Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers | Mother Wound Healing After Maternal Narcissism & Family Dysfunction

If you have been parentified as a child you might still be hurting and you shouldn’t have to suffer today because of the toxic family dynamic in your past.  
Parentification is a toxic family dynamic, common when dealing with narcissistic mothers or with emotionally immature mothers or parents, that puts too much responsibility on the child way too soon inevitably creating childhood trauma. 
Often cause by childhood emotional neglect alongside immature parents who are unable to take responsibility, parentification is a clear sign of abuse resulting in trauma that is carried by the parentified adult and will manifest in specific comping patterns leaving you only capable of achieving a certain degree of success, far below what you deserve. 
And despite all that you may have achieved so far in your life, you might still be hurting inside. 
Patterns such as people-pleasing, perfectionism, extra independence and inability to take a break or delegate will hold you back in every aspect of your life, including your career, relationships, parenting… And in the long run they will also affect your physical and mental health. 
In this episode I share:

the 3 main traits of the parentified adult child coping pattern, 

how they are holding you back today, 

your best next step to recover and regain control of your life.  

It’s time to truly be successful and thrive like you deserve.
Learn how to say No to your mother's drama and yes to your life!
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Discover how much your mother’s drama is still impacting your life today – Complete the Drama Meter Quiz now – It’s FREE and takes less than 3 minutes.
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Enjoyed this episode? Continue listening by going to Episode 79
The Impact of Parentification with a Narcissistic Mother & How to Heal in 5 Steps
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Has your narcissistic mother unleashed flying monkeys on you and you are struggling to stop them?
Most daughters of narcissistic mothers do all they can to try and set a boundary. What they don’t know is that flying monkeys are going to be unleashed and the drama will continue. 
A “No” to a narcissistic mother is often followed by enablers playing the role of flying monkeys. Does this have to be the doom of your boundary? No, it doesn’t. Learning to recognise, protect yourself and stop these flying monkeys is essential for your boundaries to count. And boundaries are necessary for you to recover from abuse and live a peaceful life.  
In this episode you will learn:

Who are the flying monkeys

How they act to drag you back into the drama

How to stop them and break free. 

Once you’ve listened to this episode you won’t have to worry about flying monkeys again because you’ll know what to do.

Learn how to say No to your mother's drama and yes to your life!
Check out our new complete self-paced course “No More Drama”
👉Get Course Here
Discover how much your mother’s drama is still impacting your life today – Complete the Drama Meter Quiz now – It’s FREE and takes less than 3 minutes.
👉Start The Drama Meter quiz

Enjoyed this episode? Continue listening by going to Episode 82
5 Signs of Triangulation Between Siblings by a Narcissistic Mother & How to Stop It Now
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Have you lost all hope that your mother’s drama will end at some point? 
Most daughters of narcissistic and immature mothers have accepted that their life is going to be about survival and they have lost all hope that things might change. They have collected labels, beliefs and coping strategies that are now limiting their life and preventing recovery. 
Feeling unsafe to be yourself has been at the root cause of the limitations to your happiness. No matter the level of narcissistic abuse, this is true for every daughter of narcissistic and immature mothers. 
In this episode I offer a question you need to ask yourself that has changed everything for me. This question will create an opening in those beliefs that keep you stuck in the drama and bring back hope for you. 
I also share the most important foundation for you to shift from surviving to thriving, because surviving just isn’t good enough. You deserve to thrive!
Discover how much your mother’s drama is still impacting your life today – Complete the Drama Meter Quiz now – It’s free and takes less than 3 minutes.
👉 Start The Drama Meter quiz

Learn how to say No to your mother's drama and yes to your life!
Check out our new complete self-paced course “No More Drama”
👉 Get Course Here
Enjoyed this episode? Continue listening by going to Episode 132
Healing mother wounds: this is stopping your healing. The 4 traps you want to avoid when healing mother wounds.
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Is your mother’s drama sucking the life out of you? Most daughters feel it’s wrong to say no to their mother, even when this means letting pain and abuse continue in their life.
As a daughter of narcissistic and/or immature mother you have been told a fundamental lie about what saying NO means, and this lie is currently keeping you stuck in drama and not allowing you to live your life.
Pattern of self-sabotage, people-pleasing and self-doubt come from this lie plus the need to survive amidst the drama and unsafety in your childhood.
In this episode I dismantle this lie for you, so that you can start saying No when is needed and saying YES to live your life.
Learn how to say No to your mother's drama and yes to your life!
Check out our new complete self-paced course “No More Drama”
👉Get Course Here

Complete the FREE Coping Pattern Assessment NOW👇
Your Coping Pattern Assessment

Enjoyed this episode? Continue listening by going to Episode 153
Minimising narcissistic abuse: a survival mechanism that will trap you in toxicity
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Do you fear you are being gaslighted but you are not sure? If your mother is narcissistic or emotionally immature, there’s a high chance you have been receiving some degree of gaslighting. 
Gaslighting is a form of manipulation that is causing you to second-guess yourself and doubt your perception of reality to the point that you end up depending on others and can’t rely on your own discernment. 
There are 3 main ways you might be gaslighted and probably you are only aware of one – by your narcissistic mother. 
In this episode you will learn to recognize the 3 main ways gaslighting might be used to control you and confuse you, so that you will be able to protect yourself going forward.
Recovery after being gaslighted starts with regaining control of your emotions (learning to regulate) and building a stronger sense of self.
Check out our new complete self-paced course “Regulate, Set Boundaries & Reclaim Your Authenticity”
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Complete the FREE Coping Pattern Assessment NOW👇
Your Coping Pattern Assessment
Enjoyed this episode? Continue listening by going to Episode 137
20 things your narcissistic mother can say to invalidate your feelings – the impact it has on adult daughters of narcissistic mothers & 3 steps to heal
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#narcissisticmother #maternalnarcissism #healingmotherwound #healingattachmenttrauma #childhoodtrauma #reclaimyourlife #motherdaughter #breakingfreefromabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery