Ep 183, There’s a Human on the Other Side of the Conflict
This week on Conflict Managed we welcome Rita Cincotta. Together we explore:
Is everyone coachable?
Planting seeds for reflection
Investing in yourself and others through consistency and practice in the “boring,” yet essential, everyday actions
Forming trust at work
Polite cooperation vs. collaboration
Demonstrating a desire to understand colleagues
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Rita Cincotta is the Founder and CEO of The Deliberate Leader, a leadership development practice dedicated to helping leaders cultivate intentionality, clarity, and impact in their leadership. She is a seasoned professional in leadership development, serving as a facilitator, speaker, coach, author, and non-executive Board Director. With over two decades of experience, Rita has held executive positions across various industries and now consults widely in the sectors of technology, healthcare, financial services, aged care, media and advertising, not for profit, e-commerce, FMCG, and higher education.
Her journey into deliberate leadership began with a career in Human Resources, where she held C-suite roles leading teams through complex transformations. Through these experiences, she saw firsthand the impact of intentional leadership—how clarity, purpose, and authenticity shape not just leaders, but entire organisational cultures. Recognizing a gap in how leadership was often approached, she transitioned from corporate leadership to coaching, training, and speaking to help others lead with greater intention and impact. Since 2018, she has been dedicated to equipping leaders with the tools to cultivate high-performing, healthy teams.
As an accomplished facilitator, Rita has expertly crafted and delivered leadership programs tailored to different industries and businesses. Her qualifications are in the domains of Organisational Behaviour, Human Resources, Marketing, and Industrial and Employee Relations. Additionally, Rita is a Graduate of the Australian Institute of Company Directors (GAICD), a member of the Australian Human Resources Institute (MAHRI), and an alumnus of the Australian Institute of Company Directors. She holds accreditations in Clarity 4D, Herrmann Brain Dominance Instrument (HBDI), and the Korn Ferry Leadership Architect method.
Rita has spoken on national and international stages as a keynote speaker, addressing topics including team performance, cultural transformation, change management, resilience, and innovative work methodologies. In 2021, she authored her debut book, Evolve: The Business Partnering Playbook, followed by her second book, You Are How You Lead, in 2023.
Rita is a Board Director and serves on the Board and subcommittees of Peninsula Health and Left Write Hook.
Conflict Managed is produced by Third Party Workplace Conflict Restoration Services and hosted by Merry Brown.
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