Fanning the flame of conversation around motherhood, health & being human, The Road to Wisdom Podcast creates the environment to have meaningful discussions wit...
Navigating Relationships: Communication, Intimacy, and Emotional Needs Part 1 With John Gray
In episode 90 of The Road to Wisdom podcast, Chloe & Keshia speak with "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" Author, John Gray. We invited John on for a second time to discuss what it takes to deepen our connection in partnership. Relationships are complex, shaped by communication, emotional needs, and cultural expectations. In this episode, we explore why relationships break down, the impact of unresolved complaints, and how emotional availability—or the lack of it—affects connection.
We discuss how cultural influences and evolving gender roles shape modern relationships, often creating tension between tradition and personal fulfillment. Safety, both emotional and physical, is essential for trust and intimacy, while community support can make or break a partnership.
The conversation shifts to monogamy, emotional fulfillment, and the role of intimacy in long-term commitment. Communication styles often differ between men and women, leading to misunderstandings that fuel conflict. We break down how to navigate disagreements effectively and whether silence is a tool for healing or a sign of disconnection.
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Are We Having Enough Children? Why More Children Are Needed For a Positive Future With Paul Morland
In episode 89 of The Road to Wisdom podcast, Chloe & Keshia speak with demographer and author Paul Morland about the pressing issue of declining birth rates and their far-reaching implications for society. Paul highlights the economic and social consequences of low fertility, using Japan as a case study to illustrate how an aging population can lead to labor shortages, increased tax burdens, and a decline in innovation.
The conversation also delves into the environmental concerns often associated with population growth, challenging common misconceptions about overpopulation. Paul emphasizes the financial pressures that deter many families from having more children and argues that wealthier societies paradoxically experience lower birth rates. He advocates for a fundamental shift in societal priorities, calling for stronger government support, cultural changes, and a reevaluation of education and career structures to better accommodate family life.
Beyond the economic and logistical challenges, we explore the emotional and societal implications of anti-natalist perspectives. He makes a compelling case for a more pro-natalist approach—one that not only acknowledges the challenges of raising children but also celebrates the profound joys and long-term societal benefits of parenthood.
Ultimately, the discussion underscores the urgent need to support family growth as a cornerstone of a sustainable future. Without children, economies will stagnate, innovation will decline, and societies will struggle to thrive. Paul argues that housing affordability, tax incentives, and community support must become priorities to help young people start and sustain families. Shifting the narrative around family life from one of burden to one of fulfillment is essential in countering anti-natalist sentiments and ensuring a thriving future for generations to come.
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In episode 88 of The Road to Wisdom Podcast Chloe and Keshia engage in a thoughtful debrief following their conversation with Dr. Joanne Howe on the complexities of abortion, including the harrowing reality of babies who can be born alive during late-term procedures. They also explore private conversations shared by women—some offering their perspectives on abortion, while others reflect on their personal experiences and regrets. This concise yet meaningful discussion serves as the first of many post-episode reflections on challenging and controversial topics.
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Birth, Loss & Love: Lucette Romy’s Journey Through the Unthinkable
In Episode 87 of The Road to Wisdom Podcast, Chloe and Keshia have a deeply moving conversation with Lucette Romy as she courageously shares the story of her pregnancy, birth, and the unimaginable loss of her baby, Dash Ra, just hours after he entered the world.
Lucette reflects on her pregnancy—one that was filled with ease and trust in her body—and explains her decision to free birth at home, supported by a birth keeper rather than a hospital setting. She takes us through her labor, the intensity and triumph of birth, and the moments that followed, leading to the heartbreaking loss of her and her partner Tom’s baby boy.
In this conversation, Lucette bravely recounts the devastating aftermath—navigating grief, the painful uncertainty of waiting months for answers, and the deeply traumatic experience of an autopsy. She opens up about the emotional and logistical challenges that come with losing a baby, shedding light on the often-overlooked complexities of postpartum loss.
We also explore the vital roles of doulas, midwives, and birth keepers in supporting birthing mothers and discuss the importance of informed choices in all birth settings. Through her own heartbreaking experience, Lucette has found purpose in creating a resource for other mothers—offering guidance, support, and knowledge for those who may experience a similar loss or simply want to understand their options should the unthinkable happen.
This is a tender and powerful episode that honors the depth of a mother’s love, the pain of loss, and the resilience of the human spirit.
Lucette can be found on Ig @lucetteromy and on her podcast @sanamama_
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Fire Ants: Fear, Propaganda and Reality with Simon Mulvaney From Save The Bees
In episode 86 of the Road to Wisdom podcast, Keshia and Chloe sit down with Simon Mulvany from Save the Bees to explore the contentious fire ant eradication program in Queensland. This conversation dives into the ecological, social, and political complexities surrounding the program, shedding light on the propaganda used to instil fear about fire ants and the government’s reliance on chemical solutions. Simon critiques the narrow approach to pest control, emphasizing the need for non-toxic alternatives like diatomaceous earth and the role native ants can play in managing fire ant populations naturally. The deeper implications of the eradication program are explored, including its impact on native bee populations and the broader organic farming industry. Simon highlights how the poisoning program has become an industry in itself, raising concerns about transparency and vested interests. He also discusses the legal rights of homeowners who resist forced chemical use, advocating for empowerment and informed decision-making within communities. Chloe, Keshia, and Simon delve into how media narratives and fear campaigns influence public perception of invasive species and pest control. They explore the environmental consequences of heavy chemical use, the introduction of controversial technologies like GMO mosquitoes, and the often-overlooked importance of native bees in maintaining biodiversity. Emphasizing the power of grassroots action and community-led solutions to environmental challenges, Simon underscores the value of organic, local approaches and the importance of public awareness in holding governments and organizations accountable. By prioritizing transparency, biodiversity, and sustainable methods, individuals can push back against harmful policies and advocate for healthier ecosystems. This episode serves as a call to action, reminding listeners of the vital role they play in protecting public health, biodiversity, and the integrity of the natural world. Simon and his work can be found at https://www.beethecure.com.au and on IG: @savethebeesaustralia Loved what you heard in this episode? Your support means the world. Make sure to hit that subscribe button, spread the word with your pals, and drop us a review. By doing so, you're not just tuning in – you're fueling our community's growth and paving the way for more incredible guests to grace our show. As the week rolls by, we're already cooking up more tantalizing content for your hungry ears. Keen to stay in the loop with the latest episode releases? Follow our journey on Instagram at @theroadtowisdom.podcast and catch behind-the-scenes action on our YouTube channel @theroadtowisdompodcast. Don't miss out on a thing – also, snag the freshest updates straight to your inbox by subscribing to our newsletter over at https://www.theroadtowisdompodcast.com/. It's your VIP ticket to all things The Road To Wisdom
Fanning the flame of conversation around motherhood, health & being human, The Road to Wisdom Podcast creates the environment to have meaningful discussions with thought provoking leaders around the world. With the intention to further educate and deep dive into both curious and contentious subject matter, your hosts, Chloe & Keshia, ask the tough questions in order to reveal the truth at its core. No subject is off limits exploring relationships, intimacy, parenting, health, industrialised systems, ethics, political ideologies & much more.
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