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• 95: Addiction, Identity, and the Illusion of Brokenness: Jason Shiers on Childhood Trauma, Secret Shame in Recovery, and What Real Healing Looks Like

  In today’s powerful conversation, I welcome psychotherapist and Infinite Recovery Project founder Jason Shiers. Jason shares his deeply personal story of addiction, trauma, and his 20+ year journey through recovery — before a radical spiritual awakening changed everything.Together, Jason and I dive into:Why trauma is often the hidden root of addiction.How traditional recovery models pathologize normal human responses.What it really means to heal — beyond symptom management.The transformational power of somatic work, parts work (IFS), and embodied spirituality.How authentic relationships become the ultimate container for healing.Jason also explores how to reconnect with your true Self, why you are not broken, and why genuine freedom from addiction comes from a profound internal shift — not just managing behaviors.Learn more about Jason at: InfiniteRecoveryProject.comIf you’re tired of surface-level recovery and ready for true transformation, this is a must-listen.🎧 Subscribe for more addiction recovery insights, spiritual growth tools, and mindset coaching!IF YOU LIKED THIS EPISODE...How to Replace Porn Addiction | Gain Motivation, Reduce Symptoms of Anxiety & Depression, Build Focus & Attention, Beat the Addictive MindsetJourney Out of Darkness | A Porn Addiction Story of Healing Through Empathy & CompassionPORN ADDICTION RECOVERY RESOURCES...FREE WORKSHOPFREE EBOOKThe Balance of GrayGod, doubt, and proof walk into a podcast... it goes better than you’d expect!Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showNo More Desire

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• 94: From Half a Husband to a Whole Marriage | How to Rebuild Trust After Porn Addiction and Betrayal

  Can a marriage truly heal after porn addiction and betrayal trauma? In this powerful episode of The No More Desire Podcast, host Jake Kastleman sits down with Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith—coaches, authors, and a couple who’ve walked the road from addiction and deception to deep connection and true intimacy.👉 Grab your FREE DOWNLOAD of The 8 Tools to Heal from Porn Addiction & Betrayal Trauma Here.👉 Grab the Raabsmith's Free Guide: The Honest ConnectionIn this episode, you’ll hear:The real impact of porn addiction in marriageHow betrayal trauma affects the spouse of an addict—emotionally, neurologically, and relationallyWhy secrecy and double lives destroy intimacy—and how truth begins healingThe difference between boundaries and control in recovery relationshipsPractical steps for rebuilding trust after porn addictionWhat it means to take full personal responsibility in addiction recoveryWhy most couples get stuck in imbalanced recovery dynamics—and how to shift themTools from their Intimacy Pyramid framework that help couples reconnect emotionally, spiritually, and physicallyWhether you're struggling with addiction, supporting a spouse who is, or both, this episode offers wisdom, validation, and hope. Matthew and Joanna are proof that recovery is possible, and that with the right tools, couples can move from surviving betrayal to thriving in renewed trust.👉 Learn more about Matthew and Joanna’s work at RaabsmithTeam.com or order their book Building True Intimacy🔗 For more episodes, recovery tools, and coaching support, visit NoMoreDesire.comMORE EPISODESHow Do I Stop My Husband from Watching Porn?My Wife Ignores My Progress with Porn Addiction: Navigating Relationship StrugglesHow to Tell Your Wife About Your Porn RelapseSelf-Control & Porn Addiction | Why Willpower Always FailsThe Balance of GrayGod, doubt, and proof walk into a podcast... it goes better than you’d expect!Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showNo More Desire

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• 93: The #1 Daily Habit That’s Helping My Clients Quit Porn

  Struggling to quit porn, control your cravings, or stay sober long-term?In this episode, I share one of the most powerful—but often overlooked—tools for porn addiction recovery: gratitude.Learn how daily gratitude can:Rewire your brain using neuroplasticityReduce porn cravings by activating your prefrontal cortexReplace the shame cycle with emotional clarity and purposeBuild a lasting recovery mindset based on joy, not just disciplineI also walk you through my personal morning gratitude routine, and how it's helped me stay sober for over 10 years—even during high-stress seasons.If you’re serious about learning how to quit porn, stay clean, and build a mentally and spiritually resilient lifestyle, this episode is for you.📌 Keywords covered: porn addiction recovery, quitting porn, dopamine regulation, rewiring the brain, gratitude for sobriety, recovery tools for men🔗 Join my free porn recovery workshop or apply for 1-on-1 coaching at NoMoreDesire.comBUILD THE NO MORE PORN LIFESTYLEFREE WORKSHOP: The 8 Keys to Lose Your Desire for PornFREE EBOOK: The 10 Tools to Conquer Porn CravingsSchedule a Free ConsultationBuy Me a CoffeeMORE ARTICLESHow to Replace Porn Addiction | Gain Motivation, Reduce Symptoms of Anxiety & DepressionHow Do I Stop My Husband from Watching Porn?My Wife Ignores My Progress with Porn Addiction: Navigating Relationship StrugglesSelf-Control & Porn Addiction | Why Willpower Always FailsWhy Doesn’t God Take My Porn Addiction?Christianity and Porn Addiction | How to Overcome Sexual & Religious ShameHow to Tell Your Wife About Your Porn RelapseMUSIC BY: Music by https://www.bensound.com/free-music-for-videosLicense code: T6KN2ASHGMV9YDPOLicense code: Y4VJIQHHBPFXTDNPThe Balance of GrayGod, doubt, and proof walk into a podcast... it goes better than you’d expect!Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showNo More Desire

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• 92: How One Man Stayed Sober While Alone and in Pain: What His Story Teaches Us About Porn Addiction Recovery

  What happens when you're stuck at home, in pain, and totally alone? For most men recovering from porn addiction, that’s the ultimate relapse setup.But for Steve, a client in my recovery program, this moment of isolation became the most spiritually grounded, mentally focused, and connected time of his life.In this episode, I share the story of how Steve stayed sober after surgery while his wife and kids were out of the country—how he avoided porn cravings, built emotional resilience, and grew stronger in his relationship with God.You'll learn:How to overcome porn addiction when you're alone and vulnerableDaily mindset practices that keep cravings from taking rootHow prayer, scripture, and intention can replace porn as a coping mechanismWhy pain can be the foundation for real spiritual growthHow to develop a recovery mindset and lifestyle that holds under pressureIf you're struggling with relapse, loneliness, temptation, or want to support someone who is, this episode is for you.This is porn addiction recovery from the inside out—real habits, spiritual power, and mental clarity. You’ll walk away with hope and a concrete plan to stay sober when it’s hardest.BUILD THE NO MORE PORN LIFESTYLEFREE WORKSHOP: The 8 Keys to Lose Your Desire for PornFREE EBOOK: The 10 Tools to Conquer Porn CravingsSchedule a Free ConsultationBuy Me a CoffeeMORE ARTICLESHow to Replace Porn Addiction | Gain Motivation, Reduce Symptoms of Anxiety & DepressionHow Do I Stop My Husband from Watching Porn?My Wife Ignores My Progress with Porn Addiction: Navigating Relationship StrugglesSelf-Control & Porn Addiction | Why Willpower Always FailsWhy Doesn’t God Take My Porn Addiction?Christianity and Porn Addiction | How to Overcome Sexual & Religious ShameHow to Tell Your Wife About Your Porn RelapseMUSIC BY: https://www.bensound.comLicense code: TKLXBG2QWI7JR0N1Mikhail Smusev from Pixabay DELOSound from PixabayThe Balance of GrayGod, doubt, and proof walk into a podcast... it goes better than you’d expect!Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showNo More Desire

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• 91: How to Replace Porn Addiction | Gain Motivation, Reduce Symptoms of Anxiety & Depression, Build Focus & Attention, Beat the Addictive Mindset, and Be the Husband Your Wife Needs

  How can you replace porn addiction? The answer is not a mystery. Essentially, it requires you to build the skills of a porn addiction recovery mindset and lifestyle. It also requires consistency.If recovery were a car, these recovery skills would be the engine, and consistency would be the fuel. You can rewire your brain and stop watching porn using these skills and this consistency.You may have achieved a week or two of sobriety at some point. Or even a few months. But would you like to make it a year, 5 years, 10 years, and beyond? How do you maintain focus and motivation to stay sober from porn when times get tough? When you don’t feel good enough as a husband or father, when work sucks, life gets overwhelming, you’re exhausted or burnt out, you lose something or someone you loved, your wife isn’t connecting with you, your kids are testing your patience, or your best intentions end in failure? A car’s engine cannot function long-term without regular oil changes. Without these, the engine corrodes, breaks down, and eventually fails. You may know the skills to stay sober. You may have a nice frame, engine, and all the bells and whistles. But if you don’t have adequate, clean oil in your engine, you’ll never achieve long-term sobriety and truly lose your desire for porn. So, how do you quit porn, avoid porn relapse, and stay sober in tough times? You need oil. BUILD THE NO MORE PORN LIFESTYLEFREE WORKSHOP: The 8 Keys to Lose Your Desire for PornFREE EBOOK: The 10 Tools to Conquer Porn CravingsSchedule a Free ConsultationBuy Me a CoffeeMORE ARTICLESThe Neuroscience of Quitting Porn: Build a New BrainHow Do I Stop My Husband from Watching Porn?Self-Control & Porn Addiction | Why Willpower Always FailsWhy Doesn’t God Take My Porn Addiction?Christianity and Porn Addiction | How to Overcome Sexual & Religious ShameHow to Tell Your Wife About Your Porn RelapseMusic by: Bensound.com/free-music-for-videosLicense code: CQT5HHJGDQUOPWMSThe Balance of GrayGod, doubt, and proof walk into a podcast... it goes better than you’d expect!Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showNo More Desire

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