The Strong Life Project Podcast

In EP 3591, Never miss two days in a row, you get a simple rule that stops small slip ups turning into a full collapse. One day off happens. Life hits. Motivation dips. But the second missed day is where the identity damage starts. This episode breaks down why your brain treats two missed days as permission to quit, and how to interrupt that pattern before it becomes a new normal. You will hear the difference between a mistake and a mindset. Missing one workout is a scheduling issue. Missing two is often a story you start telling yourself about who you are and what you do. The point is not perfection. The point is preserving momentum and protecting your standards. The episode reframes discipline as a system, not a feeling, and gives you practical ways to make the comeback day easy, even when you are tired, busy, or disappointed in yourself. You will also learn how to plan for failure without using it as an excuse. That means having a minimum baseline action, deciding in advance what counts as a win on messy days, and removing friction so restarting is automatic. The goal is to build self trust through consistent returns, not heroic streaks that eventually snap. If you have been stuck in cycles of starting strong then fading out, this is your circuit breaker. The rule is ruthless because it works. Fall down if you must. Just do not stay down twice. The post EP 3591 Never miss two days in a row appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

In EP 3590 of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman pulls apart the deferred life hypothesis: the quiet belief that real living starts later. Later when the kids are older, when the business is stable, when you’re leaner, calmer, richer, or finally “sorted”. It sounds responsible. It is often disguised avoidance. This episode names the cost of that pattern. When you keep postponing joy, connection, health, and meaning, you don’t stay neutral. You drift. The goalposts move, the workload expands, and your nervous system learns that relief only arrives after the next milestone. For many people, that milestone never lands. You get the promotion and feel nothing. You hit the revenue target and instantly chase the next one. That’s the trap. Shaun contrasts deliberate delayed gratification with a vague, never-ending deferral. Saving for a house is a clear trade-off. Deferring your entire life is a gamble with no end date. The episode also explores how identity gets welded to productivity and achievement, and why high performers are especially vulnerable: you can hide in work and call it ambition. You’ll get practical prompts to audit where you are living on autopilot, where you are outsourcing happiness to a future version of you, and what you’ve been “too busy” to prioritise. Shaun’s reframe is simple: build a life you don’t need to escape from. That means standards, boundaries, and daily choices that create fulfilment now, not someday. To make it practical, Shaun offers a reset: choose one neglected domain (health, relationship, purpose, or play), commit to a daily minimum action, and schedule it before work expands to fill the space. Then tell the truth about what you trade away every time you say “after this week”. If you’ve been waiting to start living, this episode is your wake-up call. You don’t need a new year. You need a new decision. The post EP 3590 The deferred life hypothesis appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

In EP 3589, Sometimes you can just do what you can do, I unpack a truth most people resist until life forces it on them. There are seasons when you are not going to be at your best, and pretending otherwise just adds guilt, stress, and self-sabotage. Sometimes you are carrying fatigue, grief, pressure, illness, family strain, or just the mental load of being human. In those moments, the goal is not peak performance. The goal is staying in the game. This episode is about stripping things back to what is controllable. Your next decision. Your smallest repeatable action. Your non-negotiables. When you stop demanding perfection, you create momentum again. I talk through how to recognise the difference between a genuine low-capacity season and an excuse pattern. One is real and deserves compassion and strategy. The other is avoidance dressed up as self-care. You will learn how to set a minimum standard for the day so you keep identity intact. Train, but reduce intensity. Eat simply, not perfectly. Have the hard conversation, but keep it short and clear. Do the work, but focus on the one thing that moves the needle. This is not lowering the bar. This is protecting the foundation so you can rebuild strength when capacity returns. If you have been beating yourself up because you are not firing on all cylinders, this episode will reset your expectations and give you a practical way forward. You do not need to do everything. You need to do what you can do consistently and let that be enough for today. The post EP 3589 Sometimes you can just do what you can do appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

In this episode, I challenge you to use a simple question to create a brutal level of self-honesty: if you could speak to yourself from one year ago, what would you ask them and why? This is not about regret. It is about responsibility. Because the quality of your future is directly tied to the quality of the questions you are willing to face right now. We unpack how most people drift because they avoid the hard conversations with themselves. They stay busy, distracted, and reactive. A year passes, then another, and nothing meaningful changes because nothing meaningful is confronted. This episode helps you identify the patterns you kept repeating, the standards you let slide, and the decisions you delayed. You will be guided to ask questions that expose the truth about your health, relationships, leadership, discipline, boundaries, and purpose. Then we turn that awareness into action by creating clear commitments that actually change behaviour. If you want the next 12 months to look different, you need to stop negotiating with the life you say you want and start living like the person who already earned it. The post EP 3588 What question would you ask yourself one year ago appeared first on The Strong Life Project.

In EP 3587, Shaun gets blunt about the one habit that quietly ruins progress: avoiding tough questions. Most people say they want change, but they keep asking themselves soft questions that protect comfort, protect ego, and protect the story they tell themselves about why their life is the way it is. This episode is a wake-up call to stop negotiating with your potential and start interrogating your patterns. You will be challenged to look at what you are tolerating, what you are avoiding, and what you keep blaming on circumstances when it is really a standards problem. Shaun breaks down why tough questions feel threatening, how your brain will try to distract you with busyness and “later,” and why self-honesty is the fastest path to clarity, discipline, and real confidence. If you want better outcomes in your health, relationships, leadership, and self-respect, the answer is not more motivation. The answer is better questions, asked consistently, followed by uncomfortable action. The post EP 3587 Why don’t we ask ourselves tough questions appeared first on The Strong Life Project.