#110 BDSM isn’t just fantasy—it’s how real people grow. Alesandra and Deborah Kat get honest about living a D/s lifestyle: consent, safewords, limits, protocols, weekly check-ins, 24/7 dynamics, parenting, money, safety, community—plus the fun, kinky parts. Loved it? Follow Deborah’s 'Better Sex Podcast' and subscribe for more real talk.➡️ Deborah Kat's 'Better Sex Podcast': https://www.deborahkat.com/podcast➡️ Free Dom Sub Living newsletter: https://domsubliving.com/signup
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My 3 Must-Haves for Every BDSM Scene (True Story)
#109 What makes a BDSM scene truly work? We talk about limits all the time—but rarely about the things we actually need to feel connected, grounded, and fulfilled. In this episode, Alesandra opens up about her real must-haves for every scene and why yours matter just as much. Reflect on your own and share them with us after listening.➡️ Free Yes/No/Maybe checklist: https://domsubliving.com/checklist➡️ Explore our step-by-step courses: https://domsubliving.com/courses
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Spirituality and BDSM: What No One Talks About
#108 Can BDSM be spiritual? In this episode, we're exploring the meditative and transformative side of power exchange — from subspace and Domspace to mindful rituals, breathwork, and spiritual aftercare. Learn how intention and awareness can turn any scene into a sacred experience.➡️ Discover 20 rituals to make your dynamic sacred: https://domsubliving.com/rituals➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/108
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Expires Oct. 22: 3 Keys to a Killer D/s Dynamic
Missed the free training? You can still watch the replay—but only for a limited time!🔥 Head to https://domsubliving.com/masterclass now to watch the full video training, complete with step-by-step visuals and graphics.In this episode, we're sharing the audio from 3 Keys to Creating a Killer D/s Dynamic. You’ll learn how to build confidence, create deeper connections, and add structure to your dynamic—whether you’re a Dom, sub, or switch. These steps have already transformed so many lives, and now it’s your turn.🚨 Don’t wait—enrollment for our Dom Sub Training course closes Wednesday, October 22nd, at midnight, and the price goes up after that!➡️ Secure your spot today: https://domsubliving.com/masterclass
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How Doms Build Confidence Before and During a Scene
#107 Worried your sub will see right through your nerves? In this coaching call replay, Alesandra and her Dom, Jay, share real-world advice on how Dominants build confidence before and during a scene—through communication, self-awareness, and practice that makes play feel natural and fun. Listen now to learn how real Doms grow confident in every scene.➡️ Join our free community: https://domsubliving.com/community➡️ Get private coaching in our All-Access Pass: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess
Welcome to the Dom Sub Living Podcast, your go-to kinky resource, so you can get out of the vanilla rut, become the best Dominant or submissive you can be, and make BDSM a lifestyle. Explore the many facets of the Dom/sub lifestyle and gain practical insights and tips to enhance your journey.Your host, Alesandra Madison, is a renowned BDSM educator, empowering individuals and couples to embrace their sensual selves. As the creator of Domsubliving.com, Alesandra promotes sex education, healthy power dynamics, and open communication. With a commitment to inclusivity, she helps kinksters create authentic and fulfilling intimate experiences.Whether you're seeking guidance, desiring to deepen your understanding of the lifestyle, or simply looking for entertainment and connection, the Dom Sub Living Podcast is your trusted companion. You’ll learn about BDSM, kink, power exchange, Daddy Dom/little girl relationships (DDlg), D/s, sexual wellness, bondage, and more. Each episode features engaging discussions, expert interviews, and heartfelt stories, ensuring a diverse and enriching listening experience you're not going to want to miss. Hit subscribe, and get ready to transform your life and relationship.
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