What happens when the person you’re divorcing is still living under the same roof? In this episode, we’re talking about one of the hardest and most emotionally draining parts of divorce — sharing a home with your ex while trying to move on.You’ll learn the top 10 reasons why so many divorced moms end up stuck in this situation and how to navigate it with less stress, fewer arguments, and more peace. If you’re living with a high-conflict ex and trying to keep your sanity — this episode is for you.✨ Ready for more support? Join us inside The Next Chapter Membership for our exclusive workshop, “Divorcing but Still Roommates,” where we’ll teach you step-by-step how to navigate this dynamic, protect your peace, and start creating the freedom you deserve.👉 Join The Next Chapter here: https://www.samandleah.com/services
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Helping Kids Cope with Divorce: What Younger vs. Older Kids Need Most
Whether your kids are toddlers or teenagers, divorce affects them all — just in different ways. In this episode, Sam & Leah break down how children of different ages experience divorce and what parents can do to help them feel secure, seen, and supported.You’ll learn: 💛 How younger kids process divorce emotionally (and what helps them adjust) 💬 What older kids and teens need most when co-parenting gets hard 🧠 How to communicate in age-appropriate ways that build trust 🏡 Tips to create stability between two homes 💖 Simple ways to help your kids feel safe, even in the middle of major changeNo matter your child’s age, your calm, consistent presence matters more than anything else.👉 Ready for more support? Join The Next Chapter — our private membership for divorced moms where you’ll get access to weekly workshops, expert guest speakers, live Q&As, and a private community that gets it. Gain instant access here: https://www.samandleah.com/services
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5 Ways a High-Conflict Co-Parent Will Try to Ruin Halloween
Halloween should be all about candy, costumes, and fun — not chaos, guilt trips, and last-minute plan changes. But when you’re co-parenting with a high-conflict ex, even one night of trick-or-treating can turn into an emotional battlefield.In this episode, Sam and Leah break down the top five ways a high-conflict co-parent will try to ruin Halloween — and how to protect your peace, stay grounded, and keep the focus on your kids (where it belongs).You’ll learn how to: 🧾 Set firm, drama-proof boundaries that stop the chaos before it starts 🕵️♀️ Recognize manipulation tactics and respond with calm confidence 💬 Communicate effectively without feeding the conflict 💖 Help your kids feel secure and happy, even when your ex is trying to stir things up 💆♀️ Protect your own peace so you can actually enjoy the holidayBecause your kids don’t need a perfect Halloween — they just need you calm, present, and grounded.✨ Ready to make every holiday peaceful and empowering — no matter what your ex does? Join The Next Chapter, our private membership for divorced moms navigating high-conflict co-parenting. Inside, you’ll get access to the full High-Conflict Halloween workshop, plus weekly coaching, expert trainings, and a supportive community of women who get it.👉 Join today at https://www.samandleah.com/services and start transforming your co-parenting journey from chaotic to confident.
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Even in 50/50 Custody, One Parent Does More
Even with 50/50 custody, one parent almost always carries the heavier load—and it’s usually mom. In this episode, we’re breaking down the truth about the “default parent” role after divorce: the one organizing school projects, handling sick days, managing communication with teachers and coaches, and carrying the invisible mental load that no one talks about.We’ll unpack why this imbalance happens, how to protect your energy, and what boundaries you can start setting today to make co-parenting more manageable and fair.If you’re ready to stop carrying it all alone and start getting the tools, support, and confidence to thrive after divorce, join The Next Chapter—our monthly membership for divorced moms who are ready to heal, rebuild, and co-parent with confidence.👉 Learn more and join here: https://www.samandleah.com/services#DivorcedMoms #CoParentingTips #DefaultParent #50_50Custody #DivorceSupport #MomLife #HighConflictCoParenting #DivorceRecovery #DivorcePodcast #TheNextChapter #HealingAfterDivorce #SingleMomSupport
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How to Protect Your Peace and Prioritize You During Divorce
Divorce can drain you — emotionally, mentally, and physically. That’s why self-care during divorce isn’t optional, it’s essential. In this episode, Sam & Leah share the most practical, realistic ways to take care of yourself while navigating one of life’s hardest transitions.From getting better sleep and moving your body to setting boundaries around your ex and your energy, these simple daily habits will help you feel stronger, calmer, and more in control. You’ll learn how to protect your peace, support your nervous system, and start rebuilding the version of you that feels grounded and confident again.Because when you take care of you, everyone — especially your kids — benefits.✨ Join The Next Chapter Membership ✨ If you’re ready to heal, rebuild your confidence, and co-parent with more peace, join our private community for divorced moms: The Next Chapter. Inside, you’ll get live weekly workshops, expert guest speakers, a supportive community of moms who get it, and tools to help you move forward with confidence. 👉 Join here: https://www.samandleah.com/services
Welcome to our podcast, a heartfelt and insightful series hosted by two certified divorce coaches who have personally experienced the complexities of divorce. Our podcast is a blend of personal insights and professional expertise, focusing on topics like rebuilding self-esteem, mastering the art of co-parenting with a high-conflict ex, and fostering resilience in both yourself and your kids. Our goal is to offer you a sanctuary of healing, tools, and practical advice. Join us in transforming your divorce experience into a journey of personal growth and empowerment.
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