SuperPsyched with Dr. Adam Dorsay

Dr. Adam Dorsay introduces his podcast episode featuring Melissa Orlov, a Harvard-educated expert on ADHD and marriage and author of “The ADHD Effect on Marriage” and “The Couple’s Guide to Thriving with ADHD.” They discuss what adult ADHD is and is not, emphasizing attention dysregulation, distractibility, impulsivity, planning and working-memory difficulties, and emotional dysregulation, along with the hereditary and neurochemical basis (notably low dopamine) and why stimulants can be calming by increasing dopamine availability. Dorsay shares his own late ADHD diagnosis, his first experience taking Ritalin, and how medication helped him build habits and identity-based changes he later maintained without medication.
Orlov describes common, predictable relationship patterns in ADHD-impacted couples, including the “hyperfocus courtship” phase driven by elevated dopamine and the shift after 24–28 months when symptoms become more visible. She outlines the experiences of both partners: the ADHD partner often carries lifelong shame and sensitivity to criticism, while the non-ADHD partner can feel lonely, resentful, and overwhelmed by chaos and perceived lack of follow-through. They explore distractibility and how “new or shiny” can override what is important, and they highlight strengths often associated with ADHD such as creativity, energy, passion, and effective performance in high-stimulation contexts.
Orlov presents a three-stage framework for healing: moving out of denial and learning how ADHD impacts relationships, both partners taking responsibility for their own work, and breaking entrenched patterns such as parent-child dynamics and “symptom-response-response” cycles by reframing symptoms and changing reactions. They address sleep hygiene as foundational, noting sleep deprivation can worsen or mimic ADHD symptoms, and discuss strategies like consistent bedtime routines, “sacred bedtime,” and limiting electronics and blue-light exposure. They also discuss how parent-child dynamics harm sexual connection, the importance of lowering pressure when restarting sex, and improving communication about sex. Orlov closes with the importance of rebuilding trust through transparency and ownership rather than equating trust solely with perfect follow-through, and she names self-compassion and compassion for others as the key skill she would give to everyone.
00:00 Welcome to Dorsay
00:28 ADHD and Marriage Stakes
01:00 Meet Melissa Orlov
03:00 Why ADHD Feels Familiar
04:17 What ADHD Is and Isnt
06:23 Why Stimulants Help
07:38 Adams Diagnosis Story
09:36 Medication Targets and Hope
12:14 Habits and Identity Shifts
13:15 Empathy for Both Partners
14:50 ADHD Partner Childhood Shame
20:13 Non ADHD Partner Experience
22:19 Hyperfocus Courtship Chemistry
24:46 Distractibility in Relationships
26:49 Main Thing Mantra
27:24 Medication to Structure
28:39 ADHD Strengths Kept
30:17 Three Stages Healing
31:29 Breaking Bad Patterns
34:57 Sleep Hygiene Fixes
40:36 Electronics at Bedtime
42:14 Sex and Reconnection
49:06 Rebuilding Trust
54:21 Compassion Magic Skill
55:22 Closing Thanks

Helpful Links:
Melissa Orlov
Melissa Orlov The Couple's Guide to Thriving with ADHD Book

Dr. Adam Dorsay introduces SuperPsyched and frames the growing misinformation problem, citing low trust in traditional media , the rise of influencer-based news consumption among 18–29 year olds, research that false news spreads faster than truth on Twitter, and the World Economic Forum ranking misinformation/disinformation as the most severe global risk in 2024 and 2025. He interviews Dr. Avi Tuschman (Stanford StartX serial entrepreneur; Stanford doctorate in anthropological science; expert on human political bias) about Crickit.ai (C-R-I-C-K-I-T), an AI tool that provides real-time in-stream fact checks for social media videos, starting with YouTube on desktop. The discussion covers why misinformation spreads (high-arousal content, negativity bias, suggestibility, and attention scarcity), why it affects everyone (including errors/omissions/exaggerations in reputable content), and the relationship between media ecosystems, polarization, and a global democratic recession. Avi raises concerns about TikTok’s influence, urging people over 30 to review its “society” content, citing examples of high-production disinformation, alleged foreign influence efforts, elevated WWII revisionism compared with Instagram (UNESCO figure of 5.7x), and medical misinformation (e.g., a study finding ~25% of asthma content has significant misrepresentations and is overrepresented in viewing). He describes Crickit’s user experience as subtitle-like overlays with a pause expansion panel summarizing evidence in ~40–50 words, and positions it as a tool to build media literacy and critical thinking—like a flight simulator for evaluating persuasion and uncertainty. Plans include mobile support and additional platforms, potentially later in the year, though TikTok is not supported yet. Avi offers listeners a discount via promo code/URL “SUPERPSYCHED" for monthly subscription savings for up to three years.
00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched + Why Misinformation Is Surging
00:55 The Numbers: Trust in Media, Influencer News & Falsehoods Spreading Faster
01:45 Meet Dr. Avi Tuschman & Crickit.ai—Real-Time Fact-Checks for YouTube
03:59 Why Avi Built Crickit: Science, Truth, and the 2018 Wake-Up Call
05:31 How Crickit Works (and Why It’s Not ‘Just a Chatbot’)
07:49 Inside the Engine: Claim Extraction, Source Cross-Checks & Reliability Ratings
10:05 Accuracy, Benchmarks & Why ‘Good Enough’ Beats the Status Quo
12:22 Misinformation’s Sneakiest Trick + Even ‘Trusted’ Videos Get Things Wrong16:09 Why BS Goes Viral: Attention Economics, High-Arousal Content & ‘The Medium Is the Message’
19:06 Pinocchio, Crypto Scams & ‘The Conscience of Content’ Origin Story
21:53 Human Suggestibility, Hypnosis, and the Social Media Influence Gap
25:02 The Paradox: We Need Influence to Survive—But Negativity Bias Warps It
25:37 Fear, Negativity Bias, and the Cost of Believing Bad Info
26:19 TikTok’s Mental Health Misinformation Problem
27:47 Why TikTok Is More Than ‘Dance Videos’—A Civic-Duty Reality Check
29:08 Propaganda, Fake Viral Videos, and WWII/Holocaust Revisionism
31:35 Can ‘Crickit’ Fact-Check TikTok? Roadmap and Timeline
32:31 How Crickit Works: Real-Time Overlays, Categories, and Rationale Panels
34:14 Training Critical Thinking: Ambiguity Tolerance, System 1 vs System 2
39:05 BS Is Omnipresent: Humility, Corrections, and Learning You’re Wrong
40:40 Media Literacy Gap + Crickit as a ‘Flight Simulator’ for Critical Thinking
42:40 Wrap-Up: Promo Code, Name Teasing, and the One Skill Humanity Needs
Helpful Links:
⁠Avi Tuschman LinkedIn⁠
⁠Crickit⁠.ai

Helpful Links:
⁠Avi Tuschman LinkedIn⁠
⁠Crickt⁠

In this episode of the SuperPsyched Podcast, host Dr. Adam Dorsay chats with returning guest Dr. Guy Winch, a psychologist, TED speaker, and bestselling author, about his new book 'Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life.' They discuss common myths about work, the impact of workplace stress on personal lives, and the rise of workplace bullying. Dr. Winch shares insights on managing job stress, the importance of emotional intelligence, and practical tips for optimizing work-life balance. He also offers actionable advice on making vacations more restorative and the essential practice of detaching from work to improve overall well-being.

00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched Podcast
00:39 Introducing Dr. Guy Winch and His New Book
03:10 The Myths and Realities of Work Stress
03:43 The Impact of Workplace Stress on Personal Life
06:53 The Role of Emotional Intelligence in the Workplace
15:34 The Importance of Communication and Clarity
19:38 The Consequences of Chronic Stress and Burnout
23:33 Internship Challenges and Stress
24:55 The Importance of Taking Breaks
26:26 Restorative Activities and Social Connections
29:20 Effective Vacation Strategies
34:26 Mental and Physical Exhaustion
40:34 Detaching from Work for Better Well-being
42:00 Final Thoughts and Farewell

HELPFUL LINKS:
Dr. Guy Winch Website
'Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life.’ Book
Dear Therapists Podcast

In this episode of *SuperPsyched*, Dr. Adam Dorsay speaks with Rebecca Geshurii, co-author of 'When Good Moms Feel Bad'. Rebecca is a psychotherapist who integrates InternalFamily Systems (IFS) in her approach to helping moms navigate the emotional and physiological challenges of motherhood. They discuss the importance of self-compassion, embracing imperfections, and the value of community support. Rebecca shares practical tips for moms to soften their body, listen to their inner selves, open their hearts, and wait for internal messages, encapsulated in the acronym SLOW. The conversation highlights the need to recognize andprocess grief and shame in motherhood, ultimately promoting emotional well-being and familial connections.
 
00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched
00:28 The Challenges of Motherhood
00:55 Introducing Rebecca Geshuri and Her Book
02:27 The Reality of Parenting
07:13 Understanding Internal Family Systems (IFS)
08:02 Applying IFS to Motherhood
13:38 The Importance of Self-Compassion
17:44 Practical Tips for Self-Compassion
22:15 The Power of Self-Compassion
22:31 Understanding the SLOW Acronym
24:40 The Impact of Shame and Guilt
26:07 Navigating Motherhood and Grief
28:53 The Complexity of Parenting
34:32 Embracing All Parts of Ourselves
36:32 Building Community and Support
41:30 Final Thoughts and Reflections
 
HELPFUL LINKS:
 
Rebecca Geshuri Website
When Good Moms Feel Bad Book
Rebecca Geshuri Instagram
Rebecca Geshuri Facebook

In this milestone 300th episode of the SuperPsyched podcast, Dr. Adam Dorsay welcomes a very special guest—his mother, Dorothy Kurzrock Dorsay. Dorothy shares her extraordinary life journey, offering wisdom accumulated over 85 years. From her roots in Newark, New Jersey, to her impactful career in social justice with the National Conference of Christians and Jews, Dorothy gives insights into the importance of inclusivity, diversity, and lifelong learning. The episode is filled with heartwarming stories, including a hilarious anecdote about Adam's childhood mischief, and underscores the value of resilience, connection, and challenging prejudice.
00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched
00:28 Introducing a Remarkable Guest
01:01 Dorothy's Early Life and Career
03:26 Life Lessons and Childhood Memories
09:24 Social Justice and Inclusivity
18:15 Global Experiences and Family Adventures
21:38 Mitzvah Day and Community Impact
26:58 The Power of Connections
31:17 A Playgroup Incident and Susie's Theft
33:45 The Wide Net of Connections
34:55 Lessons from Mrs. Reed
39:30 Lifelong Friendships and Reunions
54:00 Parenting Moments and Life Lessons
57:13 Final Reflections and Wisdom