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Head Noise: My Partner Trauma Dumps, I Feel Like a Fraud at Work, and I Freeze in Conflict

In this Head Noise episode, we unpack three listener dilemmas that all come down to boundaries, self-perception, and finding your voice when things feel overwhelming.

We talk about:


Whether to stay with a partner who constantly trauma dumps — and how to figure out if the relationship is actually sustainable long-term


What imposter syndrome really is at a new job, and how to rewrite your self-talk so it becomes realistic and empowering instead of self-sabotaging


Why some people freeze during confrontation, and how to start responding instead of shutting down

This episode covers:


Emotional compatibility vs emotional exhaustion in relationships


Determining if your needs are being met — not just if you care about someone


Reframing “I’m a fraud” thinking into grounded, self-supportive internal dialogue


The psychology behind conflict freeze responses


How to make decisions that protect your energy and long-term wellbeing

If you’ve ever felt drained by someone you love, doubted your place at work, or struggled to speak up when it matters, this one will resonate.

As always, Head Noise is about cutting through emotional overwhelm so you can make clearer, calmer decisions.
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In this Head Noise episode, we’re unpacking three very different dilemmas that all come down to trust, discomfort, and self-honesty.

We talk about:


What to do when you get back with someone who previously ghosted you, and the trust issues won’t go away


How to build a relationship with your sister-in-law when you fundamentally don’t see eye to eye


Why you might want to leave a “lovely” boyfriend, and how to know if you’re making a mistake or finally listening to yourself

This episode covers:


Rebuilding trust after being ghosted (and whether it’s actually possible)


Why good on paper doesn’t always mean right for you


Fear of regret vs fear of staying stuck


Choosing peace over potential

If you’ve ever stayed because you were scared to hurt someone, gone back to someone who hurt you, or felt guilty for wanting something different, this one will hit.

As always, Head Noise is about cutting through the emotional fog and helping you make decisions that align with your self-respect.

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In this Head Noise episode, I answer three listener questions that sit right at the intersection of hope, attachment, and self-betrayal the kind of decisions that feel impossible when you’re emotionally involved.

We talk about:


Whether you should leave a life you love to move cities in the hope of finding a partner


What to do when your cheating ex wants you back, is in therapy, and swears they’ve changed, especially when you’ve already moved on with someone else


How to emotionally detach and move forward after being slowly ghosted by someone you thought things were going really well with

This episode breaks down the psychology behind:


Making life decisions from loneliness vs self-trust


Sex addiction, and the difference between change and intention


Why ghosting hurts so much


Choosing yourself without spiralling into guilt or doubt

As always, Head Noise episodes are about cutting through the emotional fog and helping you see what’s actually happening, so you can make decisions that protect your peace and self-respect.

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How to Reclaim Your Power Without Controlling Anyone

In this episode, I break down the psychology behind control. Why we try to manage other people’s behaviour, emotions, and choices, and how that quietly drains our power, peace, and sense of self.

We talk about:


Why trying to control others makes you feel more powerless, not less


How victim mentality keeps you dependent on other people’s energy and validation


The ways control shows up as guilt, emotional pressure, or “needs”


Why boundaries are about your behaviour and not changing someone else’s


How letting go of control reduces anxiety and emotional exhaustion


Why focusing only on yourself feels uncomfortable but creates real change


How to stop feeling guilty, indebted, or responsible for other people’s emotions


The mindset shift that helps you reclaim your power without force, manipulation, or emotional labour

This episode is for anyone who feels drained by relationships, stuck in cycles of guilt or resentment, or exhausted from trying to hold everything together.

You don’t need more control.
You need your power back.
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