56. Finding Balance as a Working Boy Mom: A Conversation with Denise Tallcott
Balance sounds amazing, but it often feels impossible. Between work, schedules, and trying to actually sleep, most moms feel like they’re failing somewhere. In this episode, Heidi talks with leadership coach Denise Tallcott, founder of Working Moms Redefined, about what balance really looks like and how to stop beating yourself up for not “doing it all.”
They unpack the truth behind mom guilt, how to give yourself permission to parent differently than your mom did, and why defining your own version of success brings peace and connection at home (especially with teenage sons).
Denise also shares her simple “9 Minutes a Day for a Lifetime of Connection” framework; three small moments that can change everything - Grab it HERE
If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed or “not enough,” this one’s for you.
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55. Spoiled Boys Make Weak Men: 3 Ways to Raise Strong, Resilient Sons
What happens when we make life too easy for our boys?
In this episode, Heidi shares the powerful truth behind a phrase her husband told her years ago: “Spoiled boys make weak men.”
This isn’t about judgment or shame it’s about awareness. Heidi walks through the research on how overindulgence, overparenting, and avoiding conflict weaken a boy’s ability to grow into a capable, resilient man. You’ll learn three practical ways to help your son develop strength and responsibility whil
e keeping connection front and center.
If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I helping too much?” or felt guilty saying no, this episode will give you clarity, encouragement, and permission to raise a boy who can handle life with confidence.
Listen now to get your courage back and rediscover the joy in raising strong sons.
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54. The Confidence Crisis in Teen Boys: Why Your Son Doubts Himself (And 3 Ways to Build Him Back Up)
Do you ever look at your teenage son and think, “He’s capable of so much more, what’s stopping him?” You’re not alone.
In this episode of Raising Boys, Building Men, Heidi shares the truth about confidence. And it’s not built by pep talks or praise. It’s built through experience. You’ll learn three powerful ways to help your teenage son strengthen his confidence and self-esteem without nagging, rescuing, or pushing:
Let him struggle safely (and why that matters)
Give him meaningful responsibility
Encourage him to serve others
These small but powerful shifts will help your son develop grit, self-trust, and a sense of purpose which is the real foundation of confidence.
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53. Raising Tech-Healthy Teens in a Digital World: A Conversation with Andrea Davis from Better Screen Time
If you’ve ever taken your son’s phone away and watched him lose it, you are not alone.
In this episode of Raising Boys, Building Men, Heidi sits down with screen-time expert and mom of five, Andrea Davis, founder of Better Screen Time. Together, they talk about what healthy tech boundaries really look like, how to know if your son is ready for a phone, and how to stop parenting from fear when it comes to screens.
You’ll learn practical ways to set limits, build trust, and create a family tech plan that actually works. Plus, Andrea shares a free self-evaluation tool for parents and teens to decide if now is the right time for a device.
This isn’t about control it’s about connection, confidence, and protecting what matters most.
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52. 5 Truths About Raising Teenage Boys Every Mom Needs to Hear
One year ago, Heidi hit “record” on the very first episode of Raising Boys, Building Men with one goal: to give moms of boys a voice of truth and hope. Since then, she’s talked with psychologists, educators, and hundreds of moms who are all asking the same question: Will my son be okay? Am I doing enough?
In this special anniversary episode, Heidi shares the five biggest lessons she’s learned after a year of podcasting. You’ll hear why boys are struggling, what moms often misunderstand, and how much power you actually hold in your son’s life.
If you’ve ever blamed yourself for your son’s struggles, wondered if you’re doing it right, or simply needed a reminder that you’re not alone, this episode is for you.
Listen now to hear the truths every mom of boys needs to know.
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About Raising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys
Raising Boys, Building Men: The Go-To Parenting Podcast for Moms Raising Sons from Middle School to Manhood
Are you a mom caught in the whirlwind of raising sons? Do you find yourself:
• Wishing the arguments would just... stop?
• Frustrated by the constant battle with screens, schoolwork, and indifference?
• Longing for those simpler days when you could just enjoy your boy?
• Searching for a parenting approach that actually works?
Look no further! ”Raising Boys, Building Men” is your lifeline in ups and downs of boy-mom life.
In each episode, you’ll discover:
• Practical, same-day solutions to your most pressing parenting challenges
• Confidence boosters to become the mom your teenager needs
• Strategies to nurture good men while nurturing yourself and your relationships
My mission? To help you raise a resilient, happy son, take care of yourself, and have a blast doing it!
Ready to trade worry for fun? Conflict for connection? Short-term fixes for lifelong bonds? You’re in the right place, my friend.
Hey there! I’m Heidi – mom to 5 incredible sons, wife, social worker, and certified life coach. With three decades of boy-raising under my belt, I’ve tried every parenting trick in the book. But it wasn’t until I discovered that effective parenting doesn’t have to be complicated or miserable that everything changed. Now, I’m here to share those game-changing insights with you.
If you’re ready to:
• Become the mom you’ve always dreamed of being
• Raise sons who’ll thrive in this world
• Actually enjoy this wild ride of parenting
Then this podcast is your new secret weapon.
So, pop in those earbuds, and let’s transform your parenting journey together. It’s time to raise boys, build men, and have an absolute blast along the way!
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