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Dominic Stanley
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  • The Middle Way: Finding Balance in the Push and Pull of Life
    There’s a quiet moment that arrives just after I close my eyes — that instant when I can feel the shift from doing to being. In that space, I’m reminded that everything in our practice is a dance between opposites.Today’s meditation grew out of that very idea. In my yoga class earlier, we explored how opposites shape equilibrium — how the pendulum of life constantly swings, yet somehow we stay grounded in the middle. It’s one thing to talk about balance on the mat, but quite another to notice it in the everyday: the inhale and exhale while waiting at a red light, the tension and release of a hard conversation, the push and pull between striving and surrendering at work.When we meditate, we become witnesses to this movement. The breath teaches us: inhale, exhale — receive, release. If you hold your breath in or out for too long, discomfort rises. The same happens when we cling to something we love or avoid something we fear. In this way, the body becomes a teacher, showing us what the mind sometimes forgets — balance doesn’t mean stillness; it means being steady amid change.As the practice unfolded, I guided attention from the breath to the sensations in the body, the subtle dance of warmth and coolness, comfort and discomfort. Even our thoughts carry this rhythm — one moment pleasant, the next uneasy. Yet each time we return to awareness, we discover the space between.That’s what this practice really is: engagement without attachment. To be fully in the moment without being swept away by it. It’s a way of living that extends far beyond the cushion. In the middle of traffic, when irritation rises, can you breathe and stay curious? When you’re with someone you love, can you enjoy the sweetness without grasping for more? When you feel pain, can you notice it without making it the whole story?These opposites — holding on and letting go, comfort and discomfort, joy and sorrow — they don’t cancel each other out. They define each other. They make us human.So as we close, let gratitude ride the breath. Gratitude for what’s pleasant and what’s not. Gratitude for the rhythm that carries us — inhale and exhale, rising and falling, coming and going. The practice is never to escape it, but to rest right there, in the balance of opposites.With Metta, may you be well.⏱ Timestamp Breakdown & Real-Life Applications* 00:01:05 Introduction to opposites & equilibrium* Notice how your mood or energy shifts throughout the day — the pendulum of tired and alert, calm and anxious. Both belong.* 00:02:11 Witnessing experience* In conflict, pause before reacting — observe what’s happening to you and within you.* 00:07:03 Watching the breath* Try this in traffic: notice each inhale/exhale as a reminder that movement and stillness coexist.* 00:10:47 The breath as a relationship with the world* Each breath is an exchange — what can you give and what can you receive in your relationships today?* 00:16:32 Turning toward body sensations* When discomfort arises (a sore back, a long meeting), soften around it instead of resisting.* 00:22:14 Exploring thoughts we like and dislike* When craving a pleasant memory or resisting an unpleasant task, see both as part of the same field of awareness.* 00:26:41 Engagement without attachment* At work or home, give full effort without measuring your worth by the outcome.* 00:29:29 Closing with gratitude* Before bed, list one thing that challenged you and one that nourished you. Both can be teachers.💬 Let’s Reflect Together* Where do you notice opposites most clearly in your daily life — at work, at home, or within yourself?* How do you tend to react when things feel uncomfortable — do you lean toward holding on or letting go?* What does “engagement without attachment” mean to you in relationships or work?* Can you recall a time when gratitude softened something painful?* How does your body remind you of balance when your mind forgets?Share your reflections in the comments—I’d love to hear how impermance is alive in your practice.Follow me on all the socials* Substack* Website* Instagram* Facebook* YouTube This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sitwalkwork.substack.com
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  • 🌿 The Season of Change: A Meditation on Renewal
    Every season asks something of us.Autumn, in particular, invites a sense of release. It reminds us that letting go isn’t loss—it’s preparation. In this week’s guided meditation, I explore how the transitions of nature mirror our own inner cycles. Through the body, the breath, and awareness, we practice softening into change and remembering that renewal begins with paying attention.Lately, I’ve been feeling the subtle shift in the air—the way mornings are quieter, how the light hits differently through the window. Nature is changing clothes again. And like it or not, we’re asked to do the same.As I guided this week’s practice, I kept returning to the theme of renewal through awareness.Before we can begin again, we need to acknowledge what we’re still holding on to.We opened with the idea of setting a wise intention—a clear understanding of why we’re here. In a world full of notifications and noise, wise intention is a kind of compass. It’s what helps us decide how we want to meet the day, the season, the moment.In my own life, I see how intention changes everything. When I walk into a conversation already defending my point, I close the door on curiosity. But when I enter with the intention to understand, something softens. The same thing happens in traffic when someone cuts me off—if I can shift from reaction to awareness, even that small moment becomes a practice of renewal.From intention, we moved into the body scan—a journey through sensation. The right side, the left, front, and back. What I love about this is that it teaches us to befriend change in the smallest way possible. One second, your shoulder feels tight; the next, it releases. The body is a classroom for impermanence. It shows us, over and over again, that no experience—pleasant or unpleasant—lasts forever.I thought of how this translates beyond the mat or cushion.When we’re parenting, the house feels chaotic.When a project at work keeps shifting direction.When we’re lying awake replaying the same thought on loop.Each is an invitation to pause, breathe, and scan what’s really happening—not to fix it, but to feel it fully.Then, we touched the breath—that constant reminder of rhythm and reciprocity. Every inhale gathers, every exhale releases. Like the trees, we’re always taking in and giving back. Breath becomes a rehearsal for trust: that what leaves will return in another form.As the meditation deepened, we explored thoughts and opposites—how worry and ease, tension and rest, co-exist. When I notice anxiety, I also look for where I still feel grounded. When I feel unappreciated, I can also find small evidence of care. These contrasts are not contradictions; they’re coordinates that keep us oriented in the middle of real life.And then we arrived at the witness—the space of awareness itself.The quiet place in us that watches everything rise and fall without needing to control it.This, to me, is where renewal truly begins—not by changing what’s happening, but by remembering there’s a space in us big enough to hold it all.In daily life, this looks like remembering that there’s room for both fatigue and gratitude, both uncertainty and hope. You’re not too much. You’re simply in motion, like the seasons themselves.When the meditation ended, I sat for a moment longer, breathing in the fullness of it all. The falling away. The newness is already beginning underneath.That’s renewal—not a return to what was, but a reintroduction to what’s still here.🕰️ Timestamp Breakdown + Real-Life Reflections00:01:06 — Setting the Theme: The Season of Change🪶 Reflection: Notice what’s changing around you—light, temperature, mood—and let it mirror what’s shifting within you.00:06:18 — Wise Intention💡 Application: Before starting your day, pause and ask: What’s my intention for this next moment? Meetings, conversations, even commutes feel different when guided by awareness rather than autopilot.00:08:20 — Grounding & Inner Resource🌳 Application: Recall a time or place you felt completely safe. Let that memory become an anchor during stressful situations—a body-based reminder that steadiness lives within you.00:12:10 — Body Scan🫀 Application: When caught in tension (physical or emotional), scan the body. See if you can meet each sensation with curiosity rather than control.00:23:01 — Breath as Release🌬️ Application: Use exhaling as a daily ritual of letting go. Stuck in traffic? Exhale. Waiting for news? Exhale. The body knows what the mind resists.00:29:13 — Working with Thoughts & Opposites⚖️ Application: When a thought feels heavy, name its opposite. Anxiety ↔ Calm. Frustration ↔ Patience. Both can exist—and both can teach you.00:36:09 — Gratitude & Joy💛 Application: Notice one simple joy that arises uninvited—the sound of leaves, a sip of coffee, your body doing its quiet work. Gratitude often hides in plain sight.00:43:13 — The Witness & Spacious Awareness🌌 Application: Practice noticing the space between experiences. Between thoughts, between breaths, between tasks. That’s where renewal lives.00:54:36 — Gentle Closing & Integration🤲 Application: Transition slowly. Don’t rush to the next thing. Carry the residue of awareness into your day, like embers that keep warmth alive.💬 Let’s Reflect Together* What are you being invited to release this season?* How does your body tell you when it’s time to rest or renew?* Can you recall a moment recently where your breath helped shift your mood?* What small joy reminds you that you’re still growing?* Where in your life do you need more spaciousness—more room to simply be?* How might your “wise intention” guide you through this next chapter?Share your reflections in the comments—I’d love to hear how impermance is alive in your practice.Follow me on all the socials* Substack* Website* Instagram* Facebook* YouTube This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sitwalkwork.substack.com
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  • Sitting with Loss Breathing Through What Remains
    Today’s meditation brought me face-to-face with a theme many of us try to avoid: loss and grief. These are not abstract ideas—they show up in our daily lives in ways both subtle and sharp.When I think of grief, it’s not just the loss of a loved one. It can be the traffic jam that robs us of the time we wanted to spend differently, the relationship that changes in ways we didn’t expect, or the promotion that didn’t materialize. Even something as ordinary as waking up with a stiff back can carry its own sense of loss—of how we thought the day would feel versus how it actually does.The practice began with the breath. Each inhale offered space, each exhale invited acceptance. Acceptance didn’t mean liking what happened. It meant allowing myself to hold the weight of reality, the way we keep the weight of a grocery bag we didn’t plan on carrying—it’s heavy, but it’s ours now.From there, we scanned the body, noticing where those losses tend to lodge. For me, it’s often in the shoulders, rising up toward my ears when I’m stressed. For others, it might be the belly tightening during an argument or the jaw clenching when a child refuses to listen. Wherever it appears, the body is honest about what we’re holding.We then brought in a gentle swaying movement, side to side, forward and back—a reminder that we are never stuck. Just as we keep walking through a tough workday or keep moving after hearing difficult news, our bodies can remind us that forward movement is always available.The practice closed with gratitude. Gratitude isn’t meant to cancel grief, but to stand alongside it. Like light filtering into a dark room, gratitude softens the edges of heaviness. For me, that looked like feeling thankful for the breath itself, for the chance to sit, and even for the reminder that being human means being alive to both joy and sorrow.This meditation reminded me that resilience is not about pushing pain away. It’s about being with it—kindly, patiently, and fully—while still remembering that we can move forward.May you, too, find space to hold both the grief and the gratitude.Timestamp Breakdown + Real-Life Applications* 00:01:05 – Naming the theme (loss & grief):Application: Recognizing that grief isn’t only death—it’s traffic jams, changes at work, shifting relationships.* 00:01:38 – Anchoring with the breath:Application: Inhale space when a meeting runs over, exhale acceptance when a child won’t cooperate.* 00:02:28 – Body scan:Application: Notice the clenched jaw in a tense conversation or the tight belly during financial stress.* 00:03:23 – Gentle swaying movement:Application: Even in long lines or during long nights with a newborn, remind yourself you’re never fully stuck.* 00:05:41 – Setting a wise intention:Application: Entering practice—or your workday—with kindness rather than judgment.* 00:10:25 – Inviting a memory of loss:Application: Recall a time plans didn’t go your way and use breath to hold it with compassion.* 00:16:19 – Heart-centered awareness:Application: When you feel disappointment in your chest, breathe into the heart to soften it.* 00:23:25 – Rocking as resilience:Application: During heavy days, small movements (stretching, walking, swaying) remind us of forward momentum.* 00:26:15 – Welcoming gratitude:Application: Even on hard days, find a small thanks—warm coffee, a kind word, or simply the breath.💬 Let’s Reflect Together* Where do you notice grief or tension showing up in your body?* What helps you move when you feel emotionally “stuck”?* How has gratitude helped you hold something painful more gently?* Can you recall a time when staying with discomfort taught you something important?Share your reflections in the comments—I’d love to hear how impermance is alive in your practice.Follow me on all the socials* Substack* Website* Instagram* Facebook* YouTube This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sitwalkwork.substack.com
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  • Finding Balance in Change: A Guided Meditation for Peace and Presence
    This week on Sit, Walk, Work, I led a guided meditation centered on spaciousness and impermanence—two qualities that shape not only our practice, but the way we live every day.We began with the breath. Each inhale and exhale was a reminder that no two moments are ever the same. Impermanence reveals itself here: every breath is similar, yet completely unique. It’s the same truth that shows up in daily life. A difficult conversation with a partner or coworker may feel endless, but just like the breath, it changes. Tension softens, moods shift, and what feels permanent in one moment often dissolves in the next.From there, I invited you to set a wise intention. In meditation, this means choosing the energy you want to bring—curiosity, peace, kindness. But it’s no different outside of practice. Before stepping into a meeting or starting your day, pausing to set an intention can shape everything that follows. If you begin with the spirit of curiosity, even a frustrating situation can unfold differently.Next, we worked with the spaciousness that arises in the pauses between breaths. At the top of the inhale and the bottom of the exhale, stillness exists. These pauses may feel small, but they reveal something vast. In daily life, we encounter similar pauses: the red light on the commute, the line at the grocery store, the waiting room before an appointment. These moments, which often stir frustration, can become opportunities to breathe and find space.We then widened attention beyond the breath to include sound. The hum of a fan, the chatter of voices, the silence itself—all come and go without our control. Life mirrors this. The ping of a phone notification or the sudden noise of traffic feels urgent in the moment, but it too passes. Seeing this in meditation makes it easier to hold distractions lightly in daily life.From sound, we moved into the body. Sensations—comfort, discomfort, warmth, pressure—are constantly shifting. Even chronic pain or restlessness isn’t fixed; it vibrates, changes, and moves in subtle ways. This practice of noticing without resistance helps us respond differently to discomfort, whether it’s an achy back, a restless night, or the stress of a long workday.As the practice deepened, I encouraged you to meet whatever arose with equanimity. Life doesn’t always feel balanced, but meditation teaches us that balance isn’t the absence of discomfort—it’s the ability to remain steady while it moves through us. Think of an argument at home or stress at work: instead of pushing against it or wishing it away, we can rest in the knowledge that it too will change.We closed with gratitude and loving kindness. Gratitude doesn’t need to wait for the extraordinary; it can be found in the warmth of morning coffee, the silence before the day begins, or even the simple gift of breath itself. From gratitude, we moved into offering ourselves compassion: May I be happy. May I be peaceful. May I be safe and protected.And here’s where practice meets life most clearly. Loving kindness isn’t confined to the cushion. I often bring it into meetings, silently repeating: May you be peaceful. This simple wish changes how I listen and how I respond. It’s a reminder that just as I need kindness, so do others.Meditation shows us that everything—breath, sound, sensation, thought—arises and fades. Impermanence is not something to fear; it’s what allows space for growth, healing, and renewal. Spaciousness is not empty; it’s the opening that lets kindness flow through.So this week, when life feels tight or overwhelming, pause. Notice the breath. Widen your attention. Remember that everything shifts. And choose to meet it all with love.May you be happy. May you be peaceful. May you be safe and protected.💬 Let’s Reflect Together* The next time you’re stuck in traffic or waiting in line, how might you use that pause as a chance to practice spaciousness instead of frustration?* When conflict arises at home or work, what helps you remember that the moment—and the emotion—will change?* Have you ever noticed how even discomfort in the body shifts if you pay attention to it? How could that awareness change the way you respond to pain or stress?Share your reflections in the comments—I’d love to hear how impermance is alive in your practice.Follow me on all the socials* Substack* Website* Instagram* Facebook* YouTube This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sitwalkwork.substack.com
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  • Start Here: The Third Pillar: Practicing Mindfulness Through Work
    When I sat down to record this episode, I wanted to talk about something that touches every corner of our lives: work. Not just the job we get paid for, but the ongoing work of being human — washing dishes, sending emails, having conversations, solving problems.So often, these tasks happen on autopilot. We brush our teeth while planning the day, eat lunch while checking messages, or listen to someone talk while preparing our response. Life becomes a blur of things to get through rather than experiences to be present for.This episode is the final part of the Start Here series, where I’ve been laying out the three pillars of conscious living: sitting with awareness, walking with presence, and working with intention.In this conversation, I introduce a simple framework I use for bringing mindfulness into daily work: Arrival, Attention, Completion.* Arrival: Pause before starting. Take one breath and ask, What does this task actually require from me right now?* Attention: Do the task with full presence. One thing at a time, fully.* Completion: Acknowledge when the task is finished before moving on.When you apply this framework to even the simplest activities — making coffee, answering emails, brushing your teeth — those small, ordinary tasks become opportunities to practice presence.I also guide you through a short practice you can do with a pen and paper (or any object nearby), so you can feel what intentional work is like in real time.This is how mindfulness becomes woven into the fabric of life. Not as something extra we do, but as the way we do what we’re already doing.Thank you for walking with me through this Start Here series. We’ve explored sitting, walking, and working — not as separate practices, but as different expressions of the same thing: the art of paying attention.And though this closes the introduction, it’s really just the beginning. In future episodes, we’ll explore deeper practices, real-life challenges, and how mindfulness can transform the way we live and work.Until then, may your attention be a gift to yourself and to everyone around you.⏱ Timestamp Breakdown* 00:00 – 01:15 — Setting intention and choosing presence* 01:15 – 04:35 — Work as the third pillar of conscious living* 04:35 – 06:50 — Arrival, Attention, and Completion explained* 06:50 – 09:40 — Applying mindfulness at work: meetings, email, phone calls, transitions, problem-solving* 09:40 – 16:29 — Guided practice of intentional work with an object or writing your name* 16:29 – 18:09 — Weekly challenge: integrating all three pillars into daily life* 18:09 – 19:21 — Closing reflections: the art of paying attention💬 Let’s Reflect Together* Which daily task do you find yourself doing most often on autopilot?* How would it change your experience if you applied Arrival, Attention, and Completion to it?* Do you notice a difference in your mood or energy when you give full attention to a routine task?Share your reflections in the comments—I’d love to hear how gratitude is alive in your practice.Follow me on all the socials* Substack* Website* Instagram* Facebook* YouTube This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sitwalkwork.substack.com
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