Welcome to “Let’s Talk Attachments”, a podcast all about ATTACHMENT THEORY! My name is Jessica Da Silva and I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Attac...
Is It Them or Me? Separating My Avoidant Fears With Randy Hamama (Client Stories)
In today’s episode, former client and dismissive avoidant attacher Randy Hamama shares his journey of navigating insecurities in a new relationship. He discusses common avoidant struggles, such as discerning fears from authentic desires, staying present when the urge to withdraw arises, identifying what makes a partner feel safe for avoidants, and understanding when it’s worth staying with an avoidant partner or when it’s time to walk away.
Whether you have an avoidant attachment style or are in a relationship with someone who does, this conversation offers valuable insights and practical takeaways.
Learn about attachment coaching with Jessica here.
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How Our Attachment Style Influences Our Relationship to Food and our Body With Vanessa Scaringi and Kathryn Garland
Today on the podcast, Vanessa Scaringi, PhD, CEDS-C, a licensed psychologist and certified eating disorder specialist supervisor, and Kathryn Garland, LCSW-S, CEDS-C, a clinical social worker and certified eating disorder specialist supervisor, discuss:
How attachment styles influence our relationship with our body and eating habits
How different attachment styles may experience eating disorders
The impact of early relational experiences on eating behaviors
Tools to heal and rebuild a positive relationship with your body
And so much more!
Vanessa and both co-own a group practice Calm Counseling in Austin Texas that specializes in the treatment of disordered eating and body image issues.
Contact Vanessa and Kathryn:
www.keepcalmtx.com
Instagram: @calmcounselingatx
Work with Jessica:
www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Instagram: @thejessicadasilvacoaching
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From Heartbreak to Finding Love With Hannah Flynn (Client Stories)
In today's episode, the wonderful Hannah Flynn, a former client of mine, shares her journey of navigating her avoidant attachment style, overcoming deception and heartbreak, and ultimately finding healthy, secure love.
We discuss:
The challenges of communication with an avoidant attachment style.
The importance of addressing conflict rather than avoiding it to maintain peace.
The pain of being deceived in a trusted relationship.
Learning your relationship needs and desires through trial and error.
The journey to finding love again.
Learn about Attachment Coaching with Jessica here.
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Getting Attached to Things Outside of Our Relationships (Personal Share)
I had a revelation recently with a big life change. I noticed similar insecure ways of thinking and feeling surface that resembled how I used to feel in unhealthy relationship dynamics. The goal with this episode is to help you reflect on how you may be "insecurely attaching" to things outside of your relationships, such as your home, belongings, items, routines, goals, dreams, by highlighting similar attachment patterns that could be harming you rather than helping you. Most importantly, how to shift your approach!
ATTACHMENT COACHING WITH ME:
Book a free clarity call here.
www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
[email protected]
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Redefining Your Perspective on Needs With Chris Rackliffe
Today on the podcast we have Chris Rackliffe, also known as @crackliffe. He is a trauma healer, mental health advocate, anxious attachment style coach, and author of the new self-help book, Needy No More: The Journey From Anxious to Secure Attachment—available exclusively on Amazon beginning November 19, 2024. Chris has worked with countless clients across five continents to help them heal their anxious attachment style and grow more secure, sharing everything he’s learned on his own healing journey—from how to integrate trauma and regulate the nervous system, to how to effectively communicate and set boundaries. With a B.S. in Psychology from the University of Miami—and an honorary Ph.D. in the “School of Life”—Chris has made it his sole purpose to help others find peace, perspective, purpose, and power through their trauma.
We discuss:
-Why it's important to know your needs for relationship health and satisfaction.
-How to identify and meet your needs.
-How to measure if your needs are being met within your relationship.
-Creating a balanced approach of give and take.
-When to stay or leave your relationship.
Contact and work with Chris:
Check his my website and TikTok!
Get your copy of his first book, It's Good to See Me Again, on Amazon now.
Contact and work with Jessica:
10 Week Attachment Coaching
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
[email protected]
Welcome to “Let’s Talk Attachments”, a podcast all about ATTACHMENT THEORY! My name is Jessica Da Silva and I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Attachment Coach helping you transform the way you experience love by teaching you the ins and outs of your attachment style in a practical and relatable way.
Website: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com/
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Email: [email protected]