Coming Up for Air

In this episode, I open up about being single for four years and how every year of that journey reshaped me. From the heartbreak of my first Christmas alone, to rebuilding my life, losing my job, finding clarity, and finally choosing myself over rushing into love. I talk about why my healing had to come before any new relationship, and how this year I finally feel ready for something new because I’ve worked hard to become a version of myself who won’t bring chaos, old wounds, or old stories into my next chapter. If you’re on your own healing journey, this episode is for you.Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula My New Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/move.with.lou/Join Us on Patreon - ⁠patreon.com/ComingUpForAir⁠ Youtube - https://youtu.be/uf90Uc_owUw Support the show

In this episode, I’m flipping December on its head. Instead of slipping into nostalgia or repeating old rituals, I’m sharing how I build future-facing, identity-shaping traditions that support the version of me I’m becoming.I dive into why December feels so emotionally heavy and how I use it as the most intentional month of my year. Expect unconventional rituals, zero boring advice, and mindset shifts that help you step into your strongest, most future-focused self. Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula My New Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/move.with.lou/Join Us on Patreon - ⁠patreon.com/ComingUpForAir⁠ Youtube - https://youtu.be/uf90Uc_owUw Support the show

 In this episode, I’m talking about what it’s really like to go into December single not the Instagram version, but the honest, emotional, surprisingly empowering reality of it. I share the deeper mindset shifts, the things people never say out loud, and the ways this season can actually feel lighter, calmer, and more grounding when you’re on your own. Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula My New Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/move.with.lou/Join Us on Patreon - ⁠patreon.com/ComingUpForAir⁠ Youtube - https://youtu.be/uf90Uc_owUw Support the show

In today’s episode, I’m opening up about the deeply personal journey of rebuilding my self-worth after being broken down by someone I loved. I talk about the difference between who I truly am and what someone else once made me feel, and how I’ve had to remind myself that my value isn’t defined by another person’s choices. I share the small steps, the emotional shifts, and the daily acts of care that helped me slowly reclaim the parts of myself I lost along the way. If you’ve ever felt abandoned, replaced, or “not enough,” I hope my experience helps you feel less alone.If you’re struggling to believe you matter, this episode is for you. We’ll walk through it together honestly, gently, and with the reminder that our worth has always belonged to us.Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula My New Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/move.with.lou/Join Us on Patreon - ⁠patreon.com/ComingUpForAir⁠ Youtube - https://youtu.be/uf90Uc_owUw Support the show

Every year I do a birthday episode. This year has been interesting and hard but I have managed to reflect on why its been a tough year. I also knew that my 32s were going to be a year of growth in every area of my life. I have had to apply so much of the work I did in therapy to different areas of my life too. I share my mindset shifts with you & why I feel like the year of being 33 will be the best year I have had since I turned 29 and went through my break up.  I’m sharing the lessons that changed me, the mindset shifts I’m bringing into this next chapter, and the things I’m leaving behind for good. If you’ve ever felt like you were rebuilding your life piece by piece, this episode is for you. Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula My New Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/move.with.lou/Join Us on Patreon - ⁠patreon.com/ComingUpForAir⁠ Youtube - https://youtu.be/uf90Uc_owUw Support the show