On this solo episode with Bella, we embark on a journey of identity and the art of productive disagreement. Exploring the realms of identity and Eastern philosophy, we learn how to maintain an independent sense of Self and embrace differing viewpoints. From emotional sovereignty to asking better questions and working collaboratively, Bella guides us through the pillars of productive disagreement, a skill which completely changed her life and her ability to carve her own path. Bella also answers a thought-provoking question on navigating industries marked by conformity and cancel culture.Main Points:Embracing Eastern philosophy's perspective on identity.The significance of detaching from preconceived notions of belonging.The Art of Productive Disagreement — pillars to better dialogue and discussionThe importance of emotional and intellectual sovereignty.Ask better questions to gain more insightful information.The power of curiosity and understanding in disagreements.The transformational shift towards working together and leadership.Embracing neutrality in discussions to expand our horizons.The spiritual wisdom of accepting reality and active participation.Reminding ourselves that our identity is not solely defined by our ideas.How to discuss ideas without endorsing them.Embracing your unique life path through adversity and uncertainty.In this episode, you'll gain insights into the art of productive disagreement, empowering you to navigate conversations with civility, curiosity, and understanding. Discover how maintaining an independent sense of Self and embracing diverse viewpoints can lead to more meaningful interactions. Whether you're facing challenging discussions and life scenarios or seeking personal growth, this episode provides valuable guidance for fostering open dialogue and higher levels of consciousness in today's world.TIMESTAMPS00:00 introduction04:36 The Role of Identity in Discourse/Disagreement18:50 Tips for Productive Disagreement49:00 Navigating Fear-Based Groups52:35 Bella’s Experience in Mainstream IndustriesREFERENCESThe Art of Productive Disagreement by Buster BensonHow To Have Impossible ConversationsJoin the ooomie gang:Follow us on socialhttps://www.instagram.com/ooom.podhttps://www.tiktok.com/@ooom.podhttps://twitter.com/ooom_podConnect with Bella & Nikki:https://www.instagram.com/bellasolanot/https://www.instagram.com/oathtogrowth/https://www.tiktok.com/@bellasolanot

In 2020 society went through a collective dark night of the soul that shook us and woke us up to much of the darkness that exist. Now that we are awake and aware, we can no longer fight darkness with darkness and divide with further divide. As we shift into higher levels of consciousness we are being asked to no longer fear the darkness, but to instead use this new found awareness as an opportunity to tap deeper into our light and self empowerment.In this episode, Nikki & Bella explore what it means to shift out of the old paradigms of fear and into one of love, unity, and understanding. Nikki & Bella delve deep into the fascinating realms of groupthink, mass formation psychosis, and the impact of fear on our decision-making processes as exemplified by 2020. Their goal is to equip you with insights on how to navigate darkness in the world without succumbing to blind trust and groupthink all while maintaining emotional and intellectual sovereignty. Explore the power of conscious disagreement, love over fear, solution focused action, and the profound wisdom of using light in addressing these challenges.The Impact of Fear: How groupthink and mass psychosis cloud our judgment and nurture a tribal mentality through fear-driven narratives.The Groupthink Dilemma: Understanding how groupthink obstructs clear thinking and fosters a tribal mindset, leading to irrational decisions.Strategies for Breaking Conformity: Methods to disrupt conformity by encouraging diverse perspectives and recognizing the signs of groupthink for better decision-making.Emotional and Intellectual Sovereignty: Reclaiming your inner power and ability to think for yourself, align your life to your values, and remain empowered despite surrounding chaos.Shining Light on Darkness: Exploring the role of conscious disagreement, love, and personal transformation in countering darkness and shifting collective consciousness.Oneness vs. Separation: Delving into the influence of fear on the illusion of separation, as a broader shift in consciousness highlights the idea of oneness.Wisdom on Duality: Embracing ancient teachings on the interconnectedness of opposites, shaped by our unique perceptions, culture, and experiences.The Power of Dissent: Highlighting the importance of dissent in preventing groupthink and promoting creative thinking and innovation within organizations.Consequences of Conformity: Understanding how groupthink can lead to poor decision-making, overlooked risks, and a lack of creativity, with far-reaching consequences.Individual Transformation: Emphasizing that change in the collective consciousness starts with individual transformation and aligning personal energy with positive values.This episode takes you on a journey through the complexities of human psychology, group dynamics, and the transformative power of love and consciousness. It encourages you to embrace dissent, seek harmony through diverse perspectives, and ultimately, bring light into the darkest corners of our world.We hope to empower you no matter what you believe and perceive. All is one <3Join the ooomie gang:Follow us on social:https://www.instagram.com/ooom.podhttps://www.tiktok.com/@ooom.podhttps://twitter.com/ooom_podConnect with Bella & Nikki:

Are you aware that everything outside of you is a reflection of your inner world? Life quite literally mirrors back to your deepest beliefs and programs in the forms of people, experiences, and your reality as a whole. Join Nikki and Bella as they dive into this topic in depth, specifically exploring the concept of “people as mirrors”. Nikki and Bella share their research in easter philosophy as well as an in depth overview of the ancient jewish teaching of The Seven Essene Mirrors of Relationship. This teaching theorizes that everything in one’s reality is simply a mirror into the deepest parts of ourselves and once we understand the kinds of mirrors that life shines back at us, we can better navigate our growth and expansion journey. This is an episode you are not going to want to miss. Prepare to never see your world the same as you gain the cheat code to better understanding and healing your inner world. Here’s what to expect:Nikki and Bella share their experience with seeing people in their life as mirrors to their inner world and how this has allowed for deeper understanding of self Bella delves into Zen philosophy, sharing a teaching from Zen master Thich Nhat Hanh on love and relationships. Gain insights that can profoundly impact your connections with others.The work of Carl Jung, Alan Watts, Viktor Frankl and Friedrich Nietsche on shadows, mirrors, relationship, meaning, and darkness.Nikki & Bella share personal experiences from their platonic and romantic relationships and what it revealed to them about themselvesTangible takeaways for understanding types of mirrors and what they indicate about you and your life path.An in-depth breakdown of The Seven Essene Mirrors of Relationship. These mirrors are the specific experiences, relationships, or challenges we attract into our lives that act as mirrors into our inner worlds. We explore each mirror in detail, including:The Mirror of the MomentThe Mirror of JudgmentThe Mirror of Lost LoveThe Mirrors of Compulsion and ObsessionThe Mirror of Sacred RelationshipThe Mirror of the Dark Night of the SoulThe Mirror of Divine OrderBy the end of this discussion, you'll have a deeper understanding of how these mirrors operate and how they can help you decode your reality to better understand your programs, beliefs, and distortions. Enjoy this enlightening episode, and prepare to never see your world the same!!!REFERENCES:Sacred Geometry of Relationships on GaiaThich Nhat Han on Inter-beingThe Seven Essene Mirrors of RelationshipsJoin the ooomie gang:https://www.instagram.com/ooom.podhttps://www.tiktok.com/@ooom.podhttps://twitter.com/ooom_podConnect with Bella & Nikki:https://www.instagram.com/bellasolanot/https://www.instagram.com/oathtogrowth/

In this episode, Nikki and Bella engage in a deep conversation about the fear of being seen. They explore how this fear manifests in relationships and its impact on our ability to form deep connections. Nikki and Bella share how to over this fear and emphasize the healing potential within long-term partnerships. They dissect the fear of being seen in society, revealing its roots in the fear of being disliked and judged. Nikki & Bella discuss how this fear can hinder one's pursuit of dreams and passions. Ultimately, they emphasize that releasing the fear of judgment is the key to unlocking authenticity and embracing one's true self.Bella shares her personal journey with sharing her shadow self with her partner and what this has caused within her relationshipNikki & Bella discuss what it means to be vulnerable and open within relationships and the impact that has on connection & intimacy Nikki shares what she has learned on the different stages and cycles of relationships and how to reach a stage of deeper soul connection & intimacy Bella & Nikki discuss how long term partnership is a container for deep healing and personal expansion if utilized correctlyBella & Nikki dive into a conversation on the overcoming fear of being disliked or judged in order to freely explore your passions and dreamsBella shares her personal story on embracing her values and beliefs within the workspace during covid and the results of thisHere is the link to the subconscious rewiring Bella was referring to at the end of the episode. Listen at your own risk. If used, there is a high chance you will start to not give a f what people think about you. Join the ooomie gang:Follow us on social:https://www.instagram.com/ooom.podhttps://www.tiktok.com/@ooom.podhttps://twitter.com/ooom_podConnect with Bella & Nikki:https://www.instagram.com/bellasolanot/https://www.instagram.com/oathtogrowth/https://www.tiktok.com/@bellasolanothttps://www.tiktok.com/@oathtogrowthWork with NikkiWork with Bella

A thorough discussion of how to achieve your goals from a place of devotion, balance, and sustainability. Say goodbye to resistance, re-commit to your practices, and achieve true flow state. Nikki & Bella break down how a balanced approach is what changes your life, rather than leaning too heavily into the masculine or the feminine. Through personal anecdotes as well as evidence/research-based examples, they outline how you can finally get back to your TRUE self and provide practical insights to help you overcome resistance, re-commit to your practices, and find your true flow state.Struggling with mornings? Feel averse to discipline? Unable to stick to your habits and self-development practices? We have the answers you need.Structure/flow. Masculine/feminine. Yin/yang. This episode integrates these concepts into the things that really matter in your everyday life.Key Points:Bella's 30-day Instagram hiatus: Detaching from social media and addressing scrolling addiction.Identifying and releasing energetic chords that may be holding you back in relationships.Reassessing your goals and identifying blockages as you review your 6-month vision.Tips for managing morning struggles and becoming a morning person.Shifting from a transactional mindset to one driven by genuine aspiration and abundance.Overcoming conflicting inner voices and reframing the resistance to personal growth.Building resilience and its significance in personal development.The nuance between devotion and discipline and why the former can be more sustainable.Defining a true balance between masculine and feminine energies with a powerful visual.Recognizing toxic femininity and its impact.Achieving and understanding the flow state, and the potential pitfalls of too much flow.Nikki and Bella share practices for building resilience, presence, and joy.The subtle ways we often self-sabotage our own progress.The negative impact of excessive media consumption on presence and joy.Bella’s ecstatic experience with bunniesTransform your life by finding the perfect balance between devotion and discipline. Say goodbye to resistance and embrace sustainable personal growth practices.REFERENCESHinge Points for Flow State and Productivity: https://youtu.be/hApnn1vnWi0Leverage Your Flow State: https://youtu.be/XJOsPyyYorkJoin the ooomie gang:Follow us on socialhttps://www.instagram.com/ooom.podhttps://www.tiktok.com/@ooom.podhttps://twitter.com/ooom_podConnect with Bella & Nikki:https://www.instagram.com/bellasolanot/https://www.instagram.com/oathtogrowth/https://www.tiktok.com/@bellasolanothttps://www.tiktok.com/@oathtogrowthWork with NikkiWork with