I AM HER

A new episode of the I AM HER Podcast is out—and it hits deep. How can God pour into our lives if there's no room to receive?
In this powerful conversation, Pastor Lisa and Bekah walk through what it truly means to make room by decluttering not just our physical spaces, but also our mental load, spiritual distractions, and overcrowded calendars. This episode is for the woman who feels stretched thin, overwhelmed, or ready for a fresh start.
Together, they unpack fasting, accountability, planning, and intentional living, challenging listeners to release what no longer serves them so God can bring new growth and new blessings. If you're stepping into this new year expecting transformation, it begins with letting go.
Their prayer is that every listener enters the new year lighter, focused, convicted, and inspired—fully aligned and ready to receive everything God has prepared.
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00:06 Bekah introduces herself and mother Pastor Lisa Kai as the hosts of the I AM HER PODCAST.
00:38 Pastor Lisa said she was thinking about how to declutter and the comment Bekah made coming home and saying that they had so much stuff. Pastor Lisa says that she is Chinese and she likes to keep everything. But often she has to tell herself to make room for her new items.
02:11 Pastor Mike turned the garage into a gym and a car no longer fits in there. In life we have to make more room. We add things like a husband, a dog, a car, a child. How many mugs do you really need?
03:33 You have to let go of things to make space. If you are serious about making changes in your life this is the episode for you. Start by thinking about the things that God wants you to remove from your life.
04:26 Pastor Lisa says that she added Pilates to her routine and has been doing it for a whole year now. Bekah tells the story of how her dad Pastor Mike gifts Pastor Lisa classes to Pilates. Pastor Lisa was committed and held herself accountable.
06:07 Bible verse: Let us throw everything that hinders and let us ruj with perseverance. Sometimes we get so caught up in the busyness of life that we end up having no time for ourselves and most importantly for God.
07:28 Bekah states the definition of decluttering. And says that she also thinks about one thing she was good at in 2025 was decluttering her calendar. Prior years she went through alot of anxiensnous due to how busy her calendar was. Every sunday she looks at her calendar and looks at what she can remove or combine to make room for something else.
10;02 How you lead yourself in January is how you will lead yourself in the following months. Bekah shared to the YA that every year for her bday she asks God what do you need me to do for my life.
11:35 Key word hindering. What is hindering your life or preventing God from putting something in your life or giving you something due to not decluttering. We hold ourselves back.
12:43 Can we stay more focused this year and be more intentional with God. Clutter is essentially distractions.
13:45 Fasting is crucial to see what God is doing for us on this earth. It allows you to focus on Gods will. So that his will Matthew Cha6-43. Seek his kingdom first. Challenge yourself.




15:00 Pastor Lisa says she fasts the first 3 days of the month. Every single month.
15:36: 1. Declutter your time. Epehsians make the most of every opportunity Dont act thougthlessly. Prioritize your time and your relationships. Bekah added to that and said that she makes space in her calendar to feel Gods presence.
17:54 Bekah said she joined Orange Theory and loves it and she fins that it is so easy to set her alarm at 5am to go work out but why is it difficult to set it at 5am to worship God. Taking a good inventory of your life and ask yourself "Are you imserting God in your life?"
Pslams 5:3
19:23 Bekah says she bought a house in 2025 and the forst thought when she went to look at the house she looked around and said where in this house can I sit with God. Referencing Psalsms 5:3 again what does sitting with the lord look like for you right now?
21:13 Pastor Lisa says that it does not have to be the morning where you sit with God it can be the evening. Psalms 143:8. Pastor Lisa says that she says Good morning Jesus in th morning and then gets on her knees. What is one thing you can do different in the new year to start yout day? What in our day is not producing any impact? For Lisa its social media. She challenged herself to stay away from social media on the weekends.
25:01 2. Declutter our minds. Are you stuck in the same mental cycle. How much can your mind carry? 2 cor 10:5 take captive every thought Romans 12:2 be transformed. If you're negative maybe you need to have more faith. What you say matters. Are you gossiping or always ready to give your judgement or opinion. What if we replace negative thoughts and words with positive. Rather than saying you dont have something focus on what you do have.
29:21 keep jesus and his word as your daily focus. Verse Apart from me you cant do nothing. Plan your week starting on Sundays proverbs 16:3 commit to the lord. Planning for most is not their greatest strength but this is how we can simplify our lives so that we an give glory to God. God is structured. So we need to structure our lives to fit around him. Proverbs 21:5
Good planning and hard work lead to prosperity.
32:13 Pastor Lisa says its also important to have grace for others that are trying to plan and to have grace for ourselves if we do not follow our plan or structure. You control and determoe ow busy you are if you plan.
34:37 provers 27:17 hold yourself accountable. When God gives you plans,he wants you to execute. And lastly be intentional with the results that you want. What is your end goal? What do you want to accomplish? Verse referenced: habakkuk 2:2 and 3.
37:32 you become unstable when you have so many things in your head. You can miss opportunities because you are occupying yourself with something that is not apart of your plan.




Bekah says she will be 30 this year and she told Elijah that she only wants things that are going to be fruitful. Pastor Mike does a coaching session every January to help people elevate their lives. The Great Life Planner is something that she is using now.
40:29 get ready for what God wants to do in your life. Its time to declutter. And we hope this episode helps you do just that. The goal is to encourage you to get going.
42:00 Thank you for allowing us to speak into your life. Pastor Lisa and Bekah talk about how excited they are about the Arise Womens conference is happening in Feb at the Blaisdal arena. Pastor Lisa closes in prayer.

In a world where it feels easier than ever to tear each other down, what would it look like if we became women who intentionally build bridges instead of burning them? In this episode, Pastor Lisa walks through the topics of connection, honor, forgiveness, and the holy work of reconciliation. This one will stretch you, bless you, and remind you of the power you carry as a builder in God's kingdom.
This episode dives into the heart of what it means to be a bridge builder, a woman committed to connection, honor, and intentional growth. Pastor Lisa brings real, practical, sometimes hilarious, and incredibly convicting truth about the ways we build up or tear down the relationships God has entrusted to us.
From the dangers of gossip and complaining to the beauty of forgiveness and wise building, this conversation invites us into a higher standard: becoming women who reconcile, redeem, and restore.
You'll feel encouraged, challenged, and empowered to examine your own bridges and commit to building what lasts.
00:28 — The purpose of a bridge: connecting what's been separated. Pastor Lisa shares why God calls us to be "bridge builders" in the Women of Arise.
01:52 — How complaining, gossip, dishonor, and speaking death burn the very bridges we're called to build.
03:36 — Entering her 50s, Pastor Lisa reflects on the value of connection... and who's going to wipe her later in life!
05:44 — Learning not to burn bridges even after mistakes; choosing not to unfollow people just because we disagree.
07:10 — "No one can hurt me unless I allow them."




08:39 — Becoming wise builders who leave room for reconciliation. The story of keeping the porch light on for Bekah.
11:21 — Matthew 7:24-27: Jesus' teaching on the wise and foolish builders and our ability to build well.
14:00 — Being faithful with what God has given now. Not neglecting blessings simply because they don't look like what we want.
16:30 — Ways we burn bridges: dishonor, disrespect, and the power of valuing others. John Bevere's Influence on Understanding Honor.
19:27 — Gossip and slander: Proverbs 16:28. Gossip separates close friends and destroys bridges.
24:22 — Unforgiveness and bitterness: bitterness builds walls, not bridges.
25:30 — Pride and self-righteousness: how long will we wait to cross the bridge?
26:10 — Division and offense: the enemy doesn't have to destroy the church if he can divide it.
27:57 — Neglect and apathy: ignoring your husband's needs weakens the bridge of your marriage.
30:02 — Complaining and cynicism: Numbers 12. Complaining keeps us wandering when God calls us forward.
36:24 — Five ways to build bridges:
Speak life (Ephesians 4:29)

Choose forgiveness (Colossians 3:13)

Listen with love (James 1:19)

Practice gratitude

Be a peacemaker

40:18 — Bridges are built intentionally - Matthew 5:9.
41:24 — The ministry of reconciliation (2 Corinthians 5:18–19).
44:04 — Closing prayer and blessing.
Plus: a reminder about the February 2026 Arise Conference.

REGISTER FOR ARISE CONFERENCE 2026 TODAY! https://www.inspirechurch.live/events/arise-conference/

What does it mean to pour it all out for God truly? In this powerful episode, Pastor Lisa Kai takes us through her personal journey of obedience, sacrifice, and legacy, reminding every woman that our seasons, struggles, and stories all serve a divine purpose.
In this moving message, Pastor Lisa Kai delivers a word that will challenge and inspire you to pour it all out — in your faith, your business, and your legacy. From the story of the alabaster woman to the humble beginnings of Arise Ministry, Lisa shares her personal revelations about obedience, perseverance, and identity in Christ.
If you've ever questioned your calling or hesitated to step into what God placed inside of you, this episode will remind you that you were never meant to play small. It's time to give your best, lead with love, and build something that will outlive you.


Find books by Lisa Kai: https://www.LisaKai.Tv
To partner with Lisa Kai in bringing the word of God around the world, click here: https://raisedonors.com/poundforpoundministries/partner_lisa
Stay up to date on all things Lisa Kai + Bekah Lagafuaina: Website: http://www.LisaKai.tv Lisa Kai Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisakai Bekah Lagafuaina Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bkaiii/
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00:26 – Pastor Lisa opens with gratitude, thanking the women who said yes to both salvation and their God-given purpose.
02:10 – The prayer that changed everything: Lisa recalls asking God for true friends.
03:22 – Seasons come and go, but how we use them is on us.
03:43 – Pouring it all out becomes the central message of the day.
05:33 – The story of the woman with the alabaster jar (Mark 14:3–9) and the challenge to pour it all out for Jesus.
08:00 – Whether called Mary, a sinner, or unknown, she was remembered for her devotion. What will you be remembered for?
10:42 – Leaving a legacy for her kids and the church.
11:43 – Rededicating her life to Jesus, daily.
13:16 – The early Arise days: when Pastor Mike gave everything to build the church. 16:49 – Pouring out looks different in every season.




17:42 – Celebrating 15 years of Arise Ministry, Arise Conference will take place November 19–20 at the Blaisdell.
19:08 – How overthinking can stop your calling. Move before fear talks you out of it. 22:47 – The alabaster woman didn't hesitate; she just did it.
24:39 – How marriage and business reflect each other: both must be Christ-centered. 32:04 – Overcoming insecurities and comparison in leadership.
36:42 – Birthing what God gave you, even when fear tries to hold you back. (Galatians 1:10) 38:26 – Never stop giving God the glory.
43:44 – Build something that will outlast you. (Mark 14:9)
46:25 – Arise is a legacy movement (Proverbs 13:22).
48:07 – Pastor Lisa closes in prayer and reflection.

This episode of the I AM HER Podcast, Pastor Lisa and Bekah dive into a powerful and freeing conversation on forgiveness. They talk openly about why it can be so difficult, why it is essential, and how it has the ability to transform every part of your life. Through personal stories, biblical wisdom, and honest reflections, they explore the pride, the pain, and the process of truly letting go.
Forgiveness is not just about others, it is about you. It is about releasing offense, breaking free from the weight of bitterness, and stepping into the kind of joy and peace that only God can bring. Whether you are facing the challenge of forgiving those closest to you, carrying deep hurts that feel impossible to release, or simply needing to forgive yourself, this conversation will encourage you to take that first step toward healing.
Tune in and discover how forgiveness has the power to renew your mind, heal your heart, and set you free to live with freedom, joy, and peace.

"What if you carried God with you everywhere you went, into your work, your relationships, and even your struggles? In this episode of I Am Her, Pastor Lisa and Bekah share why we are called to be keepers of His presence and how repentance, awareness, and worship keep us aligned with God daily." 
In this powerful episode of I Am Her, Pastor Lisa returns from traveling to share a message with Bekah and the Inspire Church worship team, and now with you. Together, they remind us that God's presence isn't just for Sundays, but for every moment of our lives.
Episode Highlights:
00:01 – Bekah introduces her mom, Pastor Lisa, back on the podcast.

03:06 – "We are the keepers of His presence", the ark of the covenant explained.

06:11 – Repentance, Isaiah 53:6, and why God's presence wins battles.

09:36 – Don't leave God on the shelf.

11:00 – The take-out box illustration: carrying God everywhere.

14:30 – Conviction, repentance, and serving from a place of honesty.

17:28 – Repentance is like taking a shower.

20:52 – The danger of losing awareness of the Holy Spirit.

29:57 – Acts 3:19 and the prodigal son's return to God.

38:08 – Encouragement to carry His presence daily.

39:05 – Bekah's closing prayer.

40:07 – Final words and invitation to share and subscribe.

This conversation is a reminder that God is always with us, and as Pastor Lisa says, we are the keepers of His presence.