The Gary Zukav Podcast

• Relating to Someone Who is Negative

  What do you do when someone you love is often negative, judgmental, or emotionally shut down—and you want to create a genuine, meaningful relationship with them? In this episode, Gary Zukav responds to a listener’s heartfelt question about their difficult relationship with a negative parent. Through his answer, Gary invites us to shift our understanding of where emotional pain comes from and how we can transform it into spiritual growth. Gary explains that authentic power doesn’t come from trying to change or "fix" someone else—it comes from recognizing how others activate painful parts of our own personalities. When we encounter negativity, especially from someone we love, it can feel overwhelming. But instead of focusing outward, Gary guides us inward, encouraging us to become emotionally aware and take responsibility for what arises within us in those moments. That’s where true empowerment begins. The solution? Shift your attention from the other person’s negativity to your own internal reaction. Let the painful physical sensations guide you to the frightened parts of your personality. Then, from the healthiest part of yourself, choose to respond with appreciation and love. These moments are powerful opportunities for growth. What You’ll Discover in This Episode: (00:42) — Why relationships themselves aren’t empowered—you are (01:36) — How others activate internal dynamics that originate in fear (02:30) — The role of physical sensations in identifying frightened parts of your personality (03:45) — Why you can’t make your emotions disappear—but you can choose how to respond (04:15) — How appreciation, even in challenging moments, becomes a path to spiritual growth Embrace the Soul Step Challenge: Think of someone in your life who tends to bring up frustration, disappointment, or judgment in you. When you feel that reaction arise, pause. Instead of trying to change them, explore what’s happening within you. What are you feeling in your chest, throat, and solar plexus? Can you stay with those sensations without blaming them for your discomfort? Ask yourself: Is this a frightened part of me? Then choose to act from the healthiest part of yourself—and notice what shifts. Are you practicing judgment or discernment? Learn more as Gary explains the difference in this illuminating video. Let’s Connect: Gary Zukav | Website Gary Zukav | Instagram Gary Zukav | Facebook Gary Zukav | Books Gary Zukav | YouTube Gary Zukav | X (Twitter)

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• Together Miniseries #1: We're All In It Together

  In this episode of The Gary Zukav Podcast, Gary shares a profound message about the unity of Life and the transformational journey humanity is undergoing. As the old world dissolves and a new one takes form, he reminds us that we are all part of something greater—a human family that is inseparable from all of Life. Whether we recognize it or not, we are immersed in a global awakening, a shift from the pursuit of fear-based power toward the creation of authentic power rooted in the soul. Gary distinguishes between the old and the new consciousness, and how shares half of humanity is now experiencing life as multi-sensory beings. From this new awareness, we see power not as domination or control, but as alignment of the personality with our soul. He explains that every moment—no matter how challenging or hopeful—is an invitation to choose love, compassion, and awareness. The key question becomes: Are we responding from love or fear? When we recognize the frightened parts of our personality and choose love instead of control, we contribute to the evolution of our species and embody the new consciousness. It’s all about our choices! Our souls learn through choices, and our transformation begins within. Please do not take anything that Gary or Linda share as true just because they say it. If it resonates with you, experiment with it in your life. If it doesn't, let it go. What You’ll Discover in This Episode: (00:45) — What it truly means to be "in it together"—and why it's still true even if we no       longer feel it (03:05) — The difference between the "little you" (personality) and the "large You" (soul) (05:52) — What defines the new consciousness—and why we are more than minds and bodies (08:54) — How some of us experience reality as multi-sensory and others do not yet (12:06) — How the chaos in the world reflects the contrast between the old and new consciousnesses (15:09) — Why young people today often operate from the new consciousness without needing to name it ​​Create the life you desire by choosing love over fear. Learn how HERE. Embrace the Soul Step Challenge: Between now and the next episode, in a notebook/journal, write down the moments when you catch yourself seeking external power—through appearance, achievements, possessions, or influence. Ask yourself: Was I trying to manipulate or control this situation or someone else in order to feel safe and valued? What might love have chosen at this moment? This week, allow yourself to see clearly when you are acting from fear, and take one small step toward alignment with your soul. Let’s Connect: Gary Zukav | Website Gary Zukav | Instagram Gary Zukav | Facebook Gary Zukav | Books Gary Zukav | YouTube Gary Zukav | X (Twitter)

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• When Are Boundaries Necessary?

  Boundaries are often seen as emotional shields—tools we use to protect ourselves from pain, discomfort, or conflict. But what if the impulse to build boundaries comes not from wisdom, but from fear? In this episode, Gary Zukav explores why emotional pain doesn’t come from other people, but from within, and how true emotional mastery begins not with distancing ourselves from others, but by turning inward. Gary shares a transformative perspective on emotional pain, revealing that what often looks like a need for boundaries is actually a call for emotional awareness. Through a powerful story and candid reflection, he explains that our emotional reactions are not caused by others—they’re activated by parts of ourselves rooted in fear. By identifying these frightened parts and cultivating emotional literacy, we begin to understand the real source of our discomfort—and reclaim our power. The key? Shift from reaction to response. Instead of erecting boundaries, challenge the painful inner dynamics that others activate. When you stop trying to change the outside world to feel better, you begin to create authentic power from the inside out. Please do not take anything that Gary or Linda share as true just because they say it. If it resonates with you, experiment with it in your life. If it doesn't, let it go. What You’ll Discover in This Episode: (00:34) — Why emotional boundaries often originate from fear, not love (02:21) — The story of a Chan Master and the lesson that transformed Gary’s understanding of emotional independence (05:32) — How repeated emotional pain reveals what still needs healing within yourself (07:45) — A step-by-step guide to developing emotional literacy through physical awareness (10:19) — How gratitude, not boundaries, is the doorway to authentic power (11:58) — Why “Love includes” is more than a mantra—it’s a way of living Embrace the Soul Step Challenge: Think of a moment when you wanted to put up a boundary—perhaps you felt hurt, overwhelmed, or annoyed. Ask yourself: Was I trying to protect myself, or was I trying to avoid feeling something deeper? This week, pause when that impulse to create distance arises. Notice the physical sensations in your body, and let yourself feel them without reacting. Explore what’s really being activated inside of you. Then ask: Can I respond from love instead? Discover a new way of seeing and experiencing the world. Start your journey to multisensory perception HERE. Let’s Connect: Gary Zukav | Website Gary Zukav | Instagram Gary Zukav | Facebook Gary Zukav | Books Gary Zukav | YouTube Gary Zukav | X (Twitter)

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• Everything is an Opportunity

  In this episode of The Gary Zukav Podcast, Gary invites listeners to look beyond the surface of life’s events—both joyful and painful—and recognize that everything we encounter is an opportunity for spiritual growth. Whether it’s a burst of inspiration, a moment of frustration, or an intense emotional experience, each instance is an opening to become more emotionally aware and to choose with intention. Gary explains that we are constantly creating consequences through our choices, whether we realize it or not. Most people live in reaction to fear, unconsciously reinforcing painful patterns. But when we become aware of the frightened parts of our personality—and consciously choose love instead—we begin to create authentic power. That’s the essence of our evolution as multi-sensory beings in the Earth School: learning to choose love again and again. The key to transformation lies in choosing with awareness. When you infuse your intentions with love rather than fear, you shift the trajectory of your life—one choice at a time. Please do not take anything that Gary or Linda share as true just because they say it. If it resonates with you, experiment with it in your life. If it doesn't, let it go. What You’ll Discover in This Episode: (00:40) — What "opportunity" really means in a spiritual context—and what it doesn’t mean (02:17) — How every moment, even the painful ones, is a chance to choose love over fear (05:56) — Why unconscious intentions create unintended consequences—and how to change that (10:15) — The spiritual power of emotional awareness and separating yourself from fear-driven reactions (14:35) — A multi-sensory view of the Golden Rule—and how intention transforms everything (17:00) — Why your spiritual teachers aren’t concerned with your job, relationship, or finances—and what they are focused on Embrace the Soul Step Challenge: Look at your day—this morning, this evening, this very moment. What is being activated in you? Is it fear, frustration, or judgment? Or is it love, compassion, and presence? Pause and reflect: What intention are you bringing into your experiences right now? This week, practice noticing when a frightened part of your personality is active, and instead of reacting, consciously choose to act from love. Let every moment become your spiritual classroom. Explore your full potential, so you can give the gifts you were born to give. Enroll in Soul Themes Today. Your soul has been waiting for you to take this journey! Let’s Connect: Gary Zukav | Website Gary Zukav | Instagram Gary Zukav | Facebook Gary Zukav | Books Gary Zukav | YouTube Gary Zukav | X (Twitter)

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• Supporting vs. Projecting

  When we try to support someone we care about, how can we tell if we’re truly helping—or just projecting our own fears onto them? In this episode, Gary Zukav and Linda Francis examine the subtle yet significant difference between supporting others from love versus projecting our own unacknowledged pain. He shares why spiritual partnerships require self-awareness and humility, and how even well-intentioned insights can be laced with fear if we haven’t looked within first. Gary offers a deeper look at how emotional reactions often point to the parts of ourselves we most want to avoid. When something someone says—or even the way they are—triggers us, it's an opportunity to notice what's unresolved within. Using personal stories and reflections, he illustrates how recognizing these hidden parts of ourselves can transform judgment into compassion and distance into connection. The solution? Become aware of the frightened parts of your personality that may be influencing your perspective. By turning inward before offering feedback to others, you begin to respond from love instead of react from fear—and that shift changes everything. Please do not take anything that Gary or Linda share as true just because they say it. If it resonates with you, experiment with it in your life. If it doesn't, let it go. What You’ll Discover in This Episode: (00:36) — How projecting your fears can disguise itself as support (01:22) — Why your emotional reaction might reveal more about you than the other person (02:18) — The power of pausing before responding in spiritual partnerships (03:10) — A personal story: how a strong judgment unveiled Gary’s own hidden beliefs (04:07) - Linda shares her experience of projecting a strong judgment on a friend and how that created distance between them (05:00) — How recognizing your projections leads to healing and reconnection Embrace the Soul Step Challenge: Think of a recent moment when you gave feedback or advice to someone. Were you truly offering support—or were you hoping they'd behave in a way that made you feel better? This week, pause before reacting. Ask yourself: Am I seeing clearly, or am I projecting something I haven’t yet healed? Be willing to explore what’s underneath your reaction. Let compassion guide you back to love—first for yourself, then for others. Are you creating with love or fear in your life? Take this self-assessment today to find out. Let’s Connect: Gary Zukav | Website Gary Zukav | Instagram Gary Zukav | Facebook Gary Zukav | Books Gary Zukav | YouTube Gary Zukav | X (Twitter)

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