Most financial advice sounds simple.
Spend less. Save more. Invest.
But if it were that easy, more people would be getting ahead.
In this episode, we unpack why money isn’t just about behaviour or discipline. It’s emotional, it’s learned, and for many of us, it’s shaped by survival, stress, and lived experience.
We talk about why people spend even when they know they shouldn’t, the hidden role of shame, and how patterns with money often come from deeper wounds, not a lack of knowledge.
This kōrero explores how colonisation, capitalism, and consumerism have shaped the way we experience money, and why traditional financial advice often misses the mark, especially for Māori and those navigating financial pressure.
You’ll learn:
why most financial decisions are driven by emotion, not logic
how survival mode impacts your ability to build wealth
the difference between being “bad with money” and coping with stress
how trauma shows up in both overspending and avoidance
why creating safety is the first step to changing your money habits
This isn’t about spending less.
It’s about understanding why you spend in the first place.
Because more information won’t change your life, but a different relationship with money will.
If this resonates, take a moment to reflect on the patterns you’re noticing in your own life.
And if you’re ready to start shifting your relationship with money, you can learn more about 4 My Moko here.