The Hard Or Soft Show

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This week on Hard or Soft, we’re joined by Dre for a deep dive into BDSM, kink culture, play parties, relationships and the history behind a community that a lot of people participate in — but may not fully understand.

And somehow we start with Dre explaining why he’s out here using BOXING GLOVES to massage booty. 😂
 
From there, Dre takes us into the world of rope and body suspension, explaining the different levels of suspension, why properly distributing someone’s weight matters, and what draws people to the experience in the first place.

Then we get into the HISTORY. 

Dre breaks down the roots of leather culture, BDSM and kink, including the influence of LGBTQ+ communities on the culture that exists today. We discuss why some longtime members of those communities are critical of a newer generation entering kink spaces, hosting events and adopting practices without learning the history, traditions and responsibilities that came before them.

Then we bring everything back to relationships. 

Tahoe and Dre explain why they’ve chosen not to sexually engage with attendees while they’re hosting play parties. We talk about the best way to tell your partner you’re interested in someone else at a party, what happens when your kinks DON’T match your partner’s, and how to respectfully approach a couple when you’re interested in connecting with one of them. 

And then comes the conversation a lot of men aren’t prepared to have: How do men navigate their partners having other male partners?

We get into jealousy, communication, boundaries, multiple relationship dynamics outside of a primary partnership, and whether wanting freedom for yourself means being prepared to give your partner that same freedom. 

This isn’t just a conversation about what people do in kink spaces — it’s about understanding the culture, communication, consent and history behind them.

Welcome back to Hard or Soft.

Socials:

Dre
@BeatsByDre on Fetlife
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Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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This week on Hard or Soft, Courtney gets an unexpected business opportunity when a fan propositions her for feet pictures — and somehow that’s only the BEGINNING of where this episode goes. 

We get into why American women seem to love British men, which leads Tahoe, Yesssterday and Skip to announce their upcoming trip to London to find out whether English women have that same energy for American men.

Then we’re talking about what actually makes someone GOOD in the bedroom. How soon should you start discussing sex with someone you’re dating? Why do nerds have a reputation for being surprisingly great lovers? And could something as simple as being able to admit when you’re wrong actually make you better in bed? 

We also have a real conversation about male performance anxiety and how anxiety can affect the way men physically show up in sexual and play-party environments. Skip opens up about how becoming part of the Hard or Soft / Nut Navy community has helped increase his confidence, and the crew discusses why some women can be so judgmental about men using sexual performance enhancements.

Plus, we’re breaking down bedroom communication, sex positions that look like WAY more work than fun, Tahoe somehow ends up with Skip as his “astral penis,” and Skip tells us exactly what he likes — and doesn’t like — in the bedroom. 

Courtney returns with Kink of the Week, Yesssterday has a brand-new listener confession, and Tahoe makes an important announcement regarding Loon’s departure from Hard or Soft.

Funny, informative, vulnerable and completely inappropriate in all the ways you’ve come to expect from Hard or Soft.

Welcome back to the Nut Navy.

Socials:
Skip
@SkipFromBK on all socials

Tahoe 
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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This week Tahoe and Yesssterday sit with lifestyle domme and kink educator Daddy Doyenne to talk why they dont date straight men, the uncomfortablity Tahoe feels as a straight man being tip toeing around LGBTQIA and Cis womens traumas, should straight ppl and LGBQTIA segregate to maintain the peace, the origin of Daddys "demon" persona, what Daddys experience growing up was like and whather her family was supportive of it, establishing boundaries and knowing when to let ppl go, how speaking about these topics lets people know its ok to live in their truths and much more!! ENJOY!

Socials:
Daddy Doyenne
@Thee.Demonatrix on Instagram
@Daddy_Doyenne on Twitter
DaddyDoyenne.com

Tahoe 
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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This week on Hard or Soft, music artist and producer Kelly Moonstone joins the crew for a completely shameless conversation about pleasure, cheating, sexual chemistry and what men and women REALLY expect from each other in the bedroom.

Why do some people feel guilty after pleasuring themselves? And we tackle an even crazier question: Can cheating ever actually SAVE a relationship? Is infidelity always the beginning of the end, or can what happens afterward expose problems a couple needed to confront?

Then it’s confession time: What’s something you did because you were horny that you had absolutely NO business doing? 😂

We also break down the difference between great sex and genuine sexual chemistry—because they’re definitely not always the same thing.

Then the men turn the conversation toward women: What are five things women can do to be better in the bedroom? And why do some women expect men to bring their A-game sexually without putting that same level of effort into pleasing their partner?

Kelly Moonstone joins us for all of it as we talk pleasure, attraction, effort, chemistry, cheating and the things people don’t always admit about their sex lives. 

Welcome to Hard or Soft—where nothing about sex and relationships is off limits.

ENJOY!!

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Socials:
Kelly
@KellyMoonStone on Instagram

Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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This week on Hard or Soft, the crew gets into a wild conversation about attraction, sex appeal and what really makes someone unforgettable in the bedroom.

Are Black men too critical of Black women? How many people have probably pleasured themselves while thinking about you—or looking at your pictures? And the question nobody knew we needed answered: Is Tahoe actually a sex symbol? 👀

Tahoe also reveals his latest sex-toy purchases before the crew breaks down how men with smaller packages can still show up with confidence in the bedroom. Plus, Tahoe tells the story of how his girl actually studied the videos he sent her, took notes and came back ready to experiment. 😂

Then we get into backhanded sexual compliments, Courtney’s Kink of the Week, and Yesssterday introduces a brand-new Confessions segment that immediately goes completely off the rails.

Sex, relationships, attraction, bedroom confidence, kinks and absolutely zero shame—welcome back to Hard or Soft.

Socials
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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Enjoy!