Divorce Finance Nightmares & the Lessons You Can’t Afford to Miss
What happens when the financial picture in your divorce is way messier than you expected?In this powerful episode of Divorce with Sam and Leah, we’re joined by Certified Financial Planner and Divorce Financial Analyst, Morgan Murray, who walks us through real-life divorce finance horror stories—and the critical lessons that came out of them. From hidden accounts to unmanageable debt to last-minute retirement plan saves, this episode is packed with red flags to watch for and smart steps to take.Whether you’re still in the process or already divorced, this episode will open your eyes to what really happens when the money gets messy—and how to protect yourself.We cover:What to do if your ex controls all the financesHow “weaponized incompetence” delays the legal processWhy that house might not be the asset you think it isHow to untangle financial messes with the right professionalsWhy speed, communication, and transparency matter more than everReal stories. Real strategies. Real empowerment. Don’t miss this one.Connect with Morgan: https://abri.io/💡 Ready to protect your peace, rebuild your confidence, and co-parent with confidence after divorce? Join The Next Chapter membership for weekly workshops, expert guest trainings, and a supportive community of women who get it. Your fresh start starts here 👉https://www.samandleah.com/services
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How to Shut Down That Mean Girl in Your Head
If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking, “I should’ve known better,” or “I’m failing my kids,”—this episode is for you.Negative self-talk after a toxic relationship or divorce is so common, and yet, nobody really talks about how damaging it can be. The guilt, the shame, the feelings of failure… We’ve felt it all. And for a long time, we believed every harsh thing we said to ourselves.But learning how to shift that inner voice? It changed everything—how we showed up as moms, the decisions we made for our future, and the way we saw ourselves.In this episode, we’re sharing:The sneaky ways negative self-talk shows upWhy your inner critic isn't actually your voice10 powerful tools to stop the spiral and start rebuilding confidenceHow to start talking to yourself like someone you loveBecause you’re not broken—you’re rebuilding. And you deserve to feel safe, seen, and whole in your own mind.Let’s quiet the mean girl in your head and help you reconnect with your truth.👉 Ready to keep healing and reconnect with who you are outside of the pain? The Next Chapter is my monthly membership for moms ready to rebuild their confidence, set boundaries, and co-parent with strength and clarity. You don’t have to do this alone.Join us here: https://www.samandleah.com/services
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When His Anger Controls Your Life
If you're constantly putting your toxic or abusive ex’s feelings above your own—this episode is for you.So many divorced moms stay stuck in fear, walking on eggshells and avoiding things they want to do because they’re terrified of their ex’s reaction. Whether it's setting a boundary, taking a vacation, or even just showing up happy—if you're still shrinking yourself to avoid his triggers, this conversation will help you shift that mindset.We’re breaking down:Why his reactions are not your responsibilityHow fear keeps you stuck in old patterns5 empowering reminders to help you stop prioritizing him over yourselfWhat it really means to choose you (and show your kids how to do the same)It’s time to stop managing him and start reclaiming your peace. 💥✨ If this episode hit home and you’re ready to feel more confident, supported, and emotionally free—join us inside The Next Chapter. It's our monthly membership designed for moms healing from divorce and navigating high-conflict co-parenting. You don’t have to do this alone. 👉 Join here: https://www.samandleah.com/services
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What Teens Really Want You to Know About Divorce
In this powerful episode, we’re sharing the raw, honest truth straight from teens who lived through their parents’ divorces. These aren’t expert opinions or textbook strategies — they’re real insights from kids who know firsthand what helped, what hurt, and what they wish their parents had done differently.From the value of therapy and structure, to the emotional damage of oversharing and being stuck in the middle, this episode breaks down seven impactful lessons every divorced parent needs to hear.Whether you're in the thick of it or already years out, this conversation will help you show up for your kids in ways that actually matter.Because healing isn’t about perfection — it’s about presence, consistency, and choosing love over drama every single time.Your kids might not say it out loud, but these are the things they need you to hear.✨ Want more support as you navigate divorce and co-parenting?Join The Next Chapter — our private membership for moms ready to heal, rebuild, and co-parent with confidence. Inside, you’ll get weekly workshops, expert guidance, and a community that truly gets it.👉 https://www.samandleah.com/services
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When Your Attorney Is the Real Red Flag
Not all attorneys are created equal—especially when you're navigating divorce or a high-conflict custody battle. In this episode, we’re calling out the red flags you need to know when it comes to working with a divorce lawyer.If you’ve ever wondered, “Is my attorney really fighting for me—or just running up the bill?”… this one’s for you.We’re breaking down the top 10 signs your attorney is stirring the pot for profit instead of supporting your best interest. From unnecessary court filings to shady communication patterns, we’re pulling back the curtain and giving you the insight you deserve.Whether you’re already working with an attorney or still searching for the right one, this episode will help you protect your peace, your wallet, and your future.If you’re a divorced or divorcing mom ready to heal, rebuild, and take your power back—come join us inside The Next Chapter Membership. We’ve got the tools, support, and sisterhood to help you thrive: https://www.samandleah.com/services
Welcome to our podcast, a heartfelt and insightful series hosted by two certified divorce coaches who have personally experienced the complexities of divorce. Our podcast is a blend of personal insights and professional expertise, focusing on topics like rebuilding self-esteem, mastering the art of co-parenting with a high-conflict ex, and fostering resilience in both yourself and your kids. Our goal is to offer you a sanctuary of healing, tools, and practical advice. Join us in transforming your divorce experience into a journey of personal growth and empowerment.
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