Hiss & Tell: Cat Behavior and Beyond

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Your cat isn’t “fine” just because they’re quiet! Cats are built to hide pain, and that’s exactly why so many chronic issues like kidney disease, dental disease, arthritis, hypertension, and even heart disease get missed until they explode into a crisis.

I sit down with veterinarian Dr. Kevin Toman, who has 40 years in practice and now focuses on pet longevity science, to talk about how to help cats not only live longer but live better. We dig into the subtle at-home signals that matter most, why litter box changes often point to medical problems, and how simple diagnostics like SDMA, urinalysis, blood pressure checks, and the Pro-BNP test can act as an early warning system. If you’ve ever wondered whether your cat’s “aging” is actually treatable pain, this conversation gives you a practical framework.

We also tackle the confusing stuff: supplement hype versus evidence, nutrition marketing that targets humans instead of feline biology, and the most reliable longevity lever most households can actually implement: calorie control paired with better enrichment. Then we get into hypertrophic cardiomyopathy (HCM), a condition Dr. Toman says may affect up to one in six cats, and what’s changed recently with rapamycin and other prescription longevity drugs. We close with clear, actionable steps and the kinds of “why” questions to ask your vet so your cat’s care fits their real risk.

If you found this helpful, subscribe, share the episode with another cat guardian, and leave a rating or review so more people can find the show. What’s one health topic you want us to go deeper on next?

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Your cat is missing and everyone has advice, but a lot of it can make things worse. I sit down with Kimberly Freeman, a professional lost cat finder who has reunited cats with their families across nearly every state and more than 24 countries, to lay out what actually works when a missing cat disappears into stress mode.

We dig into lost cat behavior: why cats often hide in silence, why they may not come when called, and why a friendly cat can still hiss or bite when you finally find them. Kimberly breaks down the biggest myths in the lost pet world, including putting a litter box outside, relying on social media alone, and assuming a cat is dead after just a few days. We also talk about how far indoor-only cats typically go, why some cats get trapped in basements, garages, and sheds, and the surprisingly common “transport” scenario where a cat rides under a car and jumps out miles away.

You’ll hear a practical, science-based approach to searching: how to profile your specific situation using indoor vs outdoor history, personality, weather, and neighborhood layout, plus the real clues most people miss like fur, paw prints, fence marks, and patterns of movement. We clear up microchip misconceptions (it’s ID, not GPS), compare GPS collars, RFID, and AirTags, and share what to do in the first hour, including how to avoid lost pet scams.

If you want a calm, systematic missing cat search plan you can act on immediately, this conversation is for you. Subscribe for more cat behavior help, share this with a friend who loves cats, and please leave a rating or review so more cat parents can find the show.

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“My cat is being difficult” is one of the most common lines I hear as a clinical feline behaviorist, and it’s usually pointing to something deeper than “bad behavior.” I’m joined by Dr. Zazie Todd, psychologist, animal behavior expert, psychologist and author of Purr: The Science of Making Your Cat Happy, to unpack what’s really going on when cats swat, bite, hide, scratch the wrong things, or seem moody and unpredictable.

We get practical fast: how to set up your home for feline well-being with simple hiding spots and perches, how boredom shows up in indoor cats, and why choices and control matter so much to cat welfare. We also dig into reward-based training and clicker training, including how to teach a cat to feel safe in a carrier so vet visits don’t turn into a wrestling match. Along the way, we talk about why punishment and dominance myths harm the human-cat bond and can increase fear, anxiety, and aggression.

Then we zoom in on communication. We break down the body language that people miss, why the “belly flop” isn’t always an invitation, and what to watch for when petting turns into overstimulation. If you live with multiple cats, we cover how to tell real fighting from play by looking for role swaps, loose bodies, pauses, and whether claws are out. We also share where feline behavior research is growing and what we still need to learn, especially about kittens and socialization.

If you want a calmer home and a happier cat, listen, share it with a fellow cat guardian, and please subscribe and leave a rating or review so more people can find science-based cat behavior help.

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Kindness is having a weird moment right now, and I mean that as a compliment. I sit down with CatBeats, a cat-loving electronic musician (and my longtime friend), to talk about how cats can pull us out of our heads and back into the present, whether that shows up as music, meditation, or just learning to live by consent and patience.

We dig into how CatBeats began: two cats, a noisy news cycle, and a need for healing music. From there, we get real about grief and what cat grief can look like after a loss, including why animals can struggle quietly in ways people often overlook. We also explore “music for cats,” including research and shelter use cases, and why purring, rhythm, and familiar sound cues may matter more than we think.

Then we pivot to community and impact: the All Cats Are Cute charity vinyl and why we chose Brooklyn Animal Action, plus how rescue, TNR, and community cat support depend on humans who rarely get enough backup. We also hit punk history, ethical questions around exotic cats and animal cafes, and a very practical cat behavior tip for stopping nighttime foot attacks (yes, it works, and yes, it takes commitment).

If you care about cat behavior, animal welfare, cat rescue, and the oddly healing power of a good purr, you’ll find a lot here. Subscribe for more, share this with a cat person in your life, and please leave a rating or review so the show can reach more listeners.

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A cat’s skin ripples, the tail whips, and suddenly the whole house feels on edge. We sit down with Dr. Stefania Uccheddu, a veterinary behaviorist and diplomate of the European College of Animal Welfare and Behavioral Medicine, to decode feline hyperesthesia - a condition that blurs the boundaries between neurology, dermatology, and behavior. 

We share what caregivers actually see - rolling skin, flank licking, tail chasing, self-directed aggression - and why these events often ride a wave of predatory frustration and low resilience. Drawing on Dr. Uccheddu's long-term study, we compare three practical paths: medication alone, behavior modification, and their combination. The headline: both meds and behavior change work, but environmental and behavioral adjustments drive stronger long-term stability. Gabapentin offers fast relief for sensory-pain arousal; fluoxetine supports emotional regulation. Used together with targeted enrichment, they give sensitive cats a calmer baseline and a safer way to live in busy human homes.

If you’re navigating hyperesthesia, this conversation delivers a blueprint. We walk through the five pillars of a cat-friendly home, consent-based handling, and play that mimics prey from stalk to catch. You’ll hear how to identify and defuse triggers, create quiet retreats, use puzzle feeders to channel focus, and prevent episodes before they crest. We also unpack early socialization gaps, orphaned kittens, and why modern indoor life can overwhelm genetically sensitive cats - plus how to taper medication after a stable year and keep gabapentin as an “emergency kit” for moves, visitors, and big changes.

Come for the science, stay for the hope. With careful observation, smart enrichment, and humane use of medication, even severe cases can turn the corner. If this helped you or someone you know, subscribe, leave a review, and share your cat’s biggest trigger - we’ll feature tips and updates in future Ask the Behaviorist segments.