Do You F*cking Mind?
Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach

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- Bonjour and welcome to day 3 of my self love mini series.
How we are going to FIND self love. that is the focus today.
In this episode you will learn how to reset your self-worth by leaving behind unhealthy relationships and how to stop beating yourselves up over past mistakes by turning them into valuable lessons.
We often seek validation and love from others because we don't give it to ourselves first. By learning to provide ourselves with love, safety, and security, we become more attractive to others who share similar qualities.
So dive in, grab a notepad and get cracking.
Alexis
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. - Welcome to day 2 of our Self Love Mini Series.
In this ep we explore the importance of self worth when it comes to increasing self love. It's easy to get caught up in the idea that we're enough just as we are, but the truth is, feeling good about ourselves is often tied to the value we provide to ourselves and others. No matter how many times someone tells you you are good enough, if you do not feel it, it won't help. This episode focuses on HOW to find ways to feel that.
Thank you for tuning in!
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. How to know if you should leave a relationship (without feeling you are giving up)
17/08/2026 | 43 mins.Bonjour and welcome to the ep of today.
I am going to give you a (long) pep talk about how to know if you should walk away from a relationship (without feeling as if you are giving up).
I cover an array of key points to consider, including how problems are resolved in relationships, how to know if you are being manipulated or if the relationship has run its course, and how to not be so riddled with guilt.
Brain fact: Insulin on the brain.
Brain fact studies to read into further:
Benedict, C., Hallschmid, M., Hatke, A., Schultes, B., Fehm, H. L., Born, J., & Kern, W. (2004). Intranasal insulin improves memory in humans. Psychoneuroendocrinology, 29(10), 1326–1334. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.psyneuen.2004.04.003
Benedict, C., Hallschmid, M., Schmitz, K., et al. (2007). Intranasal Insulin Improves Memory in Humans: Superiority of Insulin Aspart. Neuropsychopharmacology, 32(1), 239–243. https://doi.org/10.1038/sj.npp.1301193
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.- Bonjour!!! it is time to bring back the Self Love mini series.
This is a much loved series encore from last year.
5 days of actionable, practical tools and mindset shifts to start improving how you are feeling about yourself.
In the first ep, we talk about the importance of your relationship with yourself and how self worth really plays into self love. I also touch on Neuroplasticity and how you can begin to rewire your brain for some positive change.
Thanks for tuning in!
Alexis
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. - Bonjour and welcome to head noise Friday where I give life advice and we unpack all the crazy things you are going through and try to get as close to a solution or close to making sense as possible.
We have three email questions today.
We talk about if you really need to chase change when its not something that excites you, and what to do when a great freindship turns one sided and goes south? do you let it die or try to resurrect it from the near dead?
All this and more.
AND if you want to send in your head noise, please do at info@dyfmpod.com
Danke!
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Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.
On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak. And on Fridays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions!
Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions.
Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change at https://bit.ly/44xwszR
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