Rebuilding After Burnout: Advice That Will Change Your Life
Feeling pressure to βdo it allβ? In this uplifting episode of Beanstalk Mums β Real Talk for Single Mums, host Elle Sitek chats with coach and soloβmum SashaΒ Eburne about life after burnout, redefining success and building a business that truly fits.
Sasha spent 25Β years in hotels and events before COVIDβ19 wiped out her career. Newly minted as a solo mum, she pivoted into virtual assistant work, discovered a business model that allowed her to leave the nineβtoβfive and has spent the last five years coaching other mums to do the same. She shares candidly about hitting burnout, learning to ask for help, and including her daughter in her business journey.
Together we explore:
β’Β The subtle signs of burnout and why you must prioritise selfβcare
β’Β Why asking for help is a sign of strength and how to build a supportive village
β’Β Practical strategies to rebuild after exhaustion β from realistic toβdos to setting boundaries and negotiating timelines
β’Β Creating a flexible business around your familyβs rhythms rather than the 9β5 grind
β’Β Bringing your kids along for the ride and redefining what success looks like
β’Β Mindset shifts to ditch labels, embrace discomfort and start dreaming again
Tune in for real talk, gentle encouragement and plenty of actionable tips. If youβre feeling overwhelmed, stuck or just ready for something new, this conversation is for you.
Links & resources
βΒ Connect with Sasha on Instagram: @SashaEburne__
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Childβs Passport After Divorce: How to Apply Without Stress
If youβve ever dreamed of travelling overseas with your child only to hit the wall of passport applications after divorce, youβre not alone. Between parental consent, court orders, and βspecial circumstances,β the process can feel overwhelming. In this episode, Beanstalk Mums Maggie breaks it all down clearly for single mums who want clarity before booking those flights.
What youβll learn:
Why both parents consent is usually needed for a childβs passport
What to do if your ex refuses or is missing
How βspecial circumstancesβ can allow you to apply alone
When and how the Family Court can step in
Costs, timelines, and what to expect
π Gentle reminder: This is information, not legal advice.
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Links & Resources:
Australian Passport Office β Children
Family Court of Australia
Beanstalk Mums Blog
Community legal centres (Australia-wide free/low-cost advice)
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Navigating Conflict and Co-Parenting: Strategies for Better Outcomes
In this insightful episode of the Beanstalk Mums Podcast, we explore the emotional terrain of co-parenting and conflict resolution with the calm and compassionate Thad Hollis, founder of Better Outcomes Coaching & Mediation.
With over 30 years of experience guiding families through separation and beyond, Thad offers practical tools and grounded wisdom to help single mums communicate more clearly, reduce stress, and make decisions that truly centre their childrenβs wellbeing.
Together, we unpack what healthy conflict actually looks like, how to listen (even when itβs hard), and why mediation can be a powerful resourceβnot just in crisis, but anytime things start to shift. Thadβs approach is gentle, respectful, and refreshingly human.
If youβve ever felt stuck in a co-parenting loop, unsure how to move forward, or just want more peace in your parenting partnership, this episode is here to support you. Real tools, real talk, and a quiet reminder: you donβt have to do this alone.
Tune in to feel steady, supported, and ready for better outcomesβwhatever stage youβre at.
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Links for this episode:
πΈ Visit Better Outcomes Coaching & Mediation
β¨ Learn more about divorce coaching with Thad
π―ββοΈ subscribepage.io/beanstalkmumslifehackgifts β Subscribe to the Beanstalk Mums newsletter for weekly support, podcast updates, and instant access to our life hacks library!
ποΈ https://beanstalkmums.com.au/podcast β Our brand-new widget is live on the Beanstalk Mums website! Drop us a voice message with your thoughts or questions; you might hear them in a future episode.
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Youβve got this! Letβs thrive together. And donβt forget to leave us a 5-star review andΒ follow the podcast so you never miss an episode packed with inspiration and practical tips for your journey!
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Finding Freedom After Separation | Legal Advice for Single Mums in Australia
Finding Freedom After Separation: A Conversation with Family Lawyer Ella Hickman
π Read the full podcast blog on Finding Freedom After Separation: Practical Legal Advice for Single Mums:
https://beanstalkmums.com.au/podcast/freedom-after-separation-practical-legal-tips-for-mums/
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https://www.facebook.com/groups/SingleMumVine
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Separation can feel like the end of something, but what if itβs also the beginning of something better?
In this episode of the Beanstalk Mums Podcast, Iβm joined by family lawyer Ella Hickman to unpack what freedom after separation really looks likeβpractically, emotionally, and legally. Whether you're just beginning the process or still dealing with the ripple effects, Ella shares expert advice and gentle encouragement every step of the way.
We explore common legal misconceptions, how to create realistic parenting plans, where to begin when separation becomes inevitable, and what kind of legal clarity brings the most peace. Ellaβs down-to-earth style makes even the complex feel manageable, helping you take that next step with confidence.
π Youβll also hear how to handle a difficult ex, prioritise safety and finances, and why the right support network is crucialβnot just for surviving separation, but for rebuilding something better.
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00:00 β Welcome + Meet Ella Hickman
01:58 β What βfreedomβ looks like post-separation
04:21 β The biggest legal misconceptions single mums have
07:45 β First steps to take when separating (legally + emotionally)
11:30 β Creating parenting arrangements that actually work
15:00 β Talking finances: urgent priorities for single mums
18:42 β Dealing with a difficult ex during the legal process
22:10 β How the right legal advice empowers emotional healing
26:33 β Ellaβs final message of encouragement for mums
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Links for this episode:
If youβre a mum considering separation or divorce but donβt have the means for a private lawyer, these resources are here to support you.
π Legal Aid Commissions - Each state and territory offers a Legal Aid Commission. They provide free legal advice, assistance with court documents, and representation in family law mattersβespecially if youβre on a lower income.
π Community Legal Centres (CLCs) - Community legal centres offer free family law guidance, cover separation and domestic violence, and often assist when Legal Aid isnβt suitable. There are nearly 200 across Australia, including specialist services like Redfern and Kingsford Legal Centres in NSW.
π Family Relationship Advice Line -This national helpline (1800 050 321) refers callers to legal, financial, and mediation services. They can help you explore all available free options.
π Womenβs Legal Services - Offers free, confidential legal advice and tailored support, especially for mums experiencing separation or domestic violence.
β¨ https://hickmanfamilylawyers.com.au β Learn more about Ella Hickman Family Lawyers. Expert guidance and compassionate legal support tailored specifically for single mums navigating separation.
π―ββοΈ https://www.facebook.com/groups/SingleMumVine β Donβt forget to join the Single Mum Vine on Facebook! Itβs the perfect spot to connect with fellow single mums for support and advice.
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Women's Health: Simple Shifts to Grow Fit and Strong
In this heartfelt episode of the Beanstalk Mums Podcast, we dive into Womenβs Health through the real and relatable lens of motherhood. With the ever-inspiring Ashley Sonnenberg from Mommy and Me Fitness, we explore what it truly means to prioritise your wellbeing in a life filled with demands, love, and little people.
Ashley shares her journey from healthcare professional to mama-focused fitness coach, and how sheβs helping mums ditch the guilt, perfectionism, and pressure to "do it all." Together, we unpack small, doable shifts that lead to lasting changeβbecause your health isnβt a luxury, itβs a necessity.
From energy and sleep to mindset and movement, this episode gently reminds you that you are worthy of care. You donβt need a perfect routineβyou just need a starting point and perhaps a village around you.
Tune in to feel seen, supported, and inspired to put yourself back on the listβwith kindness and without overwhelm.
Links for this episode:
πΈ https://mommyandmefitness.org/homeΒ β Start your Women's Health journey with Ashley here.
β¨ https://www.facebook.com/ashley.sonnenberg β Ashley's dedicated FB page to all things fitness and wellness.
π https://www.subscribepage.io/beanstalkmumslifehackgifts β Grab your 'Organized Mama Meal Blueprint' and many other single mum resources right here!
π―ββοΈ https://www.facebook.com/groups/SingleMumVine β Donβt forget to join the Single Mum Vine on Facebook! Itβs the perfect spot to connect with fellow single mums for support and advice.
ποΈ https://beanstalkmums.com.au/podcast β Our brand-new widget is live on the Beanstalk Mums website! Drop us a voice message with your thoughts or questions; you might hear them in a future episode.
Youβve got this! Letβs thrive together. Remember toΒ like and follow the podcast so you never miss an episode packed with inspiration and practical tips for your journey!
Welcome to the Beanstalk Single Mums Podcast
A supportive space created to empower single mums from all walks of life, no matter where they are on their solo parenting journey.
Hosted by Lucy Good (founder) and Elle Sitek (owner of beanstalkmums.com.au), each episode features expert guests who share practical advice and lived wisdom on the realities of single motherhood.
We cover everything from separation and family law to co-parenting, education, careers, dating, sex, wellbeing, household management, and financial independence.
π§ Listen on your favourite podcast app or watch the conversation come to life on our YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@BeanstalkSingleMums
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