Why Is My Child So Aggressive? Insights and Solutions for Parents of Angry or Emotionally Intense Kids
Are you struggling with a child whose anger seems to erupt out of nowhere, leaving you feeling helpless and overwhelmed? If you're wondering, Why is my child so aggressive?—you're not alone. Today’s episode dives deep into the challenging and often heartbreaking behaviors that many parents face: aggression, meltdowns, and emotional intensity. I’m here to help you understand why these behaviors are happening and, more importantly, what you can do to manage them.If your child’s aggression is leaving you drained and uncertain about how to help them, this episode is for you. I'll share practical insights, expert advice, and actionable solutions that can help you create a calmer, more connected relationship with your child.You are invited to attend the upcoming Calm Connection Parenting Summit! Get your FREE ticket now!CalmConnectionParent.com/summitWhat You’ll Learn in This Episode:The Root Causes of Aggression in Kids Discover why children, especially those with emotional intensity, act out and what might be driving these behaviors.How to Identify Triggers and Sensory Needs Learn how to pinpoint specific triggers in your child's environment or routine that may be contributing to their outbursts.Practical Strategies to Address Aggression Understand effective, step-by-step approaches that will help you guide your child through their big emotions in healthier ways.Why Emotional Regulation is Key Learn how building emotional awareness and teaching coping skills can make a world of difference in managing aggression.Creating a Supportive Environment for Growth Find out how consistency, structure, and self-care for you as a parent can transform your child’s behavior over time.Tune in for an eye-opening conversation on why your child might be acting out, and learn how you can help them navigate their emotions with confidence. Whether you're dealing with occasional outbursts or constant aggression, the strategies in this episode will empower you to create lasting change.Register for the Calm Connection Summit NOW!CalmConnectionParent.com/summit Get the resources mentioned at: CalmConnectionParent.com/resource Book a call to find out more about Calm Connection Coaching Program. Join our online Facebook support group: Parenting With Personality Group Find out more: ParentingWithPersonality.com Download the Parenting With Personality APP on Google Play or Apple Store *** This podcast and host will not offer medical advice, nor is it intended to take the place of counseling, medical intervention, or treatment. Jami Kirkbride is hereby operating as a parenting coach and will not diagnose or treat clients. Please consult a doctor, medical professional, or mental health provider to meet your immediate and ongoing needs. #parenting #highlysensitivechild #adhd #dmdd #parentcoaching #child anxiety #sensoryprocessing #christianparenting #parentingtips #parentingchallenges #meltdowns #challengingbehaviors #childpersonality #personalitytypes
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Parenting A Child With Intense Emotions—The Best Tool You’ll Find to Understand and Advocate for Their Needs-- With Holly Provan
Show Notes:What if the anger, anxiety, or meltdowns you're seeing aren't choices—but signals from your child's brain desperately crying out for help? In this episode, we're diving deep with Holly Provan, nurse, mom, and author of Poppy and the Overactive Amygdala. Holly sheds powerful new light on why some kids experience life as a constant battle, driven by a brain stuck in 'fight or flight' mode. Get ready for a conversation that will transform frustration into compassion, and confusion into connection. It's time to decode your child's behaviors—starting now. This is what you will learn in this episode:Understanding the Amygdala—Discover why some children’s brains are wired for big emotions and intense reactions.The Real Reason Behind Big Behaviors—Learn how to spot anxiety-driven behaviors masked as anger or defiance.Empathy Changes Everything—Explore how empathy can transform your relationship with an emotionally intense child.Practical Steps to Support Your Child—Gain insight into simple ways you can begin helping your child feel safer and more understood.Advocating with Confidence—Find out how Holly’s approach can empower you to advocate effectively for your child’s unique needs at home and school.Holly's book, Poppy and the Overactive Amygdala is available on Amazon. I highly recommend this book. Get the resources mentioned at: CalmConnectionParent.com/resource Book a call to find out more about Calm Connection Coaching Program. Join our online Facebook support group: Parenting With Personality Group Find out more: ParentingWithPersonality.com Download the Parenting With Personality APP on Google Play or Apple Store *** This podcast and host will not offer medical advice, nor is it intended to take the place of counseling, medical intervention, or treatment. Jami Kirkbride is hereby operating as a parenting coach and will not diagnose or treat clients. Please consult a doctor, medical professional, or mental health provider to meet your immediate and ongoing needs. #parenting #highlysensitivechild #adhd #dmdd #parentcoaching #child anxiety #sensoryprocessing #christianparenting #parentingtips #parentingchallenges #meltdowns #challengingbehaviors #childpersonality #personalitytypes
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25-- Intentional Parenting: Key to Managing Intense Emotions and Meltdowns-- Kids ARE the Instruction Manual
Today we welcome Debbie Simmonds, author, founder of Anchor Point, and adoptive mom of nine. After her own pain of losing quadruplets, she turned her sorrow into something incredible. She shares profound insights into parenting, resilience, and building lasting family connections. Through powerful stories from her own journey, Debbie reveals how to turn parenting struggles into powerful opportunities for growth. This episode might just change how you see your parenting struggles forever! In this episode, you'll learn: How Debbie transformed personal tragedy into purposeful parenting.Why kids themselves are your best parenting guide.The real reason parenting can feel hard—and why that's okay.Practical wisdom on building resilience in your children. Find Debbie’s book, The Heart of Legacy, Living a Focused, Faithful and Fearless Life on Amazon, or visit her website www.thedebbiesimmons.com. Explore Anchor Point’s transformative Pathway to Hope Camp and register today at www.anchorpoint.us/pathway-to-hope-camp. Get the resources mentioned at: CalmConnectionParent.com/resource Book a call to find out more about Calm Connection Coaching Program. Join our online Facebook support group: Parenting With Personality Group Find out more: ParentingWithPersonality.com Download the Parenting With Personality APP on Google Play or Apple Store *** This podcast and host will not offer medical advice, nor is it intended to take the place of counseling, medical intervention, or treatment. Jami Kirkbride is hereby operating as a parenting coach and will not diagnose or treat clients. Please consult a doctor, medical professional, or mental health provider to meet your immediate and ongoing needs. #parenting #highlysensitivechild #adhd #dmdd #parentcoaching #child anxiety #sensoryprocessing #christianparenting #parentingtips #parentingchallenges #meltdowns #challengingbehaviors #childpersonality #personalitytypes
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24-- The Biggest Parenting Mistake When Handling Your Child's Emotional Intensity—And How to Avoid It
Do you ever feel like your child’s emotions are a ticking time bomb, and no matter what you do, you’re the one who sets it off? It’s so easy to fall into the trap of trying to ‘fix’ things, but sometimes, our best intentions make everything worse. In this episode, we explore the #1 mistake parents make when managing their child’s big emotions—and how to avoid it. I’ll share a powerful approach to help you navigate the emotional terrain with your child, build a stronger connection, and transform overwhelming moments into opportunities for growth. Grab a coffee, relax, and let’s dive in!In this episode, you will learn:Struggling with your child’s big emotions? You’re not alone!Discover the #1 mistake parents make when managing emotional intensity.Learn why "calm down" might be making things worse.Find out how to connect with your child and address the real issue.Get a simple tool (CALM) to help guide you through tough emotional moments.Looking for support and parent coaching, connect with Jami! Get the resources mentioned at: CalmConnectionParent.com/resource Book a call to find out more about Calm Connection Coaching Program. Join our online Facebook support group: Parenting With Personality Group Find out more: ParentingWithPersonality.com Download the Parenting With Personality APP on Google Play or Apple Store *** This podcast and host will not offer medical advice, nor is it intended to take the place of counseling, medical intervention, or treatment. Jami Kirkbride is hereby operating as a parenting coach and will not diagnose or treat clients. Please consult a doctor, medical professional, or mental health provider to meet your immediate and ongoing needs. #parenting #highlysensitivechild #adhd #dmdd #parentcoaching #child anxiety #sensoryprocessing #christianparenting #parentingtips #parentingchallenges #meltdowns #challengingbehaviors #childpersonality #personalitytypes
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23-- Parenting A Child with Mental Health Challenges: Navigating the Emotional Struggles and Finding Hope
Parenting a child with mental health struggles is not a battle anyone prepares you for. In fact, it can feel like you're fighting a war—and sometimes, you don’t even know if you're winning. I’m sharing our personal journey today and the five pitfalls that nearly every parent in this situation faces. But more importantly, I’m giving you hope: There are truths that can guide you through the hardest days, and no matter what you're feeling, you’re not failing. Let’s dig into how you can navigate this journey with strength and grace, even in the toughest times.In this episode, you will learn:The Emotional Toll: The hidden struggles of parenting a child with mental health challenges.Internal Conflicts: Navigating the conflicting emotions and doubts many parents face.Guilt and Overwhelm: Understanding common pitfalls in the parenting journey.Self-Care Matters: How prioritizing your well-being helps you show up for your child.Finding Hope: Practical tips for giving yourself grace during tough times. Get the resources mentioned at: CalmConnectionParent.com/resource Book a call to find out more about Calm Connection Coaching Program. Join our online Facebook support group: Parenting With Personality Group Find out more: ParentingWithPersonality.com Download the Parenting With Personality APP on Google Play or Apple Store *** This podcast and host will not offer medical advice, nor is it intended to take the place of counseling, medical intervention, or treatment. Jami Kirkbride is hereby operating as a parenting coach and will not diagnose or treat clients. Please consult a doctor, medical professional, or mental health provider to meet your immediate and ongoing needs. #parenting #highlysensitivechild #adhd #dmdd #parentcoaching #child anxiety #sensoryprocessing #christianparenting #parentingtips #parentingchallenges #meltdowns #challengingbehaviors #childpersonality #personalitytypes
Hello and welcome to Calm Connection Parenting! I’m your host, Jami Kirkbride—mom of seven, parenting coach, professional counselor, and wrangler of big emotions. If you’re raising a highly sensitive child with intense emotions, challenging behaviors, or a "spicy" personality, and wondering if you’ll make it through without losing your mind, you’re not alone! Around here, we’re all about real-life parenting, sprinkled with a little humor and a whole lot of patience. So, grab your coffee (trust me, you’ll need it), and join me as we explore tips, stories, and faith-based strategies to help you bring more calm and confidence into your chaotic days. Ready to learn some practical tips and effective strategies to move from overwhelmed and stressed to calm, confident and blessed! Let’s do this!Connect on our main website: ParentingWithPersonality.comJoin our online Facebook support group: Parenting With Personality GroupDownload the Parenting With Personality APP on Google Play or Apple StoreFollow on InstagramLearn about the Calm Connection Parent Coaching Program#parenting #highlysensitivechild #adhd #dmdd #parentcoaching #child anxiety #sensoryprocessing #christianparenting #parentingtip #parentingchallenges #meltdowns #challengingbehaviors
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