Happier with Gretchen Rubin
Gretchen Rubin / The Onward Project

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- Not sticking to a habit that’s important to you? Dan Harris and Laurie Santos join Gretchen to share how to spot what's holding you back — and get moving again.
Mentioned in This Episode:
10% Happier podcast
10% with Dan Harris app
The Happiness Lab podcast
Move 26 challenge & seasonal bingo card in the Happier app
The Move 26 in ‘26 Challenge
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Email: podcast@gretchenrubin.com
Website: gretchenrubin.com
Instagram: @gretchenrubin | @lizcraft
Learn more about Gretchen's Four Tendencies personality framework and take the free quiz.
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Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices - We revisit some of our most useful Four Tendencies listener questions, including how to help a Rebel stick to exercise, work with a Questioner boss, and keep Obliger people-pleasing from getting in the way of dating.
Revisited Highlights:
Episode 43: Listener Round-Up of the Four Tendencies
Episode 120: Listener Questions about the Four Tendencies
Episode 280: Questions from Listeners about the Four Tendencies
Mentioned in This Episode:
The Four Tendencies in Action Workbook
The Four Tendencies Quiz
Connect with Us:
Email: podcast@gretchenrubin.com
Website: gretchenrubin.com
Instagram: @gretchenrubin | @lizcraft
Take Gretchen's free Four Tendencies quiz
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Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ep. 603: Avoid the Sunk-Cost Fallacy, and Why it’s Hard to Plan for Emergencies
09/09/2026 | 32 mins.We talk about how to avoid the mental trap of the “sunk-cost fallacy.” Plus, why it’s so hard to plan for emergencies and the biases that keep us from preparing for risk.
Episode highlights:
Try This at Home: Avoid the sunk-cost fallacy—the mental trap that keeps us committed because of the time, money, or energy we’ve already spent [04:57]
Happiness Hack: Create a personal reading syllabus with deadlines to help you read more [12:58]
Happiness Stumbling Block: Six common biases that make it difficult to assess and prepare for rare but serious emergencies [16:03]
Demerits and Gold Stars: Gretchen’s Demerit: Turning into a Knicks bore; Elizabeth’s Gold Star: To her friend Mindy for a new exercise experience [24:11]
Mentioned in this episode:
The Ostrich Paradox: Why We Underprepare for Disasters by Robert Meyer and Howard Kunreuther (Amazon, Bookshop)
This Vast Enterprise: A New History of Lewis and Clark by Craig Fehrman (Amazon, Bookshop)
Audition by Katie Kitamura (Amazon, Bookshop)
Rolling utility cart
Happier Labor Day resources
Connect with Us:
Email: podcast@gretchenrubin.com
Website: gretchenrubin.com
Instagram: @gretchenrubin | @lizcraft
Take Gretchen's free Four Tendencies quiz
Enjoyed this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or rate us on Spotify—it helps other listeners find the show!
Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app.
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices- Even after a person has died, we can continue to understand them in new ways.
Connect with Us:
Email: podcast@gretchenrubin.com
Website: gretchenrubin.com
Instagram: @gretchenrubin | @lizcraft
Take Gretchen's free Four Tendencies quiz
Enjoyed this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or rate us on Spotify—it helps other listeners find the show!
Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app.
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices - We discuss how people know what to do in certain situations. Plus why you might–or might not–make friends at the gym.
Episode highlights:
Something Making Us Happier: Elizabeth finds connection to our beloved father through reading history. Gretchen delights in discovering Jamie’s rock-skipping skills [00:48]
I’ve Been Meaning to Ask You: How do people know what to do in certain situations? [07:29]
Spotlight on a Tool: Check out my free 7-day email challenge designed to help you head into fall with more energy [13:03]
I’ve Been Meaning to Ask You: Do you make friends at the gym? [14:40]
Mentioned in this episode:
This Vast Enterprise (Amazon, Bookshop)
Check out Gretchen’s free 7-day movement challenge here
Marcus Aurelius, Meditations (Amazon, Bookshop)
Connect with Us:
Email: podcast@gretchenrubin.com
Website: gretchenrubin.com
Instagram: @gretchenrubin | @lizcraft
Take Gretchen's free Four Tendencies quiz
Enjoyed this episode? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or rate us on Spotify—it helps other listeners find the show!
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About Happier with Gretchen Rubin
Gretchen Rubin is HAPPIER, and she wants you to be happier too. The #1 bestselling author of The Happiness Project and Better Than Before gets more personal than ever as she brings her practical, manageable advice about happiness and good habits to this lively, thought-provoking podcast. Gretchen’s cohost and guinea pig is her younger sister, Elizabeth Craft, a TV writer and producer living in Los Angeles, who (lovingly) refers to Gretchen as her happiness bully.
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