IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective

"Send Ben a text"In this episode, Ben discusses the critical role parents play in teaching responsibility to their teenagers through personal example. He explores the contrast between victim and hero mindsets, explains why many parents struggle with expecting more responsibility from their teens than they demonstrate themselves, and provides practical strategies for creating a culture of accountability at home. Learn how to break free from the blame game and empower your teens by modeling the responsible behavior you want to see in them. Ben shares personal experiences, recommended books, and actionable steps to help parents become better examples of responsibility for their teenagers.00:00 Introduction to Impact Parenting00:49 The Power of Responsibility03:00 Blame Game vs. Responsibility04:10 Hero Mindset in Action06:11 Modeling Responsibility for Teens09:11 Practical Tips for Parents14:26 Recommended Reads and ConclusionWant a Simple Step by Step Parenting Debrief Guide? Go download the FREE Parenting Debrief Guide. It’s simple and quick. It will help you uplevel your parenting. And, it’s completely FREE! Go to benpughcoaching.com/debrief Download the debrief Start with your own internal debrief.

"Send Ben a text"In this episode, Ben talks with Marci Owen about how our minds get programmed and how we can change that programming. Here are the key points they discuss:Main Topics:How past experiences shape how we think about ourselvesWhy it's important to notice patterns in how we act and thinkWays to change unhelpful beliefs about ourselvesThe power of being kind to ourselves when we make mistakesKey Stories and Examples:Marci shares her story about struggling with math and how it affected her confidenceBen talks about learning to solve a Rubik's Cube after believing he couldn't do itThey discuss how parents can help their kids by working on themselves firstImportant Tips:Take time to notice your thoughts and behaviorsRemember that you can change old patterns of thinkingBe patient with yourself as you make changesPractice new ways of thinking when things are going wellResources Mentioned:Free Questions GuideMarci's Self Love Lab Marci's podcast: The Courageous and Confident Christian MomConnect with Marci:Instagram: @marci.owencoachingWebsite: httsp://marciowen.comWant a Simple Step by Step Parenting Debrief Guide? Go download the FREE Parenting Debrief Guide. It’s simple and quick. It will help you uplevel your parenting. And, it’s completely FREE! Go to benpughcoaching.com/debrief Download the debrief Start with your own internal debrief.

"Send Ben a text"Join me for an insightful conversation with Marci, an advanced certified trauma-informed life coach who specializes in helping Christian moms cultivate self-love and confidence. In this powerful episode, we explore how early life experiences shape our behaviors and discuss practical strategies for personal growth.We'll dive into: • Why self-love isn't selfish - it's essential for effective parenting • How subconscious patterns affect our daily lives and relationships • The impact of early life experiences on our nervous system • Ways to recognize and change limiting coping mechanisms • The importance of self-awareness in personal growthWhether you're a mom struggling with putting yourself last, someone caught in negative behavior patterns, or just interested in personal development, this episode offers valuable insights into understanding and improving yourself.Learn how to break free from limiting patterns and embrace a more empowered way of living. Discover why taking responsibility for your own growth can transform not just your life, but your family's too.Want a Simple Step by Step Parenting Debrief Guide? Go download the FREE Parenting Debrief Guide. It’s simple and quick. It will help you uplevel your parenting. And, it’s completely FREE! Go to benpughcoaching.com/debrief Download the debrief Start with your own internal debrief.

"Send Ben a text"As we get close to the end of 2024, it's time to think about our lives and ask ourselves: are we stopping ourselves from being the best we can be? In this episode, we talk about how our goals and dreams are all connected, and how the choices we make in one part of life can change other parts too.We'll talk about: • Seeing the places in your life where you might be holding yourself back • How goals and dreams that seem different are actually connected • The power of being the person you want to be • Why blaming others, making excuses, and acting like a victim is bad • Easy ways to take responsibility and control your life • How being the change you want to see can make your relationships and life betterWhether you want to be healthier, make your business better, or have a better relationship with your teen, this episode will help you break free from the things that are holding you back and start living as the best version of yourself.As we go into the New Year, let this be your chance to stop holding yourself back and start being the change you wish to see in your world. Listen now and find out how powerful it is to be your best self!Want a Simple Step by Step Parenting Debrief Guide? Go download the FREE Parenting Debrief Guide. It’s simple and quick. It will help you uplevel your parenting. And, it’s completely FREE! Go to benpughcoaching.com/debrief Download the debrief Start with your own internal debrief.