SuperPsyched with Dr. Adam Dorsay

Dr. Adam Dorsay introduces SuperPsyched and interviews Dr. Stan Tatkin, founder of The PACT Institute, about how nonverbal cues and stress shape communication in love relationships. Tatkin explains that subcortical threat detection, negativity bias, and pattern recognition rapidly interpret faces, tone, posture, and proximity, often creating “threat loops” that make partners pro-self rather than pro-relationship. He argues people are poor lie detectors, narratives are biased, and misunderstandings are common because most behavior is automatic and memory is unreliable and state-dependent. Tatkin discusses controversies around Paul Ekman’s universality claims and misuse in forensics, while noting that studying faces can increase empathy. His practical guidance emphasizes fast repair and apology to prevent negative events entering long-term memory, giving partners permission to cue each other’s automatic behaviors, planning for stress, working the problem rather than each other, and building shared purpose and principles so purpose—not feelings—protects the relationship.
00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched
00:28 Why Body Signals Matter
00:55 Meet Stan Tatkin
02:54 Threat Brain in Love
08:22 Negative Memory Loops
10:32 Myths About Lie Detection
15:59 Truth in Therapy Sessions
18:26 Misunderstanding and Memory
21:17 Reading Faces and Bodies
23:00 Resting Face Misfires
23:32 Mirroring Misreads
24:07 Resting Face Signals
25:58 Stress Makes It Personal
27:51 Cueing Your Partner
30:03 Plan For The Devils
31:21 Strategize As Romance
33:56 Ekman Controversy Check
36:01 Curiosity Under Stress
37:18 Repair Fast Apologize
39:30 Purpose Over Feelings
41:17 Closing Thanks

Helpful Links:
Dr. Stan Tatkin LinkedIn
Dr. Stan Tatkin YouTube
Dr. Stan Tatkin Instagram
Pact Institute

Dr. Adam Dorsay introduces SuperPsyched and interviews New York Times bestselling author Nir Eyal about his book Beyond Belief, co-written with Julie Li, on how beliefs—distinct from facts—shape behavior and outcomes. Eyal explains the book’s origin in reader calls about Indistractable and argues motivation is a triangle of behavior, benefit, and belief, with belief as the keystone. They discuss changing beliefs through evidence, how attention can amplify pain, and research on pain reprocessing, placebo/nocebo effects, and hypnos-sedation, including case studies of surgery without anesthesia and a placebo “overdose.” Eyal warns that labels can become limits, shares how reframing his ADHD-related beliefs reduced shame and anxiety, contrasts Dorsay’s experience of diagnosis as empowering, and highlights internal locus of control as beneficial. Eyal’s “insider skill” is intellectual humility and distinguishing faith, fact, and belief.
00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched
00:28 Beliefs Shape Outcomes
02:21 Why Nir Wrote It
04:53 Motivation Needs Belief07:35 Beliefs Are Tools
10:34 Science That Feels Magic

13:16 Pain Without Suffering
16:48 Nocebo and Labels
20:48 ADHD and Identity
25:56 Internal Locus Control
28:04 Final Skill Humility
31:16 Closing Thanks

HELPFUL LINKS:
Nir Eyal
Nir Eyal LinkedIn
Nir Eyal YouTube
Nir Eyal Instagram
Beyond Belief Book
Indistractable Book

Host Dr. Adam Dorsay introduces SuperPsyched and longtime guest Jungian analyst Dr. James “Jim” Hollis for a personal conversation about Hollis’s life and lessons. Hollis says he’d reassure his younger self that an inner compass can guide one’s path, and that denying inner truth shows up externally. He reflects that others’ approval, especially parents’, mattered less than self-trust and leaving “home” psychologically to live one’s own journey. He describes a major mistake of intellectualizing emotions, leading to depression at 35 and retraining in Zurich as a Jungian analyst. He emphasizes permission to own one’s life, discernment amid internal and external “traffic,” and courage in the face of fear and risk. Hollis discusses love as enduring mutual support, parenting without imposing unlived agendas, friendship built on shared values and trust, happiness now and at his children’s births, grieving his son Timothy while continuing relationship through memory and values, and gratitude for taking big risks and for supportive people.
00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched
00:28 Meeting James Hollis
02:28 What I Wish I Knew
07:23 Leaving Home and Approval
11:46 Self Trust and Permission
18:03 Mistakes and Depression
24:26 Purpose in Hard Times
25:57 Relationships That Matter
29:12 Love Beyond Romance
38:48 Fear Risk and Courage
40:55 Happiness and Mortality
43:14 Grief and Losing a Child
51:39 Wisdom Friendship and Gratitude
57:57 Final Thanks and Farewell

Helpful Links:
Dr. James HollisT
he Middle Passage Book
Other Books

Dr. Adam Dorsay introduces SuperPsyched and interviews Dr. Robert Frantz (“Dr. Robbie”), an emergency physician, former paramedic, and SWAT police officer, about caregiver fatigue, vicarious trauma, and the systemic roots of what is commonly called burnout. Frantz discusses the realism of HBO’s The Pitt, describes burnout as “emotional cancer” from cumulative “emotional radiation exposure,” and argues the problem is often the normalized, abnormal environment rather than individual weakness. He outlines warning signs such as perseverating on cases, sleep disruption, and physiological fight-or-flight reactions, and emphasizes draining “the reservoir” through counseling (“emotional chemotherapy”) and other coping tools, including finding the right therapist. Frantz recounts a malpractice trial loss that triggered an emotional collapse, shares a colleague’s suicide, addresses workplace violence in healthcare, and suggests institutional supports like recognition, peer-to-peer debriefing, team activities, safer policies, and reduced documentation burden. He closes by advocating empathy and being seen and understood as a key human skill.
00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched
00:28 Burnout on the Front Lines
00:57 Meet Dr Robbie Frantz
03:26 The Pitt Realism Check
04:19 Emotional Cancer Framework
06:59 Why It’s the Cost of Caring
08:51 Signs of Vicarious Trauma
11:58 Coping Before the Dam Breaks
16:41 Malpractice Trial Breaking Point
21:34 Getting Help When You’re the Helper
24:04 Finding the Right Therapist
26:01 Fear Versus Growth
27:15 Workplace Violence Reality
31:07 Building Safer Hospitals
36:15 Peer Support and Bonding
38:16 Relationships Under Pressure
45:18 Empathy as a Superpower
47:00 Closing Thanks and Wrap

Helpful Links:
Robert Frantz, MD
The Cost of Caring Book

Dr. Adam Dorsay introduces SuperPsyched and interviews thought leadership strategist Peter Winick, co-author of The Thought Leadership Handbook, about what defines a thought leader and how people earn that reputation. Winick argues thought leadership is bestowed by others and requires adding a distinct perspective to a field, sharing ideas publicly through writing, speaking, and research, and having the courage to risk criticism without resorting to reckless attention-seeking. They discuss negativity bias, handling trolls, and why thought leaders shouldn’t aim to please everyone but should be authentic and memorable. Winick advises elite speakers to prepare by learning audience language and needs, continually improving, and treating keynotes as the start of broader business relationships and scalable IP beyond time-for-money practices. They also cover using AI as a verified pattern-finding tool, experimenting with content, and cultivating curiosity through cross-training and new experiences.
00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched
00:28 What Is Thought Leadership
03:09 Earning the Title
03:59 Courage vs Recklessness
05:17 Handling Trolls and Negativity
07:48 Authenticity and Standing Out
11:17 Crushing the Keynote
14:17 Pre Show Rituals
16:20 Monetizing Intellectual Property
18:23 AI as a Thought Tool
22:46 Tiny Experiments That Work
24:46 Curiosity as the Superpower
25:43 Curiosity Habits You Can Try
26:48 Closing Thanks and Subscribe

Helpful Links:
Peter Winick
Peter Winick LinkedIn
The Thought Leadership Handbook
Leveraging Thought Leadership Podcast