The Strong Life Project Podcast

Most people waste years blaming the wrong enemy. They point at their boss, their partner, their past, their circumstances, the economy, their parents, their workload. And yes, those things can be hard. But they are rarely the thing doing the most damage. In this episode, I unpack a brutal truth. The most consistent source of pain in your life is often you. Not because you are weak, but because you keep running the same self-destructive patterns on repeat. The way you talk to yourself. The standards you keep lowering. The excuses you keep protecting. The procrastination you keep calling rest. The boundaries you do not enforce. The conversations you avoid. The goals you abandon the moment it gets uncomfortable. We break down what self sabotage actually looks like in real life, how your identity will fight to stay the same even when you say you want growth, and why waiting to feel ready is a trap. If you want a better life, you need a higher level of personal honesty. Not more motivation. Not another plan. You need ownership, discipline, and the willingness to do the work when it is inconvenient. Your worst enemy is not out there. It is the version of you that keeps choosing comfort over change. The post EP 3586 Your worst enemy can’t hurt you as much as you do appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

Pain is unavoidable. Suffering is optional. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman cuts through the noise and explains why so many people stay stuck, exhausted, and emotionally overwhelmed. The problem isn’t the pain itself. It’s the resistance to reality, responsibility, and what actually matters. When urgency dominates your life, the important things—like family, health, relationships, and values—get pushed aside. And that’s where real damage is done. This episode is a wake-up call for high performers, leaders, and driven people who are constantly reacting instead of living intentionally. Shaun breaks down how resisting discomfort, avoiding hard conversations, and staying busy instead of being present multiplies stress and slowly erodes the foundations of a strong life. Key Takeaways: Why resistance turns normal pain into long-term suffering How urgency keeps you trapped in reaction mode The hidden cost of neglecting what’s truly important, especially family Why acceptance is not weakness but strength and clarity How to reduce suffering by changing how you respond, not what you feel If your life feels heavy, rushed, or disconnected, this episode will force you to confront what you’re avoiding and realign with what actually matters. Listen now and start reducing suffering by dropping resistance and choosing presence, responsibility, and perspective. The post EP 3585 Suffering is pain multiplied by resistance appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

Most people aren’t failing because they don’t work hard. They’re failing because they’re busy with the wrong things. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman dismantles the trap of urgency and why constantly reacting to what screams the loudest slowly destroys what actually matters, your health, your relationships, your family, and your long-term success. Urgent tasks create the illusion of productivity. Important work builds a life. High performers learn to protect what matters most, even when the pressure is on and the noise is relentless. If you keep choosing emails, notifications, and other people’s priorities over your own values, don’t be surprised when the foundations of your life start to crack. Key Takeaways: Why urgent tasks feel productive but quietly sabotage your life How prioritising urgency erodes family, relationships, and wellbeing The difference between being busy and being effective How disciplined prioritisation creates calm, clarity, and leadership Practical ways to protect what’s important before it’s damaged This episode is a wake-up call. Listen now and realign your time, energy, and focus before urgency costs you the things you can’t replace. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube Follow Shaun O’Gorman for more high-performance insights. The post EP 3584 Don’t choose the urgent over the important appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

One of the fastest ways to burn yourself out is trying to rescue people who refuse to take responsibility for themselves. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman delivers a blunt but necessary message about boundaries, ownership, and emotional maturity. Helping someone with a practical problem is kindness. Trying to fix their life for them is a mistake that keeps them stuck and drains you in the process. This episode challenges leaders, coaches, parents, and high performers to look at where they are over-functioning for others and under-serving their own life. Real growth happens when people experience the consequences of their choices and decide to change. Key Takeaways: The difference between support and enabling Why fixing people robs them of responsibility and resilience How poor boundaries lead to resentment and burnout When helping becomes harmful to both sides How to step back without guilt and lead by example If you’re exhausted from carrying other people’s problems, this episode will reset your perspective and strengthen your boundaries. Listen now and reclaim your energy, focus, and leadership. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube The post EP 3583 You can fix their tyre but don’t fix their life appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

Most people keep repeating the same behaviours, expecting different outcomes, then wonder why nothing changes. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman dismantles the self-sabotaging patterns that keep people stuck in frustration, burnout, and underperformance. This is a direct conversation about personal responsibility, awareness, and the cost of refusing to change what clearly isn’t working. Key Takeaways: Why humans default to familiar pain instead of unfamiliar growth How ego, identity, and comfort lock you into repeating mistakes The real reason insight alone doesn’t create change How to interrupt destructive patterns before they become permanent Practical steps to stop reacting and start choosing differently If your life feels like the same problem on repeat, this episode will challenge you to stop blaming circumstances and start adjusting your behaviour. Nothing changes until you do. Listen now and break the cycle. Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube The post EP 3582 Why do we keep bashing our head against the wall appeared first on The Strong Life Project.