
00:00 - Why the first words out of your mouth matter more than you think
00:10 - From Patreon to OnlyFans: the weird world of online content
00:45 - Authenticity wins: lessons from trips, conferences, and real life
01:55 - How I turned a tired horse trip into a confidence booster
05:52 - You’re not a celebrity, but you can feel like one (sometimes)
09:05 - When books, booties, and beefy men all collide: the art of cover veto rights
11:00 - Shopping, leather jackets, and feeling fabulous (horse included)
13:00 - Alaska adventures: wildlife, native tribes, and being Raven or Eagle in the clan
15:00 - Land clearing chaos: the truth about debris, permits, and wildlife disturbances
17:00 - The surprising mental health benefits of a simple 20-minute walk with your horse
19:30 - The crazy stalker stories that remind us: horse world is full of surprises
22:00 - Horse care horror stories: hoof abscesses from crazy weather and fill-in vets
24:00 - How to handle unresponsive farriers and landmines in your schedule
28:00 - Why regulation matters and how to maintain control over your horse’s image
33:00 - The race for the perfect horse cover (with a pee picture to prove it)
37:00 - Protect your horses from chaos: the importance of boundaries & leadership
42:00 - The dark side of horse community: stalking, abuse, and the need for better rules
48:00 - Rethinking horse training: the importance of rest, recovery, and smart work routines
54:00 - Liberty work fun: making your own rules and avoiding overcomplication
58:00 - Building trust through consistent signals and energy—no fancy gestures needed
63:00 - How to handle naughty or anxious horses—chances are, they’re just trying to tell you something
66:00 - Why a good horse is a reflection of a good human
And remember:
Be authentic, set boundaries, and never underestimate the power of a well-timed “Whoa”!
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