We're Going There with Bianca Juarez

Have you found yourself praying fervently and working endlessly, but you're still waiting in the dry season for your breakthrough?

In this episode, I'm taking you deep into 2 Kings chapter 3 and the powerful story of Elisha to show you what it really means to dig ditches in faith. We often talk about wanting God's sudden miracles, but every biblical "suddenly" comes from working diligently and praying fervently. When you make room for God through radical obedience and passionate worship, you prepare your ground to hold the living waters He is about to pour out.

God is a "do it right now" God, but He asks us to grab a shovel first! Even when there is no rain in sight, God will fill the ditches if we have the faith to prepare for revival. I want to encourage you to step into action, trust Him with the small matters, and get ready for the big miracles He has planned for your life.

If your heart is stirred, don't keep it to yourself! Like, subscribe, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform. Take a screenshot of you listening, share it on your Instagram Stories, and tag @biancajuarezofficial so I can repost and celebrate your breakthrough with you!

Love you,

B

Chapter Timestamps

00:00 Introduction and celebration of the podcast's anniversary

01:18 The story of Elisha and digging ditches

04:19 The biblical concept of 'suddenly' and faith

07:29 The importance of working diligently and praying fervently

10:27 Context of 2 Kings chapter 3 and the kings' journey

13:11 Water in the desert and trusting God's provision

16:18 Seeking prophetic guidance in difficult times

19:00 The significance of worship and creating space for God

25:26 The prophetic promise of water without rain

28:33 Obedience and making room for God's move

32:39 Preparing for revival and the upcoming event

35:45 The process of faith and the promise of living waters

Resources & Links

Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq

All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources

Support

Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/

WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/

Thank You to Our Sponsors! We’re Going There is Sponsored by:

HomeChef: Go to HomeChef.com/WGT for 50% OFF your first box and free dessert for life! Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef

BetterHelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp

Youtube: https://youtu.be/wjyrz8qxxeI
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you just winging it, hoping no one notices you haven’t actually mastered the art of receiving feedback yet? If you’re tired of the "performative" stuff and ready for real, gut-level growth, this episode is your wake-up call.

In this episode, Amy and I tackle the topic that makes most of us want to run and hide: feedback. We’re getting real about why we treat correction like a punishment instead of the golden ticket for personal and leadership development that it actually is. Whether you’re leading a ministry team or just trying to navigate your own personal growth, learning how to debrief and receive honest input is non-negotiable if you want to reach your full potential.

We also dive deep into the messy, beautiful reality of mentorship transitions. Knowing when to start, when to stay, and—most importantly—when to end a mentorship well is an art form. We’re stripping away the ego, getting practical about communication, and talking about how to create a culture where people don’t just survive, they transform. It’s time to stop shrinking and start growing.

Let’s keep this conversation going! If this episode hit home, I want to hear about it. Screenshot this episode, tag @amylynnettee and me @biancajuarezofficial, and share your biggest takeaway on your Stories! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and drop a review - it helps us get this message of transformation into more hands.

Love you,

B

Chapter Timestamps

00:00 Introduction to Feedback and Mentorship

02:09 The Feedback Loop and Its Importance

04:05 How to Conduct a Debrief

06:01 Leaving Ego at the Door for Growth

07:58 Distinguishing Performative Feedback from Genuine Growth

09:59 The Role of Affirmation and Constructive Criticism

11:47 Maximizing Capacity for Feedback

13:55 Knowing When a Mentorship Has Ended

16:01 Investing in Self-Development and Mentorship

17:57 Creating a Feedback Culture in Your Community

20:06 Practical Steps for Finding Mentors

21:47 Transitioning Out of Mentorship Gracefully

24:10 The Impact of Loving the Church and Its People

25:55 Practical Tips for Ending Well

27:58 Closing Remarks and Prayer

Resources & Links

Follow Amy Ayala: https://www.instagram.com/amylynnettee/?hl=en

Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq

All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources

Support

Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/

WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/

Thank You to Our Sponsors! We’re Going There is Sponsored by:

HomeChef: Go to HomeChef.com/WGT for 50% OFF your first box and free dessert for life! Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef

BetterHelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp

Youtube https://youtu.be/8edWjHxAdfg
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Has your spiritual growth hit a plateau? Amy and I are back with our friends Cesar Delgado and Sam Tenney to share their journeys and the transformative power of honest feedback in spiritual growth.

We aren’t just talking about surface-level advice; we’re getting real about trust, submission, and the beauty of doing life together. I’m sharing how honest, sometimes difficult feedback is actually the fuel that refines your character and sharpens your skills. If you’ve ever wondered why you aren’t growing, this conversation might just be the wake-up call you’ve been waiting for.

You’ll hear about the power of personal investment and how biblical insights can completely shift your perspective on your calling. Mentorship isn't about knowing everything - it’s about the transformative power of vulnerability. You’re not going to know something about your blind spots unless somebody loves you enough to point them out! Get ready to be challenged, encouraged, and equipped to level up your walk with God.

If this episode hit home, I want to see you! Take a screenshot of the episode right now, share it on your IG Stories, and make sure you tag me @biancajuarezofficial. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and drop a review—it helps us get this message into the hands of more people who need it!

Let’s keep growing together.

Love you,

B

Chapter Timestamps

00:00 Introduction to Mentorship and Discipleship

02:13 The Personal Journeys of Our Guests

05:05 What True Mentorship Looks Like

07:46 The Role of Trust and Submission

12:11 Honest Feedback as a Growth Tool

16:11 Seasonal Seasons of Mentoring

20:08 The Power of Personal Investment

24:05 Overcoming Challenges in Mentoring

28:05 Different Discipling Methods

32:01 The Impact of Honest Critique

36:05 The Importance of Willingness and Availability

39:52 Trusting God and Leaders

44:01 Encouragement for Mentors and Mentees

47:47 Practical Advice for Aspiring Mentors

52:00 Closing Remarks and Final Thoughts

Resources & Links

Follow Amy Ayala: https://www.instagram.com/amylynnettee/?hl=en

Follow Sam Tenney: https://www.instagram.com/samuel_10e/

Follow Cesar Delgado: https://www.instagram.com/cesar_delgado

Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq

All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources

Key Takeaways

Mentorship is about doing life together: It’s more than just a meeting; it’s coming alongside others and sharing the journey.

Trust and submission are non-negotiable: These aren’t "bad" words—they are the foundational pillars of any effective, life-changing mentoring relationship.

Feedback is your best friend: Honest critique might sting in the moment, but it’s the most powerful tool you have to refine your character and skills.

Every journey is unique: Stop comparing your growth to someone else’s; your mentoring needs are tailored to your specific calling and season.

Support

Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/

WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/

Thank You to Our Sponsors! We’re Going There is Sponsored by:

HomeChef: Go to HomeChef.com/WGT for 50% OFF your first box and free dessert for life! Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef

BetterHelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp

Youtube https://youtu.be/as4fsGNBxx4
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Want to learn how to leave a leadership role without burning bridges?

I’ve learned the hard way that transitioning in ministry isn’t just about the "next thing"- it’s about how we honor the "now thing." In this episode, Amy and I sit down to get real about the messy, beautiful journey of mentorship and leadership development. We’re sharing our own stories of growth, grief, and the lessons we’ve picked up along the way.

If you’re searching for a mentor or trying to figure out how to pour into the leaders rising up around you, we made this for you. We’re walking through the practical, heart-level steps to honoring your past while stepping boldly into your future.

I often think about how every community has its own unique sound. Learning to lead isn’t about changing that sound to match yours; it’s about learning to honor the harmony that was there before you arrived. I want to help you process the mixed emotions of transition so you can lead with a clear heart.

If you found something to hold onto throughout this mentoring series, tag @biancajuarezofficial and @amylynnettee on social media to let us know. We would love to continue the conversation there. We hope you leave feeling a little more equipped and encouraged.

Love you,

B

Chapter Timestamps

00:00 Introduction to Mentorship and Leadership Transition

02:08 The Role of Collaboration in Kingdom Work

04:32 Learning from Observation and Debriefing

07:10 Recognizing and Supporting Giftings in Others

09:19 The Process of Transition and Leaving Well

11:40 Understanding Cultural and Vocal Fit in Ministry

13:02 Honest Conversations During Transition

14:40 Processing Emotions and Grief in Transition

16:40 The Impact of Generosity and Community Support

17:35 The Role of Expectation and Trust in Mentorship

18:45 Celebrating New Opportunities and Growth

20:20 Forming Identity and Leadership in New Environments

21:02 Addressing Fears of Leadership Transition

22:21 The Joy of Seeing Others Flourish

23:12 The Healthy End of Mentorship Relationships

24:19 Building Relationships Beyond Organizational Boundaries

25:51 How to Find and Approach a Mentor

27:05 Practical Tips for Mentorship Success

28:19 The Joy of Seeing Mentorship Bear Fruit

29:06 Closing Remarks and Encouragement for Leaders and Mentors

Resources & Links

Follow Amy Ayala: https://www.instagram.com/amylynnettee/?hl=en

Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq

All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources

Support

Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/

WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/

Thank You to Our Sponsors! We’re Going There is Sponsored by:

HomeChef: Go to HomeChef.com/WGT for 50% OFF your first box and free dessert for life! Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef

BetterHelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is the fear of damaging a relationship stopping you from having a difficult conversation? I’ve been there, and I know how isolating that tension can feel. But here is the truth: wounds from a friend can be trusted, and real growth only happens when we’re willing to go there.

In this episode, Amy and I are pulling back the curtain on what it really looks like to lead, mentor, and disciple in the messy reality of ministry. We’re talking about the "relational collateral" required to speak truth into someone’s life and how to correct in love without crushing their spirit. Whether you’re navigating past trauma that’s showing up in your leadership or learning how to handle a tough sermon critique, this conversation is for you. It’s time we stop settling for surface-level peace and start pursuing the spiritual maturity that comes through honest, grace-filled accountability.

If this episode challenged or encouraged you, tag @biancajuarezofficial and @amylynnettee on social media. Don’t forget to subscribe and drop a comment sharing one way you’re choosing growth over comfort this week.

Let’s keep going there together!

Love you,

B

Keywords: mentorship, discipleship, ministry leadership, conflict resolution, spiritual formation.

RESOURCES/LINKS

Sound Bite to Share:

**

Chapter Timestamps

00:00 Introduction to the importance of tough conversations

02:02 The theology of correction and trust

02:27 Personal stories of tension and disappointment

04:13 Roots of disappointment and past trauma

07:25 The process of spiritual maturity and circumcision

08:14 Handling hard conversations with love and grace

12:07 Time management and respect in ministry

13:31 Correcting in love versus control

17:46 The military mindset in leadership and correction

20:24 Gender, opportunity, and development in ministry

24:54 Handling feedback and sermon critique

28:29 The importance of honesty and growth in preaching

32:02 Walking through seasons of change and transition

37:41 Ending well and honoring relationships

38:03 Encouragement for wounded mentees

41:44 Closing thoughts and next steps for listeners

Resources & Links

Follow Amy Ayala: https://www.instagram.com/amylynnettee/?hl=en

Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC

Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq

All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources

Support

Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/

WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/

Thank You to Our Sponsors! We’re Going There is Sponsored by:

HomeChef: Go to HomeChef.com/WGT for 50% OFF your first box and free dessert for life! Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef

BetterHelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp

Youtube: https://youtu.be/R-Dgj9xiokU
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices