You were taught to equate love with pain. With disappearing. With giving until there’s nothing left. But what if that wasn’t love? What if it was survival—masquerading as devotion?In this episode, we break down the lies you’ve been sold about love, from loyalty that punishes to selflessness that erases you. You’ll learn to recognize the difference between love that heals and love that harms—and how to return to yourself without guilt.If you’ve ever called your own erasure love, this one’s for you.
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Stop Letting Shame Define You—Transform it Into Your Power
Shame can be a powerful and paralyzing emotion that keeps us stuck in unhealthy patterns. In this video, we dive deep into the difference between shame and guilt, explore the origin of shame, and discuss how to reframe it into a tool for personal growth. Learn how to take responsibility for your past without letting it define you, and discover how to transform shame into power, healing, and self-compassion. It’s time to break free from the cycle of self-judgment and reclaim your true worth.
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Your Desire to Be 'Good' Is Destroying Your Life
Are you trapped by the desire to be seen as 'good'? Today, I dive into how society’s expectations and the constant pressure to live up to an ideal version of “good” can destroy your life. I share my personal story of trying to meet these impossible standards and how they led me to lose touch with my true self. It’s time to let go of the cage of ‘goodness’ and embrace who you really are. This painful truth will set you free—if you’re brave enough to face it. Watch as we challenge the norms and discover the freedom that comes from letting go of these societal expectations.
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Master Detachment—Stop Clinging and Take Back Your Power
We dive into the art of detachment and how to stop clinging to emotional wounds that keep you stuck. Learn how to start choosing yourself over unhealthy attachments. This is not about disconnecting from love, but about healing from within, setting boundaries, and freeing yourself from patterns that no longer serve you. It’s time to step into your true power and authenticity.
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When You Can't Cut Them Off—How to Protect Your Peace with Boundaries
In this, I’ll guide you through the essential practice of setting boundaries with the people you can't cut off but still need space from to protect your peace and prioritize your healing. When it feels like you can't escape certain relationships, it's vital to create the emotional distance necessary for growth. Learn how to navigate these tough situations, establish healthy limits, and preserve your well-being without entirely severing the connection.
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