The Moving On Method® Podcast

• How To Care For Yourself While Parenting Alone

  Resentment is a natural, but draining, part of single parent life. In this empowering episode of The Moving On Method®, Michelle Dempsey-Multack opens up about the hidden mental load of solo parenting, the quiet envy of watching partnered friends get a “break,” and the practical self-care strategies that keep resentment from taking root. Listeners will learn how to name the feeling, release it, and reclaim their energy and joy as a single parent What You’ll Learn: Why resentment shows up in single parenthood, and how to recognize it before it overwhelms you Daily self-care practices (sleep hygiene, gentle movement, nourishing meals) that lower stress hormones and quiet negative emotions How to reframe single parent life to reduce comparison, jealousy, and the “why me” mindset Ways to ask for help and build a supportive community without guilt or shame Why releasing resentment strengthens your relationship with your children and models emotional resilience Episode Highlights: 00:00 – Naming resentment and understanding why it’s normal 03:12 – The invisible mental load single parents carry every day 06:47 – How resentment lives in the nervous system and drains your energy 09:22 – Practical self-care strategies to reset your body and mind 12:15 – Movement, breathing, and morning routines to release tension 14:30 – Reframing single parenthood and calling in your support system Meet the Host: Michelle Dempsey-Multack is a certified divorce and co-parenting specialist, author, and the creator of The Moving On Method®, guiding parents toward resilience, self-care, and healthy post-divorce family dynamics. Tools, Frameworks, or Strategies Mentioned: Sleep hygiene routines to promote deeper rest and reduce irritability Gentle movement practices like yoga, stretching, and evening walks to clear resentment from the nervous system Breathwork for immediate nervous-system regulation Community care: reframing asking for help as a sign of strength, not weakness Closing Insight “Resentment is like swallowing poison and hoping it affects someone else, it only hurts you. Naming it, nurturing yourself, and letting others support you transforms exhaustion into empowerment.” Join The Moving On Collective! A safe, judgment-free support group experience for divorced and divorcing parents: https://bit.ly/MichelleCommunity Learn from Michelle how to navigate divorce & co-parenting: https://bit.ly/MDMPodStore Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheMichelleDempsey Website - https://michelledempsey.com/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/michelle645 TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@themichelledempsey1 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mldempsey/ LINK TO TRANSCRIPT: https://transcripts/moving-on-method-ep264-single-parent-resentment-care Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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• You Can't Control Everything: The Truth About Co-Parenting

  What if the very thing you’re clinging to in co-parenting, the need for control, is what’s keeping you from peace? In this episode, Michelle Dempsey-Multack unpacks why control in co-parenting is an illusion, how expectations create unnecessary heartache, and what true surrender looks like for divorced parents. Listeners will learn how to shift from frustration to freedom and create a calmer, more resilient environment for their children. What You’ll Learn: Why co-parents crave control after divorce and how it impacts anxiety The difference between healthy influence and harmful attempts to control How to respond when your ex behaves in ways you can’t change Tools for modeling resilience and stability for your children A practical exercise to release control and focus on what really matters Episode Highlights: 00:00 – Why control feels like the only safety net after divorce 02:05 – The truth: you can’t control your ex, your child’s emotions, or transitions 05:15 – How expectations create self-fulfilling frustration 08:40 – What letting go really looks like in day-to-day co-parenting 11:25 – Surrender as freedom: shifting energy into peace, healing, and presence 13:30 – Final reflection: modeling resilience for your children Tools, Frameworks, or Strategies Mentioned: The “Expectation Audit” Exercise – writing down one thing you can’t control in co-parenting, and one thing you can control. Modeling Resilience Framework – showing kids strength and calm through action rather than reacting to negativity. Closing Insight: “Your power as a parent doesn’t come from controlling every variable; it comes from modeling grace, resilience, and love.” Letting go of control isn’t giving up, it’s reclaiming peace. Take a deep breath, release what isn’t yours to manage, and focus on what truly matters: showing up for your children with stability and love. Learn from Michelle how to navigate divorce & co-parenting: https://bit.ly/MDMPodStore Get one-on-one coaching from Michelle: http://stan.store/themichelledempsey/p/book-a-11-zoom-with-me-wt46q75a Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheMichelleDempsey Website - https://michelledempsey.com/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/michelle645 TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@themichelledempsey1 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mldempsey/ LINK TO TRANSCRIPT: https://transcripts/moving-on-method-ep263-letting-go-of-control-in-co-parenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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• How to Build Wealth After Divorce: Financial Freedom with Ashley Miller

  How do you rebuild your financial independence after a divorce? In this episode of The Moving On Method® Podcast, Michelle Dempsey-Multack speaks with Ashley Miller (Madam Trader) about closing the wealth gap, overcoming financial fear, and taking practical steps toward financial freedom. Together, they unpack how women can transform money from a source of stress into a tool for empowerment, choice, and resilience. What You’ll Learn: Why financial literacy is a form of freedom, and a key to leaving toxic relationships How to take stock of assets, liabilities, and cash flow after divorce Practical shifts to reduce expenses and align spending with values Why investing, not just saving, is critical for long-term security The mindset shift every divorced woman needs to reclaim her financial independence Episode Highlights: 02:40 – Why money is more than numbers—it’s a tool for freedom and choice 06:55 – How Ashley created Madam Trader to spotlight women in finance 11:30 – The truth about the wealth gap and its long-term impact on women 16:05 – Where to start when rebuilding your finances post-divorce 20:50 – The danger of competing financially with your ex after separation 25:20 – Building a pre-investing foundation: emergency funds and debt management 29:45 – Why compounding interest is one of the greatest wealth-building tools 32:30 – Final insights: how to shift your money mindset and invest with confidence Meet the Guest: Ashley Miller, known as Madam Trader, is a finance professional and educator dedicated to helping women take charge of their financial futures. Through her podcast and coaching, she spotlights successful women traders, promotes financial literacy, and empowers women to close the wealth gap. Tools, Frameworks, or Strategies Mentioned: Madam Trader Approach – storytelling and education to normalize women in finance Pre-Investing Checklist – emergency funds, debt payoff, and employer match strategies Compound Interest Framework – using time and consistency to grow wealth exponentially Ellevest Platform – an accessible robo-advisor and impact investing tool designed for women Closing Insight: “Money is a tool. The less you understand it, the more it controls your life. The more you understand it, the more freedom you have.” – Ashley Miller By building financial literacy and investing consistently, women can reclaim independence, model resilience for their children, and create a future they won’t have to recover from. Learn from Michelle how to navigate divorce & co-parenting: https://bit.ly/MDMPodStore Get one-on-one coaching from Michelle: http://stan.store/themichelledempsey/p/book-a-11-zoom-with-me-wt46q75a Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheMichelleDempsey Website - https://michelledempsey.com/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/michelle645 TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@themichelledempsey1 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mldempsey/LINK TO TRANSCRIPT: https://transcripts/moving-on-method-ep263-building-wealth-after-divorce Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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• What to Do When Your Ex Keeps Bringing New Partners Around the Kids

  What happens when your ex keeps introducing new girlfriends to your children? This episode explores one of the most common and emotionally triggering co-parenting challenges: protecting your kids’ emotional safety when you can’t control your ex’s choices. Michelle Dempsey-Multack shares practical, child-centered strategies to help parents manage their own emotions, create stability at home, and provide the safe harbor children need to thrive. What You’ll Learn: Why you cannot control your ex’s decisions—but you can control your response How to process “ragey” feelings without placing that weight on your children The impact of a revolving door of partners on a child’s nervous system Simple scripts for responding when kids share their experiences with new partners The Safe Harbor Parenting™ framework for creating consistency, boundaries, and emotional resilience Episode Highlights: 00:42 – Why you can’t control your ex’s dating choices, and what to do instead 02:10 – Managing your own feelings without overwhelming your children 03:45 – How to ask open-ended questions that validate kids’ experiences 05:05 – Why overreaction teaches kids to hide their feelings 06:00 – Final reminder: your role as the safe harbor parent Tools, Frameworks, or Strategies Mentioned Safe Harbor Parenting™ – a branded framework emphasizing emotional safety, consistency, boundaries, and resilience building Serenity Prayer Reframe – a mindset reminder for focusing energy only where you have influence Closing Insight: “Your job is not to control your ex. Your job is to be the safe harbor where your children can always return.” – Michelle Dempsey-Multack By modeling calm, consistent, child-centered co-parenting, you create the environment your kids won’t have to recover from, even if the other parent makes choices you cannot control. Learn from Michelle how to navigate divorce & co-parenting: https://bit.ly/MDMPodStore Get one-on-one coaching from Michelle: http://stan.store/themichelledempsey/p/book-a-11-zoom-with-me-wt46q75a Get Michelle's courses on navigating divorce and co-parenting: https://bit.ly/MDMPodStore Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheMichelleDempsey Website - https://michelledempsey.com/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/michelle645 TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@themichelledempsey1 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mldempsey/ LINK TO TRANSCRIPT: https://transcripts/moving-on-method-ep261-ex-bringing-new-girlfriends-around-kids Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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• The Top Three Questions I Get As A Divorce Coach.

  What happens when your children say they feel unsafe with their other parent, or when hostility from a co-parent makes stepfamily life harder than it should be? In this episode of The Moving On Method®, Michelle Dempsey-Multack addresses the top three questions divorce coaches hear most often, covering child safety, stepmom struggles, and parenting plan boundaries around introducing new partners. You’ll walk away with clear, compassionate strategies to keep the focus on your kids while managing the most difficult co-parenting dynamics. What You’ll Learn How to support your children when they resist visitation with their other parent Why stepmom–bio mom conflict often stems from fear and ego, and how to defuse it The truth about six-month “waiting period” clauses for introducing new partners How to focus your energy on child-centered priorities, not ego-driven battles Simple mindset shifts to help you thrive as a co-parent, step-parent, or divorced parent Episode Highlights 02:01 – What to do when kids say they feel unsafe with their other parent 06:14 – Why courts don’t always validate children’s voices 08:57 – How stepmoms can navigate hostility from the bio mom 11:20 – The deeper emotional drivers behind stepmom–bio mom conflict 13:45 – Should you include a six-month waiting period in your parenting plan? 15:40 – Why flexibility and emotional maturity matter more than rigid rules Meet the Expert Michelle Dempsey-Multack is a certified divorce and co-parenting specialist, best-selling author, and host of The Moving On Method®. She empowers parents worldwide to move from high-conflict separation to child-centered co-parenting with empathy, resilience, and clarity. Tools, Frameworks, or Strategies Mentioned Safe Harbor Parenting™ – creating the stable, secure home your children need Respect First Approach – why step-parents earn trust by honoring the bio parent “Hills Worth Dying On” Framework – choosing battles that actually protect your kids Closing Insight "You cannot change what happens in your ex’s home, but you can create safety and stability on your own. That’s the most powerful gift you can give your children." If this resonates, tune in now and discover how to approach co-parenting challenges with compassion, boundaries, and confidence. Learn from Michelle how to navigate divorce & co-parenting: https://bit.ly/MDMPodStore Get one-on-one coaching from Michelle: http://stan.store/themichelledempsey/p/book-a-11-zoom-with-me-wt46q75a Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheMichelleDempsey Website - https://michelledempsey.com/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/michelle645 TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@themichelledempsey1 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mldempsey/LINK TO TRANSCRIPT: https://transcripts/moving-on-method-ep260-divorce-co-parenting-top-questions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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