The Sex Reimagined Podcast

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Ever been told you're "too wet" or worried you're "not wet enough?" In this episode of Sex Reimagined, Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown break down the real truth behind vaginal wetness, arousal signals, and why lubrication isn’t the only factor  with how turned on you actually are. They dig into why making noise during sex unlocks deeper arousal, the difference between Taoist and Tantric approaches to sounding, why lube should be a staple and never a source of shame, what happens once you experience female ejaculation, how to navigate period sex with confidence, and how to have a compassionate conversation with a partner about hygiene without triggering shame. This one is packed with practical, body-literate tools for anyone who has ever felt self-conscious about wetness, smell, sound, or fluids during sex.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS
Wetness and arousal don't always match. Cervical fluid, cycle timing, and hormones can make you wet or dry independent of how turned on you feel.
Sounding isn't performance, it's a shortcut to pleasure. Making noise from the top of your inhale to the bottom of your exhale moves energy and gets you out of your head.
Female ejaculation strips away viscous fluid. Ejaculators often need more lube afterward, not less.
Lube is a tool, not a confession. Reaching for it has nothing to do with how attracted you are to your partner.
Period sex has ancient roots as ritual and healing, not just something to tolerate or avoid.
Hygiene conversations go better with curiosity and a "we can do better here" frame instead of blame.
LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/too-wet-not-wet-enough 
Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available)
Tantra Unlocked: A Map to Sacred Sexuality for Real People | Sep 16 and 17, 2026 > Most people spend their entire lives having the same experience on repeat. This September, twelve of the most trusted voices in conscious sexuality are gathering live to give you the real map. Free to Register: https://www.sexreimagined.com/power-of-pleasure
The Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8
We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register at sexreimagined.com/events
Rooted in Desire: A Women's Weekend Retreat
One woman told us she walked out having shed sixty years of shame in a single weekend. That's what happens in a room where women are finally given permission to feel what's true. Rooted in Desire is an intimate retreat blending pelvic floor release, tantric breathwork, and sisterhood. Join Leah & Dr. Willow Brown in Santa Barbara, January 30-31, 2027. sexreimagined.com/rooted-in-desire
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From Rupture to Rapture: How Do You Actually Find Your Way Back to Your Partner After a Fight? In this episode of Sex Reimagined, Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown map out the full journey from relationship rupture to reconnection, walking through the exact sequence they use in their own partnerships and coaching work. They cover self regulation tools like havening, co-regulation practices like the Tantra Cuddle and chakra spooning, the "bubble practice" for clearing a conversation before it starts, and why slow, non-sexual touch is often the missing bridge between conflict and intimacy. They also get into samskaras, the old wounds that get triggered mid-argument, and why naming them out loud can turn a fight into one of the most bonding conversations a couple can have.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS
Why a rupture with your partner isn't the problem, and what actually determines whether it pulls you apart or brings you closer
The self soothing touch technique that calms your nervous system before you say another word
A spooning practice that syncs your breath and your energy faster than any conversation can
The "bubble" you need to build before a hard conversation even starts
What your partner's words might really be touching from your past, and why naming it changes everything
The non-sexual touch practice that has to happen before you get anywhere near rapture
LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/rupture-to-repair-reconnect-after-a-fight 

Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available)
Tantra Unlocked: A Map to Sacred Sexuality for Real People | Sep 16 and 17, 2026 > Most people spend their entire lives having the same experience on repeat. This September, twelve of the most trusted voices in conscious sexuality are gathering live to give you the real map. Free to Register: https://www.sexreimagined.com/power-of-pleasure
Rooted in Desire: A Women's Weekend Retreat
One woman told us she walked out having shed sixty years of shame in a single weekend. That's what happens in a room where women are finally given permission to feel what's true. Rooted in Desire is an intimate retreat blending pelvic floor release, tantric breathwork, and sisterhood. Join Leah & Dr. Willow Brown in Santa Barbara, January 30-31, 2027. sexreimagined.com/rooted-in-desire
Support the show
Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new
FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and Workbook
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Leah's Website

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Why doesn't penetration make every woman orgasm, and what does the outer vulva have to do with the vaginal orgasm you're chasing? In this episode, Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown break down the anatomy of arousal that most couples skip straight past, including the clitoral shaft and legs, the vestibular bulbs, and why what they call premature penetration sabotages deep, contractive vaginal orgasms. They walk through concrete touch techniques for vulva stimulation and G-spot stimulation, the palming method for combining external and internal pleasure during penetrative sex, and how word bath dirty talk can heal sexual shame stored in the body. Whether you've faked orgasms during penetrative sex for years or you're just curious about the difference between a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal orgasm, this conversation gives you the anatomy, the technique, and the permission to slow down.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS
There's a name for the thing almost every couple does wrong before penetration even starts, and it's the biggest reason vaginal orgasms feel out of reach.
The clitoris is way bigger than the part you can see. Wait until you hear how far back the shaft and legs actually go, and what that has to do with why humping things felt so good as a kid.
There's a simple hand technique you can use during penetration, with a partner or a toy, that Leah says increases your odds of orgasm by about 80 percent.
Most people who dislike fingering were never fingered well. Leah explains exactly what goes wrong and what actually works instead.
Willow shares the one shift in touch, tied to pressure and speed, that can make clitoral stimulation feel five to eight times better almost instantly.
Word baths sound simple, but they can unlock a kind of somatic shame release that neither partner expected. Leah gives you the actual words to use.
LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/why-cant-i-orgasm-from-penetration
Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available)
Tantra Unlocked: A Map to Sacred Sexuality for Real People | Sep 16 and 17, 2026 > Most people spend their entire lives having the same experience on repeat. This September, twelve of the most trusted voices in conscious sexuality are gathering live to give you the real map. Free to Register: https://www.sexreimagined.com/power-of-pleasure
The Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8
We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register at sexreimagined.com/events
Rooted in Desire: A Women's Weekend Retreat
One woman told us she walked out having shed sixty years of shame in a single weekend. That's what happens in a room where women are finally given permission to feel what's true. Rooted in Desire is an intimate retreat blending pelvic floor release, tantric breathwork, and sisterhood. Join Leah & Dr. Willow Brown in Santa Barbara, January 30-31, 2027. sexreimagined.com/rooted-in-desire
Support the show
Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new
FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and Workbook
SxR Website
Dr. Willow's Website
Leah's Website

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Men Aren't Misbehaving in Bed. They're Terrified of Failing You. Alison Armstrong is back for round three, and if you have followed her work on understanding men since 1991, you already know she has a gift for making male behavior finally make sense. If this is your first time meeting her, buckle up, because she is about to change how you think about every man in your life. In this episode, Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown sit down with Alison for a raw, funny, and genuinely eye opening conversation about why so many men quietly give up on sex as they get older, and it has almost nothing to do with wanting you less.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS
Men often quit sex due to shame after erectile dysfunction, not because their desire for their partner has faded.
Shame is worse than emasculation because it disconnects a man from his own spirit, while emasculation only affects his sense of productivity.
Sexual feedback lands best as gentle, judgment free clues rather than direct criticism, what Alison calls the warmer, colder, hot approach.
Many men experience direct questions as interrogation, so framing feedback as an invitation, like asking permission to share favorite moments, respects their need for productivity and control.
Alison's new concept, the ever presence of death, reveals how men's quiet awareness of mortality shapes their drive for purpose, protection, and honor in relationships.
LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: http://sexreimagined.com/alison-armstrong-why-men-stop-having-sex 
Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available)
Tantra Unlocked: A Map to Sacred Sexuality for Real People | Sep 16 and 17, 2026 > Most people spend their entire lives having the same experience on repeat. This September, twelve of the most trusted voices in conscious sexuality are gathering live to give you the real map. Free to Register: https://www.sexreimagined.com/power-of-pleasure
The Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8
We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register at sexreimagined.com/events
Rooted in Desire: A Women's Weekend Retreat
One woman told us she walked out having shed sixty years of shame in a single weekend. That's what happens in a room where women are finally given permission to feel what's true. Rooted in Desire is an intimate retreat blending pelvic floor release, tantric breathwork, and sisterhood. Join Leah & Dr. Willow Brown in Santa Barbara, January 30-31, 2027. sexreimagined.com/rooted-in-desire
Support the show
Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new
FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and Workbook
SxR Website
Dr. Willow's Website
Leah's Website

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Do Women Actually Want to Become Masterful Lovers, or Have We Only Ever Trained Men to Try? Leah and Willow dig into real conversations with men who are quietly craving more curiosity and skill from their partners, unpack why presence can be more powerful than technique, and get honest about the conditioning that's kept women playing it safe in bed. Funny, tender, and overdue.
 IN THIS EPISODE:
Why men are craving more reciprocity, not just more sex
The nine minute presence trick that stops a room
What a hand resting on his body really means to him
The conditioning behind why women hold back
Why it's finally safe to want sexual mastery too
LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/masterful-lover 
Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available)
Tantra Unlocked: A Map to Sacred Sexuality for Real People | Sep 16 and 17, 2026 > Most people spend their entire lives having the same experience on repeat. This September, twelve of the most trusted voices in conscious sexuality are gathering live to give you the real map. Free to Register: https://www.sexreimagined.com/power-of-pleasure
Rooted in Desire: A Women's Weekend Retreat
One woman told us she walked out having shed sixty years of shame in a single weekend. That's what happens in a room where women are finally given permission to feel what's true. Rooted in Desire is an intimate retreat blending pelvic floor release, tantric breathwork, and sisterhood. Join Leah & Dr. Willow Brown in Santa Barbara, January 30-31, 2027. sexreimagined.com/rooted-in-desire
Support the show
Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new
FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and Workbook
SxR Website
Dr. Willow's Website
Leah's Website