Why “Fun Days” Aren't Fun for Emotionally Dysregulated Kids: Understanding Holiday Triggers, Meltdowns, and Sensory Overload
Send a text and share your thoughts! For many kids, class parties, school spirit days, and holiday activities mean excitement and fun—but for emotionally dysregulated or neurodivergent children, they can mean stress, overwhelm, and meltdowns. In this episode, we’ll unpack why these “fun” days can be so tough and how to help your child stay calm, connected, and confident through it all.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why holiday events and routine changes can trigger dysregulation.How sensory overload and unpredictability impact your child’s behavior.Simple ways to prepare your child and partner with teachers or caregivers.How to create calm exits, recovery plans, and supportive conversations.The key mindset shift that helps you see behavior as communication, not defiance.Needing some additional support to get your through the holidays? Check out the Calm Connection Coaching Program where you can find helpful support and tools that actually work with your uniquely wired child! I’m here to walk with you! Visit CalmConnectionParenting.org to find podcast information (podcast tab) and free resources! Learn more about the Calm Connection Coaching Program at CalmConnectionParent.com Book a call to find out more about Calm Connection Coaching Program. Join our online Facebook support group: Calm Connection Parenting With Personality Group Find out more about the APP or Book: ParentingWithPersonality.com *** This podcast and host will not offer medical advice, nor is it intended to take the place of counseling, medical intervention, or treatment. Jami Kirkbride is hereby operating as a parenting coach and will not diagnose or treat clients. Please consult a doctor, medical professional, or mental health provider to meet your immediate and ongoing needs. #parenting #emotionaldysregulation #highlysensitivechild #adhd #dmdd #parentcoaching #child anxiety #sensoryprocessing #christianparenting #parentingtips #parentingch...
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52. Sensory Processing and Emotionally Dysregulated Kids: It’s Not Just in Their Heads | Sensory Processing Awareness
Send a text and share your thoughts! Have you ever looked at your child’s meltdown and thought, “Why does this keep happening?” What if those big emotions weren’t just about behavior, but about the way your child’s brain and body process the world around them?In this episode, we’re diving into the fascinating world of sensory processing...what it really means, how it connects to emotional dysregulation, and why understanding it can completely change the way you parent.You’ll learn: The surprising story that opened my eyes to sensory processing and changed our parenting forever What the eight sensory systems are and the three that aren’t even taught in school How sensory overload can trigger emotional outbursts, meltdowns, or “defiant” behaviors Simple ways to start supporting your child’s sensory needs at home without overwhelm Why understanding your child’s sensory world can be the first step toward real calm and connectionIf you’ve ever felt confused, frustrated, or helpless in the face of your child’s big emotions, this episode will give you a whole new lens of understanding and hope that it’s not “just in their head.”Listen now and discover how a few small shifts can bring big peace to your home. Visit CalmConnectionParenting.org to find podcast information (podcast tab) and free resources! Learn more about the Calm Connection Coaching Program at CalmConnectionParent.com Book a call to find out more about Calm Connection Coaching Program. Join our online Facebook support group: Calm Connection Parenting With Personality Group Find out more about the APP or Book: ParentingWithPersonality.com *** This podcast and host will not offer medical advice, nor is it intended to take the place of counseling, medical intervention, or treatment. Jami Kirkbride is hereby operating as a parenting coach and will not diagnose or treat clients. Please consult a doctor, medical professional, or mental health provider to meet your immediate and ongoing needs. #parenting #emotionaldysregulation #highlysensitivechild #adhd #dmdd #parentcoaching #child anxiety #sensoryprocessing #christianparenting #parentingtips #parentingch...
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51. 5 ADHD Myths That Commonly Hurt Children And The Truth That Offers Hope--ADHD Awareness Month
Send a text and share your thoughts! Bad parenting. Laziness. Can’t focus. Overdiagnosed. Medication is dangerous.You’ve probably heard at least one of these myths before...maybe even all five. But here’s the truth: every single one is a myth that can weigh families down with guilt, confusion, and shame.In this episode, Jami bursts the biggest misconceptions about ADHD and replaces them with truth, compassion, and hope, because when you understand the brain behind the behavior, everything changes.In this episode, you’ll discover:The truth behind the most common (and hurtful) myths about ADHDWhy ADHD isn’t about bad parenting, laziness, or lack of disciplineHow motivation, focus, and executive function really work in the ADHD brainThe difference between awareness and overdiagnosis—and why understanding mattersA faith-filled perspective on making wise, informed choices about medication ✨Mentioned in this episode: Behind the Behaviors: Understanding Your Uniquely Wired Child (Free Guide) Calm Connection Parent Coaching ProgramWhether you’re raising a child with ADHD or discovering more about yourself, this episode will lift the weight of shame and replace it with understanding, grace, and practical hope. Visit CalmConnectionParenting.org to find podcast information (podcast tab) and free resources! Learn more about the Calm Connection Coaching Program at CalmConnectionParent.com Book a call to find out more about Calm Connection Coaching Program. Join our online Facebook support group: Calm Connection Parenting With Personality Group Find out more about the APP or Book: ParentingWithPersonality.com *** This podcast and host will not offer medical advice, nor is it intended to take the place of counseling, medical intervention, or treatment. Jami Kirkbride is hereby operating as a parenting coach and will not diagnose or treat clients. Please consult a doctor, medical professional, or mental health provider to meet your immediate and ongoing needs. #parenting #emotionaldysregulation #highlysensitivechild #adhd #dmdd #parentcoaching #child anxiety #sensoryprocessing #christianparenting #parentingtips #parentingch...
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50. Real Parent Questions: Family Doesn’t Understand Meltdowns & When to Seek Help
Send a text and share your thoughts! What do you do when your family just doesn’t understand your child’s meltdowns? Or when you start wondering if it’s time to seek professional help?In this powerful Season 2 kickoff of the Calm Connection Parenting Podcast, Jami answers two real questions from parents walking through emotional intensity, family tension, and the uncertainty of what’s “normal.”If you’ve ever felt judged by family members who don’t get your child’s big emotions, or struggled to know when to talk with a doctor about your child’s behavior, this episode will help you find calm, confidence, and clarity.Learn how to communicate effectively with family, recognize when behaviors might point to something deeper, and take practical next steps without fear or guilt.Because you’re not alone in this, and calm, connected parenting is possible, even when life feels anything but calm. ✨ In this episode, you’ll discover:How to handle family members who don’t understand your child’s meltdownsGentle ways to set boundaries and communicate without conflictSigns your child might need professional support for emotions or behaviorTips for preparing to talk with doctors or therapists confidentlyEncouragement for parents navigating emotional dysregulation at home Visit CalmConnectionParenting.org to find podcast information (podcast tab) and free resources! Learn more about the Calm Connection Coaching Program at CalmConnectionParent.com Book a call to find out more about Calm Connection Coaching Program. Join our online Facebook support group: Calm Connection Parenting With Personality Group Find out more about the APP or Book: ParentingWithPersonality.com *** This podcast and host will not offer medical advice, nor is it intended to take the place of counseling, medical intervention, or treatment. Jami Kirkbride is hereby operating as a parenting coach and will not diagnose or treat clients. Please consult a doctor, medical professional, or mental health provider to meet your immediate and ongoing needs. #parenting #emotionaldysregulation #highlysensitivechild #adhd #dmdd #parentcoaching #child anxiety #sensoryprocessing #christianparenting #parentingtips #parentingch...
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49. After-School Restraint Collapse: Why Your Child Holds It Together at School and Falls Apart at Home
Send a text and share your thoughts! Ever wonder why your child can hold it together all day at school, then completely unravel the moment they get home? You’re not crazy, and you’re not alone.In this episode, we’ll unpack the real reason behind those after-school meltdowns (hint: it’s not bad behavior!) and what you can do to bring calm and connection back to your afternoons and evenings.You’ll discover why your child saves their hardest moments for you, how emotional safety can lead to release, and simple steps that help your home feel more peaceful and predictable.Because when you understand why it’s happening, you can respond with grace, compassion, and calm… and that can change everything. Key Takeaways:Learn what After-School Restraint Collapse really is and why it happens.Discover why your child’s meltdowns are actually a sign of emotional safety, not defiance.Understand how sensory and social overload play a big role in afternoon chaos.Get four simple, powerful steps—Snack, Silence, Soft Connection, and Structure—to create smoother, calmer afternoons. Visit CalmConnectionParenting.org to find podcast information (podcast tab) and free resources! Learn more about the Calm Connection Coaching Program at CalmConnectionParent.com Book a call to find out more about Calm Connection Coaching Program. Join our online Facebook support group: Calm Connection Parenting With Personality Group Find out more about the APP or Book: ParentingWithPersonality.com *** This podcast and host will not offer medical advice, nor is it intended to take the place of counseling, medical intervention, or treatment. Jami Kirkbride is hereby operating as a parenting coach and will not diagnose or treat clients. Please consult a doctor, medical professional, or mental health provider to meet your immediate and ongoing needs. #parenting #emotionaldysregulation #highlysensitivechild #adhd #dmdd #parentcoaching #child anxiety #sensoryprocessing #christianparenting #parentingtips #parentingch...
About Calm Connection Parenting- Meltdowns, Emotional Dysregulation, Neurodivergent, ADHD, AUDHD, DMDD, Defiance, SPD
Do you wish you didn’t have to live like you were walking on eggshells? Do you wish you felt confident going and doing things together as a family? Holding your breath, wondering how to even understand or help your child? Scared of the next meltdown? And feeling like a failure… I’m so excited you’re here! This podcast will help you reclaim peace in your home, restore confidence in your parenting approach, and rebuild connection with your child as you turn challenging behaviors into opportunities for growth. Hi, I’m Jami, a mom of seven, professional counselor, parenting coach…and someone who’s been where you are…Trying to make sense of those challenging and often baffling behaviors and big emotions. I was trying every good strategy I could think of, being more strict, being more consistent, searching for more solutions, and doing “all the things” that were “supposed” to work. Finally, I realized that to calm my child’s intense emotions, I needed to understand his unique wiring, identify his specific needs, adjust my approach, and shift from control to connection. Once I made that shift, our family dynamic was transformed, and I experienced a connection with my child that I feared I'd never know. Now, I’m here to share these simple, faith-aligned, and effective strategies with you. You don’t have to feel overwhelmed anymore. You can create calm, build lasting connections, and help your child thrive with confidence and love. And I’m ready to guide you on this journey! If you are ready to:~ Ditch the overwhelm, build connection, and find peace in your home…~ Discover simple, practical tools that are effective for your emotionally intense, highly sensitive child, and even your other children….~ Embrace changes that make a real difference with less stress, more calm, and a strong family bond...Then this podcast is for you! So grab your coffee, find your quiet spot (if you can find one of those in your house), and let’s jump in. We’ll turn that chaos into calm ….one episode at a time! Connect on our main website: ParentingWithPersonality.comJoin our online Facebook support group: Parenting With Personality GroupDownload the Parenting With Personality APP on Google Play or Apple StoreFollow on InstagramLearn about the Calm Connection Parent Coaching Program#parenting #highlysensitivechild #adhd #dmdd #parentcoaching #child anxiety #sensoryprocessing #christianparenting #parentingtip #parentingchallenges #meltdowns #challengingbehaviors
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