We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson

Intimacy expert Susan Bratton breaks down what actually leads to better sex, deeper intimacy, and lasting connection - and why so many people are unknowingly settling for far less. Drawing on science-backed principles of desire, arousal, and communication, she explains where most couples go wrong and what truly drives attraction and satisfaction over time.

Susan also shares her personal journey, including years without orgasms, how radical honesty saved her sex life and why so many couples fall into “duty sex” without realising it. Along the way, she challenges myths about sex, aging, and performance, offering a more confident, connected approach rooted in learning, communication and curiosity.This is an eye-opening, provocative and educational conversation that will change how you think about sex - and what’s possible in your relationships.Susan Bratton, We Need To Talk

(00:00) Intro
(02:32) What Does Susan Do?
(04:32) Susan’s Definition of Intimacy
(08:14) Understanding the Yoni and Its Anatomy
(10:34) Susan’s Definition of an Orgasm
(13:52) How Often Should We Experience Pleasure?
(16:46) “Duty Sex”
(18:13) How Susan and Her Partner Rebuilt Their Intimate Connection
(24:24) Susan’s Experience of Remote Intimacy
(28:03) Similarities in Male and Female Anatomy
(29:33) Scepticism Around Technology in the Bedroom
(31:27) Understanding the Length of an Orgasm
(33:12) Solutions for Premature Ejaculation
(35:02) Does Size Matter?
(40:58) Shopify Ad
(42:10) Exploring Intimacy Tools
(47:44) How Many People Are Having Truly Fulfilling Intimacy?
(50:41) Sex Education Today
(51:28) Using Play-Doh to Demonstrate Similarities in Erectile Tissue
(57:15) Foreplay: What It Is and Why It Matters
(01:03:02) The Mind’s Effect on Sexual Performance
(01:05:53) Sharing “Frames” With a Partner
(01:12:29) The Sexual Script and How to Overcome It
(01:13:52) Susan Breaks Down Aphrodisiacs
(01:19:01) Most Memorable Conversation
(01:22:59) Paul’s Takeaways

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In honour of LGBT History Month, We’re Talking opens an honest and unfiltered conversation about sexuality, identity and the courage it takes to live truthfully. Bimini and Josh Cavallo share their experiences of coming out, confronting shame, and challenging the systems that silence queer voices, reflecting on what real allyship and self-acceptance look like today.

We’re Talking LGBT History Month.

(00:00) Intro

(00:49) Bimini on Navigating Her Sexuality During Her Teens and Early Adulthood

(09:36) How the Straight Community Can Be True Advocates for the Queer Community

(13:21) Josh Talks to Paul About 'Wearing a Mask' and Coming Out to His Family
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Miranda Kerr opens up about the moments that shaped her life, from devastating early loss to navigating fame, forgiveness and co-parenting with Orlando Bloom. She reflects on imposter syndrome, life under constant paparazzi scrutiny and explains why she never truly felt like a “supermodel.” Miranda also shares how meeting her husband, Snapchat founder Evan Spiegel, helped her redefine boundaries, family and what a healthy partnership looks like. This is a rare, deeply personal conversation about grief, resilience and motherhood.

Miranda Kerr, We Need To Talk

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(00:00) Intro

(01:38) What Oprah Taught Paul About Lighting

(03:35) Miranda's Childhood in Rural Australia

(10:28) The Beginnings of Miranda's Modelling Career

(15:15) Miranda Breaks Down What It's Like to Be an Aspiring Model

(22:52) How Miranda Became a Victoria's Secret Model

(26:33) What Is the Definition of a 'Supermodel' and Does Miranda Consider Herself One?

(33:28) How Miranda Met Orlando Bloom

(35:06) Miranda’s Biggest Lessons From Her Relationship With Orlando and Handling the Paparazzi

(39:40) Huel Ad

(40:48) How Miranda Met Her Husband Evan Spiegel

(47:16) How Miranda Keeps Things Harmonious in Her Blended Family

(51:48) Miranda’s Thoughts on Children and Social Media

(58:31) We Need To Talk LA Trailer

(59:28) Miranda's First Love And Sudden Passing

(01:10:55) Miranda’s Mum’s Cancer Diagnosis and the Birth of Her Skincare Business

(01:14:51) Will Miranda Remain CEO of KORA Organics?

(01:16:50) Most Memorable Conversation

(01:19:41) Paul’s Takeaways

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Traitors Star Maura Higgins opens up about her early life, growing up in a small Irish town, and her journey to fame on Love Island. For the first time, Maura reveals the untold story behind her rise to stardom, the challenges she faced, and the relationships that shaped her.

(00:00) Intro

(00:46) Maura Takes Paul Through Her Experience of Childhood

(04:51) Maura’s Experience of Her Parents’ Divorce

(08:44) Maura’s Strict School Education

(14:39) How Maura’s Upbringing Shaped Her Relationships as an Adult

(16:59) What Maura Did Immediately After Leaving School

(18:40) Maura’s First Experiences of Modelling
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What really happened to Spencer Pratt after The Hills - and why has so much of the story never been told? Known as one of reality TV’s most controversial figures, Spencer opens up about the real story behind The Hills, his relationship with Heidi Montag, and the hidden cost of Hollywood. He reflects on how "playing the villain" became personal, and shares the truth about their nearly 20-year relationship, surviving the pressure of fame, paparazzi, and public hatred. Spencer also discusses losing his home, confronting his identity, and how fame nearly destroyed him. This is the unfiltered conversation you've never heard before.Spencer Pratt, We Need To Talk

(00:00) Intro

(02:55) Spencer’s Upbringing in Los Angeles

(04:37) Spencer’s Soccer Career as a Teenager

(06:55) Famous Classmates and Life on Film Sets

(11:38) How Spencer’s Soccer Career Came to an End

(13:34) Spencer’s Sense of Purpose

(15:03) How Spencer Joined The Hills

(19:52) The Legacy of The Hills and Its Influence on Reality TV

(24:35) Spencer’s Fame at the Height of The Hills

(30:46) How and Why The Hills Came to an End

(33:50) Spencer’s Role in the Kardashians’ Success

(36:07) Life After The Hills Ended

(42:08) Does Spencer Have Any Regrets About The Hills?

(47:32) Shopify Ad

(48:44) Spencer Describes His Relationship With Heidi

(53:32) Did Spencer Want to Be a Father?

(56:25) What Changed Spencer’s View on Fatherhood

(58:29) Reflecting on the LA Fires One Year After Losing His Home

(01:00:01) The Day Spencer’s House Burned Down

(01:11:39) How the Fire Impacted Spencer and His Family

(01:14:15) How the Fires Led to Spencer’s LA Mayoral Campaign

(01:24:28) Spencer’s First Day as LA Mayor

(01:26:37) Spencer’s Response to His Detractors

(01:27:25) Who Spencer Voted for in the Last Presidential Election

(01:33:14) What Readers Will Learn From Spencer’s Autobiography

(01:35:15) Most Memorable Conversation

(01:36:17) Is Spencer Proud of Himself Today?

(01:38:54) Paul’s Takeaways

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