Magnetic With Madelyn

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In this episode, I sit down with Kayne Buik, the man behind the viral Hey Honey accounts on TikTok and Instagram, for an honest conversation about inner child healing, owning your toxic patterns and what it takes for a man to feel safe being vulnerable.
Kayne opens up about being the poster child for toxicity in a past relationship, the moment he sat on the edge of his bed crying and knew he needed something different, and the $70K he has invested in self-development since. We talk about why your future is a well-rehearsed past until you change the script, the 777 and 888 signs that led me to the Gold Coast, and why you're never too late and never too early.
If you want your partner to be more vulnerable, Kayne shares what you need to be ready for first. And if you've been hiding parts of yourself to keep the peace in a relationship, his advice on laying it all on the line from the very first date is one to hear.
In this episode, we cover:
How Kayne went from being the toxic one in his relationship to healing his inner child

How do you heal your inner child, and why your future is a well-rehearsed past

Why one-on-one talk therapy was the least effective form of healing for Kayne

Letting go of mum guilt when your kids will still have their own experience of you

Angel numbers, signs from the universe and what 777 and 888 mean to us

How to trust the universe and trust the process when nothing seems to be moving

Why people pleasing and toxicity are both strategies, and how to take the armour off

If you want your partner to be more vulnerable, why you have to accept all of it

Why most people don't truly know their partner, and dating advice for women on showing up as yourself from the first date

How to stop people pleasing and give from a fuller cup

Mentioned in this episode:
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Listen next:
Why change feels hard, and what to do when you're doing the inner work but your outer world hasn't caught up yet → https://open.spotify.com/episode/7mSyD4yVipgNt7Eu6Qc90M
Connect with Kayne:
Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/heyhoneysocial
TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@heyhoneykayne
Book a Clarity Call with Kayne → https://heyhoney.au/clarity-call
Hey Honey → https://heyhoney.au/
Work with Madelyn:
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Magnetic with Madelyn is a podcast about identity, self-leadership, spirituality and mindset. New episodes every Monday.
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In this episode, Madelyn shares her biggest takeaway from a recent Joe Dispenza audio, and why changing your life feels so hard when everything around you still looks the same.
She walks you through what it means to think, act and be different in the same environment. The inner shift comes first, and your outer world can take three to six months or longer to catch up. If you've been doing the inner work and it feels like nothing is changing, this is your reminder that you're not failing.
Mentioned in this episode: Dr Joe Dispenza → https://drjoedispenza.com/
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In this episode, we cover:
Why changing your life feels so hard, through the lens of Joe Dispenza's work

How to change yourself when your environment stays the same

What it means to think, act and be as your higher self before anything outside you shifts

Why the inner shift comes first and your outer world takes time

Why it can take three to six months or longer to see your life change

Why it can feel like your manifestation isn't working when you're doing the inner work

How to spot the small signs your external world is starting to shift

Being greater than your body, your environment and time

Why your mind and body resist the unknown, and why that's where the most growth happens

Choosing a new thought on purpose to reprogram your mind

Why ambitious, self-led women keep moving the goalposts, and how to see how far you've come

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In this episode, Madelyn shares why you feel stuck and how to make an identity shift, even when the fear is still there.
She explains why your identity is a perception of self you can change and self-worth shapes the way you view things.
This episode explores self-concept, personal development and what it takes to choose your higher self every single day.
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In this episode:
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In this episode, we cover:
Why six months is happening either way, and the quote from Erin Camilleri that sets the tone

How to move from consumption to implementation once you understand your fear

Bringing awareness to where fear is holding you back and the negative stories on loop

Why your identity is a perception of self you can change

How a story of not feeling enough shaped Madelyn’s early success, and why she wishes she could go back and hug that version of herself

“No one’s gonna hand me that if I don’t hand it to myself”: choosing to believe in yourself

Mental rehearsal and the nightly habit Madelyn uses for her future self

Why feeling stuck in the in-between is one of the most expansive places to be

Timeline shifting made simple: making decisions from your higher self

Letting go of control and choosing trust, faith and surrender

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Carry your main character energy into every day. Build your future self profile and identity roadmap with me, live, inside my Magnetic Woman Mentorship ✨ → https://v2.stan.store/MadelynCarafa/p/magnetic-woman-mentorship
In this bonus episode, Madelyn guides you through a main character energy meditation to help you feel confident, capable and worthy.
This guided meditation for confidence grounds you, calls in a golden light of confidence, trust and authority, and helps you see yourself handling real moments in your life with grace and unwavering self-belief.
Madelyn shows you how to meet any doubts or fears with compassion, remembering they are part of you but not your identity.
Through a visualisation meditation, you’ll see your future self fully embodying your main character energy, then anchor it with affirmations for confidence and self-worth.
This meditation is a moment of personal growth to come back to whenever you need to remember that you’re the author of your story.
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In this episode, we cover:
Grounding your body with breath and roots connecting you to the earth

Calling in a golden light of confidence, determination, trust and authority

Seeing yourself handle a real moment at work, in a relationship or in a decision with grace and self-belief

Feeling your energy expand so you become magnetic to opportunities and the support you need

How to meet doubts and fears with compassion, without letting them become your identity

A future self meditation to see yourself achieving your goals and thriving in your relationships

Affirmations for confidence and self-worth: “I am my main character. I am confident, capable and worthy.”

Carrying self-trust and confidence with you into the rest of your day

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Meet her in this meditation, then build the roadmap to embody her, live, inside my Magnetic Woman Mentorship ✨ → https://v2.stan.store/MadelynCarafa/p/magnetic-woman-mentorship
In this episode, Madelyn guides you through a future self meditation to meet the version of you living one year from today. This guided meditation invites you to step outside the noise, the expectations and the shoulds, and reconnect with the woman who trusts herself and makes decisions from her higher self rather than fear.
Through a gentle visualisation meditation, Madelyn takes you above your life and into space, where you watch a year unfold beneath you. You’ll land beside your future self and notice how she carries herself and what she no longer tolerates. Then you’ll step into her and bring her home with you.
This higher self meditation shows you how to embody your future self, and reminds you that the woman you’re strengthening is already within you.
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In this episode, we cover:
A guided meditation to step outside the noise, the expectations and the shoulds

Slow, intentional breaths to soften your body and release what you’ve been carrying

A visualisation meditation that lifts you above your life and into space

Watching a year of choosing yourself and listening to your intuition unfold

Meeting your future self one year from today

Noticing what she’s normalised, what she no longer tolerates and what she trusts now

Why she’s magnetic: because you stopped abandoning her

Stepping into your future self for an identity shift you can feel in your body

How to keep living as her after the meditation, one decision at a time

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