A Path to Forgiveness with Dawn Dusk star, Chelli Look
Grief, Art, and Forgiveness: Chelli's Journey of Healing
In this powerful episode, Mathew Blades and Dr. Dave sit down with Chelli Look, a leather artist and entrepreneur (CHC) from Chicago, to explore her transformative journey through grief, forgiveness, and healing. She shares her heart-wrenching experiences of losing both her sister to domestic violence and her best friend in a car accident, and how she channeled her pain into creating stunning leather goods.
You'll hear:
• How her new documentary "Dusk Dawn" captures her path from devastation to inspiration
• The unexpected process of forgiving her sister's killer and its liberating effects
• Why art became a crucial tool in her healing journey
Chelli Look's story is a testament to the human spirit's resilience. From struggling with sleepless nights and violent thoughts to finding peace through forgiveness and creativity, her journey offers hope and guidance for anyone grappling with loss.
"It was initially not even on the table. It wasn't a thought in my mind at all whatsoever. She was killed in 2007 and it was again such a blindsided loss..." - Chelli Look
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Connect with Mathew Blades:
Twitter - twitter.com/MathewBlades
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Facebook - facebook.com/mathewbladesmedia/
Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/
Additional Credits:
LFPWLI is managed by IMS LLC
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Hope takes Strength - Sermons from Songs #1
Holding on to Hope When Life Gets Turbulent
In this heartfelt solo episode, Mathew Blades shares a personal story about a simple sweatshirt with the message "There is hope" and how it sparked unexpected connections.
Reflecting on lessons from gospel music and scripture, Mathew Blades explores the resilience required to hold onto hope—especially in turbulent times, both literal and metaphorical.
Through stories, song lyrics, and honest reflection, Mathew Blades reminds you that even when hope seems hard to find, it’s within reach—often requiring us to dig deep and reconnect with something greater than ourselves.
This episode is a gentle, uplifting reminder to be the source of hope the world needs now more than ever.
To bring Mathew in to speak for your Church, visit him here:
https://mathewblades.com/churches/
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What is a Moral Injury? Quick Tips
What is a Moral Injury - and How does it take a toll?
One of the most striking aspects of Matthew's story is his emphasis on moral injury, a concept that's often overlooked in traditional PTSD treatment. As Dr. Dave, our resident psychiatrist, explained, moral injury occurs when someone witnesses or participates in actions that violate their deeply held moral beliefs. This can leave lasting scars that are difficult to heal without proper support and understanding.
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Listen on Apple Podcasts (link: https://apple.co/3s1YH7h)
Listen on iHeart (link: https://ihr.fm/3MEY7FM)
Listen on Spotify (Link: https://spoti.fi/3yMmQCE)
Connect with Mathew Blades:
Twitter - twitter.com/MathewBlades
Instagram - instagram.com/MathewBladesmedia/
Facebook - facebook.com/mathewbladesmedia/
Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/
Additional Credits:
LFPWLI is managed by IMS LLC
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Transforming Lives One Swing at a Time with Matt McDonell
Healing Through Golf
Mathew Blades and Dr. Dave sit down with Matt McDonell, founder of Next 18, to explore the complex interplay of childhood trauma, military service, and mental health.
Key highlights include:
• Matt's military experience and the challenges of transitioning to civilian life
• The creation of Next 18, a golf-based program supporting veterans' mental health
• Insights into moral injury and its role in hindering healing
Through candid discussions and expert insights, this episode provides a roadmap for those grappling with trauma, offering hope and practical strategies for healing. McDonell's powerful statement, "I feel like I have my soul back," encapsulates the transformative potential of addressing deep-seated emotional wounds.
Whether you're a veteran, first responder, or anyone dealing with past trauma, this conversation offers valuable perspectives on the journey to reclaiming one's life and finding purpose beyond pain.
Visit Matt here: https://next18.org
Follow the podcast:
Listen on Apple Podcasts (link: https://apple.co/3s1YH7h)
Listen on iHeart (link: https://ihr.fm/3MEY7FM)
Listen on Spotify (Link: https://spoti.fi/3yMmQCE)
Connect with Mathew Blades:
Twitter - twitter.com/MathewBlades
Instagram - instagram.com/MathewBladesmedia/
Facebook - facebook.com/mathewbladesmedia/
Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/
Additional Credits:
LFPWLI is managed by IMS LLC
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Breaking Free from the "Good Girl" religious trap Crissy Powers, quick Tips
If I only had you for five minutes, what would I want you to know? That is the very premise behind our QUICK TIPS episodes.
Chrissy's story starts with a familiar tune - the pressure to be the "good girl" in a strict religious household. Sound familiar? Many of us grow up thinking we need to fit into a specific mold to be worthy of love and acceptance. But here's the kicker:
I grew up with a specific theology called Calvinist theology, where they teach you that you are bad, you are sinful, you are wicked and evil, and that you can't trust yourself, that the only good thing in you is Jesus.
This belief system left Chrissy feeling disconnected from her true self, constantly striving for approval and battling with the fear of being "bad." It's a struggle many of us can relate to, whether we grew up in a religious household or not.
Follow the podcast:
Listen on Apple Podcasts (link: https://apple.co/3s1YH7h)
Listen on iHeart (link: https://ihr.fm/3MEY7FM)
Listen on Spotify (Link: https://spoti.fi/3yMmQCE)
Connect with Mathew Blades:
Twitter - twitter.com/MathewBlades
Instagram - instagram.com/MathewBladesmedia/
Facebook - facebook.com/mathewbladesmedia/
Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/
Additional Credits:
LFPWLI is managed by IMS LLC
Navigating painful life circumstances would be easier if they came with a how-to guide.
This podcast writes the book!
Our show is all about transformation. Mathew Blades, a seasoned radio and television personality, uses his exceptional interview skills to guide individuals in sharing their challenging stories. With the support of our in-house psychologist and psychiatrist, we explore the patterns and strategies that enabled these individuals to transform their lives from a difficult phase to a thriving one.