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- This week a conversation about Texas tour plans turns into an emotional look at what family can really look like. Becky shares why her Fourth of July weekend with Becks' donor and his family meant more than she ever expected, and Kail gets honest about struggling to accept kindness, forgiveness, and the idea that she’s still worthy despite her past.
Of course, it wouldn't be an episode of Karma and Chaos without some chaos from arguing over bowl plates, redesigning SUVs for moms, debating sleepover rules, and asking the question no one else apparently thought to ask: do people still use wooden ladders?
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See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. - Kail and Becky are trying to survive rock bottom one emotional spiral at a time. After a heavy week, they recap tour highs, therapy realities, internet negativity, and the weird little questions that somehow make everything feel lighter.
It’s vulnerable, chaotic, funny, and very on brand for the ladies you know and love.
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See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. - ENCORE: In a delirious (and low-key emotional) episode, Kail and Becky tackle the viral 36 Questions to Fall in Love - even though they're already trauma-bonded. They unpack everything from childhood wounds and love languages to dead dad jokes and embarrassing moments that still haunt them.
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See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. - You met Kail Lowry at 16, pregnant, on national TV. You never met the girl who came before her. This is a 10-minute preview of part one of my conversation with Kail on For The Hayters, the years no one was watching, told by a friend who thought she knew the whole story and didn't.
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For The Hayters is a podcast that normalizes hard conversations. Listener discretion is advised. TW: child neglect, addiction, sexual assault, abortion.
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. - Kail and Becky record in real time from Indianapolis before the first tour show, and the chaos is already chaosing. From dirty soda obsessions and tornado warnings to travel confusion, technical difficulties, and the emotional aftermath of Kail’s For the Hayters episode, this one is messy, honest, and very on-brand.
They also get into true crime documentaries, airplane seat debates, internet conspiracies, mystery whales, flat earth logic, and a wild “is it karma or is it chaos?” update that proves sometimes the universe really does keep receipts.
Get your Fatherless Behaviour Tour Tickets here
For full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry
Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The Hayters
Thank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors!
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About Karma & Chaos with Kail Lowry & Becky Hayter
Join Kail Lowry and Becky Hayter as these two rekindle their friendship and navigate the highs, lows, and hilarious in-betweens of life in their 30s. They’ll dive into the joys and challenges of raising families, staying true to friendships, and keeping up with pop culture - all while embracing the unpredictable mix of karma and chaos that life throws at them. With Kail’s unfiltered outlook and Becky’s infectious humor, Karma & Chaos is a refreshing, real, and relatable take on modern adulthood. New episodes every Tuesday!
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