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• 101: Sexual Desire Isn’t Sin | The Conversation Christian Men Are Afraid to Have

  A raw, redemptive conversation with Tina Huggins about healing religious sexual shame, restoring trust in marriage, and breaking the real roots of porn addiction. What if your deepest struggle with porn addiction isn’t about lust—but about unhealed shame?In this episode of the No More Desire podcast, host Jake Kastleman sits down with Tina Huggins, a restorative family mediator and certified divorce coach who shares insights for porn addiction recovery, religious trauma, and high-conflict relationships. Tina has spent years guiding men and couples—including those from Christian backgrounds—through the real roots of addiction, helping them overcome shame, rebuild intimacy, and heal their marriages from the inside out.Let’s be clear—Tina’s not here to tell anyone to walk away from their marriage. Her focus is on restoration, not separation. She brings an emotionally intelligent, trauma-informed approach to healing that blends psychology, physiology, and spiritual wisdom.What We Cover in This Conversation:How religious teachings around sex can create toxic shame—and fuel pornography addictionWhy men often confuse sexual desire with sin—and how it warps self-worthWhat most wives misunderstand about their partner’s porn use—and how to respond with strength and compassionThe science of trauma in the body and how unresolved emotional wounds drive addictionHow couples can heal together through truth-telling, vulnerability, and connectionTina also shares gripping real-life experience working in battered women’s shelters, natural medicine, and recovery settings—giving her rare insight into the real emotional pain behind compulsive behavior, especially for Christian men facing sexual shame.Whether you’re battling porn addiction, supporting a spouse, or trying to heal your marriage from betrayal and isolation, this episode is packed with truth, compassion, and tools for lasting change.Recommended Episodes: How Do I Stop My Husband From Watching Porn?Why Doesn't God Take Away My Porn Addiction?When Wives Become Sex Objects | Porn Addiction in MarriageChristianity and Porn Addiction | Healing Your Relationship with GodGet Help with Porn Addiction: 👉 Free Workshop📘 Free Ebook🎧 Subscribe + leave a review to support the mission.Connect with Tina Huggins: Email: [email protected] Phone: 719-580-6684Support the showNo More Desire

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• 100: My Real Rock Bottom—Years After I Got Sober | And How Obsession with Perfection Nearly Ruined My Recovery

  We often think of a rock bottom story as the moment someone relapses, destroys their marriage, or hits crisis during active addiction. But what if rock bottom doesn’t come at the start of recovery? What if it shows up years after sobriety, long after you’ve quit porn?In this raw and deeply personal episode, I share the story of my real rock bottom—a collapse that came after I had overcome porn, but before I had truly healed.This isn’t just about addiction. It’s about how perfectionism, spiritual bypassing, emotional suppression, and the need for control nearly ruined my life—even while I was “doing everything right.”Whether you’re just beginning your porn addiction recovery journey or have years of sobriety behind you, this episode will speak to the deeper layers of healing:How I became addicted to productivity, spiritual performance, and “doing recovery perfectly”Why emotional sobriety matters just as much as behavioral sobrietyHow Internal Family Systems (IFS) helped me see that the voice I thought was the Spirit was actually a perfectionist protector part of my mindThe danger of confusing God’s will with your own fearThe moment I realized I had built my identity on shame, not truthHow I began healing my marriage, my mental health, and my relationship with GodWhat I learned about accountability, ownership, and the power of being realYou’ll also hear about how my first attempt at building a recovery business failed, what I learned from hitting emotional and spiritual bottom, and how my understanding of faith and addiction recovery had to radically change in order for me to grow.This is for the man who’s done the surface-level work… but still feels stuck.It’s for the guy who feels anxious, isolated, or ashamed even years into recovery.It’s for anyone ready to stop running, get honest, and choose growth.If you’ve ever wondered how to overcome shame, reclaim your agency, and pursue real healing from addiction—this conversation will meet you right where you are.Resources Mentioned: 👉 Free Workshop 📘 Free Ebook 🎧 Subscribe + leave a review to support the mission.Recommended Episodes: 1 Year of Porn Addiction Withdrawals - What to Expect When You Quit PornChristianity and Porn Addiction | How Your Relationship with God May Be Keeping You From QuittingWhy Doesn't God Take My Porn Addiction? Spirituality, Psychology, and Praying to QuitMusic by: SigmaMusicArt with PixabayMusic_Unlimited with PixabayBensound | License code: LHANC0A7PPATKICTSupport the showNo More Desire

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• 99: Self-Inflicted Sexual Trauma of Porn Addiction and Masturbation | Learning to Love Yourself Again So You Can Have a Healthy Sexual Relationship with Your Wife

  Do you feel sexually broken from years of porn addiction and compulsive masturbation? Like you've damaged your body, your mind, and your marriage—and there’s no way back?In this episode of the No More Desire podcast, Jake Kastleman explores the reality of self-inflicted sexual trauma and what it truly takes to overcome porn addiction. You’ll learn how to stop watching porn, confront your shame, and begin the process to stop for good.We talk honestly about how masturbation addiction rewires your brain, damages intimacy, and leaves men feeling spiritually and emotionally numb. You’ll discover how to rebuild sexual intimacy after porn, heal your relationship, and reconnect with your body and your wife.Using the lens of Internal Family Systems, neuroscience, and spiritual truth, Jake helps you reclaim healthy masculinity and take responsibility without self-condemnation. This is about emotional healing for men, the kind that leads to deep, lasting men’s sexual healing and the freedom to love with integrity.Whether you're navigating porn and marriage issues, seeking Christian porn recovery, or trying to restore intimacy after sobriety, this episode offers the tools and encouragement to take your next step.Because healing isn't just about quitting behaviors—it's about becoming whole again.Free Resources:FREE WORKSHOPFREE EBOOKRecommended Articles:Why She’s Pissed Off and Turned Off—and How to Fix ItHow to Rebuild Trust After Porn Addiction and Betrayal Trauma: 8 ToolsHow Do I Stop My Husband From Watching Porn?My Wife Ignores My Progress With Porn AddictionWhat Do I Do When My Wife is Triggered?Support the showNo More Desire

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• 98: Porn and Pixels: The Hidden Link Between Video Games and Porn Addiction

  Is your gaming habit quietly fueling your porn addiction? In this episode of No More Desire, Jake Kastleman explores the surprising neurological and psychological overlap between video games and porn use. Drawing from real neuroscience, addiction psychology, and philosophical insight, this solo episode breaks down why so many men stuck in compulsive porn cycles also spend hours gaming—and how both behaviors reinforce the same addictive pathways in the brain.You’ll learn:How dopamine dysregulation links gaming and porn addictionWhy video games reinforce avoidance, escapism, and dissociationHow cross-addiction and habit stacking sabotage your recoveryThe Internal Family Systems (IFS) perspective on gaming as a protector partHow to reclaim your presence, power, and masculine focus by healing your relationship with digital stimulationWhether you’re a gamer, a recovering porn user, or spouse of an addict—this episode will challenge you to look deeper at the function of these behaviors, and give you actionable steps to break the loop.It's time to reset your brain and reclaim freedom. Take the next step toward full recovery:Free Porn Recovery WorkshopFree Porn Addiction eBookRecommended Episodes: The Neuroscience of Quitting PornThe Porn Addiction Funnel | How to Break the CycleSelf-Control & Porn Addiction | Why Willpower Doesn't WorkMusic I Use: Bensound.com/royalty-free-musicLicense code: JYS3POODXYNAKMNALicense code: 2FEL60NTEXEHBFNCSupport the showNo More Desire

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• 97: Why She’s Pissed Off & Turned Off—and How to Fix It | This Masculine Blueprint Is Helping Men End Porn Addiction and Save Their Marriages

  If your wife seems pissed off and turned off—constantly irritated, emotionally distant, and disinterested in sex—you’re not alone. For many men, this emotional tension fuels the desire to escape into porn. But what if the real issue isn’t her moods... but your missing leadership?In this episode, Jake Kastleman is joined by men’s coach and author GS Youngblood to help you fix your relationship, overcome porn addiction, and become the grounded, trusted man your partner longs for.You’ll learn how GS’s Masculine Blueprint helps men quit porn by reclaiming their presence, healing emotional wounds, and re-establishing emotional safety and sexual polarity in their marriages. This isn't about control or being a tough guy—it’s about rising above Nice Guy syndrome and stepping into calm, clear masculine leadership and love.Whether you're trying to save your marriage, overcome porn addiction, or feel like a man again, this conversation offers a roadmap to real change.In this episode, we talk about:Why she’s pissed off and turned off—and how you can fix itHow emotional disconnection and Nice Guy syndrome sabotage intimacyThe key role of emotional safety in rekindling desireWhat sexual polarity really means—and why it’s fading from your marriageHow to lead with clarity, not controlWhy quitting porn starts with reclaiming your masculine coreIf you're ready to fix your relationship, quit porn, and build a partnership filled with connection and trust—this episode is your starting point.🎧 Subscribe, rate, and share to help more men rise into lasting freedom.OVERCOME PORN ADDICTION:FREE WORKSHOPFREE EBOOKCONNECT WITH GS:WebsiteInstagramBook: The Masculine in RelationshipMusic I use: Bensound.comLicense code: KTRMPL5YKNKM2OTUSupport the showNo More Desire

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