What Your Therapist Thinks

Jeff Guenther, LPC, also known as TherapyJeff, joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack everything on modern romance. They break down the dating world as a space that requires nervous system regulation and radical authenticity. Jeff advocates for a shift away from performing for validation to a more grounded approach focused on genuine curiosity instead of the pressure of finding "the one."
Some takeaways:
Why looking at first dates as fun instead of as a job interview leads to better matches
How to check in with your nervous system to avoid performing for validation
Understanding how dating apps gamify rejection and how they lead to burnout
The difference between healthy vulnerability and trauma dumping and how to spot early signs love bombing

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*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle
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Dr. Rebeccah Lyle, a psychiatric nurse practitioner, joins Kristie and Felicia to explore the nuanced reality of ADHD in women and AFAB individuals. Together, they break down how social expectations of "good behavior" sometimes mask ADHD symptoms in girls, leading to life-changing diagnoses in adulthood when the pressures of career and motherhood reach a breaking point.
Some takeaways:
Reframing neurological differences as strengths
Understanding the psychological toll of masking and how it inevitably leads to burnout
Shifting the narrative from self-blame for a "lack of discipline" to advocating for systemic accommodations and self-compassion

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Mentioned in this episode: Am I Emotionally Numb? Signs Of Emotional Numbness and What To Do Next (WYTT, Season 1)
*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle
*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks
*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com
*Produced by PodVision.
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This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed therapist or call your local crisis line for support.

Welcome to Season 2 of What Your Therapist Thinks. We were absolutely mind-blown by all the love we got from you in season 1 and so after some life changes like Kristie having a baby… we’re back!
A mental health show where actual, licensed therapists open up about what they’re really thinking, while answering the internet’s most burning mental health questions. And by "real-world," we mean Reddit posts. Incognito Google searches. And the stuff you think about bringing up in therapy… but maybe don’t. Each week, you’ll hear from expert therapists to break it all down: from dating advice and body dysmorphia to ADHD and EMDR therapy.
First episode drops February 25.
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Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle
Brought to you by BestTherapists.com
Produced by PodVision.

This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed therapist or call your local crisis line for support.

In this special episode, hosts Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle share their own mental health journeys and what led them to create "What Your Therapist Thinks". Drawing from Felicia’s professional background as a somatic therapist and Kristie’s lived experience as a long-time therapy goer, they discuss navigating chronic illness, childhood isolation, the "good kid" trap and why breaking the stigma of silence is the first step toward true healing.
Some takeaways:
The "Sensitive Kid to Therapist" pipeline and why high-achievers often hide their pain
Why healing happens both inside and outside the therapy room through somatics and community
The power of self-forgiveness and the freedom to change your mind and your life

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*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle
*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks
*Connect with us on Instagram: @wyttpodcast
*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com
*Produced by PodVision
If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review, or share it with a friend who might need it!
This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed therapist or call your local crisis line for support.

In this special holiday episode, Katrina Mautner, a queer trauma-informed therapist, joins Kristie and Felicia to talk everything on setting boundaries with family. Drawing from Katrina’s anti-oppressive and harm reduction framework, they break down boundaries as a tool for connection—defining them as the distance at which you can love both yourself and the other person.
Some takeaways:
How boundaries actually allow us to deepen relationships and say "yes" more freely
Surviving difficult moments with "strategic avoidance" and internal boundaries
Applying a harm reduction lens to deescalate family conflict, even imperfectly

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Connect with Katrina
Katrina’s Newsletter
*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle
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If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review, or share it with a friend who might need it!
This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed therapist or call your local crisis line for support.