Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

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What if the calm, stable life you've worked so hard to create… is the very thing your nervous system doesn't trust?
In this powerful and eye-opening coaching session, Christine works with Carla, who has done years of deep personal growth after a highly chaotic and unstable childhood. She's now in a loving, supportive relationship and living a peaceful life—but instead of feeling settled, she finds herself questioning everything.
Why?
Because her nervous system is still wired for chaos.
Carla opens up about growing up in instability, being parentified at a young age, and constantly second-guessing herself—even now that she's created a completely different reality. Christine helps her uncover how old patterns of hypervigilance, self-doubt, and an overactive inner critic can make peace feel unfamiliar—and even unsafe.
This episode is a powerful reminder that healing isn't just about doing the work—it's about recognizing and embodying how far you've already come.
If you've ever found yourself searching for problems in a life that is actually working… this episode will help you understand why—and how to shift.
Press play to learn how to stop sabotaging your peace and finally step into the life you've created. 
 
Consider / Ask Yourself
Do you feel uncomfortable or restless when life is calm or stable?
Are you constantly looking for what's wrong—even when things are going well?
Do you struggle to trust healthy relationships or peaceful environments?
Are you acknowledging your growth—or still focused on what needs fixing?
 
Key Insights and A-Ha's
A chaotic childhood can wire your nervous system to expect instability—even in safe environments.
When life becomes calm, unresolved emotions and patterns often surface.
The inner critic can keep you stuck in a cycle of "fixing" instead of recognizing progress.
Healthy relationships can feel unfamiliar—and trigger doubt or questioning.
True healing requires not just doing the work, but embodying and celebrating your growth.
 
How to Deepen the Work
Notice when you are scanning for problems instead of being present with what is working.
Practice validating your feelings without needing to analyze or fix them.
Acknowledge your progress regularly—write down how far you've come.
Experiment with fully stepping into your current life without questioning it.
 
Resource Mentioned in This Episode
Inner Child Course with Christine Hassler
Christine shares a powerful resource for healing childhood wounds, rewiring your nervous system, and building a more compassionate relationship with yourself.
Learn more at:
christinehassler.com/innerchild
Social Media + Resources:
 Christine Hassler — Take a Coaching Assessment
Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner
Christine on Facebook
Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler
@ChristineHassler on Twitter
@ChristineHassler on Instagram
@SacredUnionCouples on Instagram
Email: [email protected] — For information on any of my services!
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Today we're diving into one of the most transformative conversations happening in mental health right now. My guest is Keith Kurlander, a psychotherapist, co-founder of the Integrative Psychiatry Institute, and an expert in trauma and psychedelic-assisted therapy. With over 25 years of clinical experience, Keith has helped thousands of people access real, lasting healing.

We're talking about the potential benefits of psychedelic therapy and microdosing, what trauma actually is and how it gets locked in the body, and most importantly—how psychedelics can unlock doors that conventional therapy often misses. Keith's new book, Psychedelic Therapy: A Revolutionary Approach to Restoring Your Mental Health and Reclaiming Your Life, is a New York Times and USA Today bestseller that breaks down how psychedelics uniquely target the root causes of anxiety, depression, and PTSD.
Also if you are interested in learning more about microdosing, check out Golden Rule at christinehassler.com/mirco

What happens when you stay quiet in a relationship for too long?
In this deeply relatable coaching session, Christine works with Mel, who has been in a long-term partnership of over 16 years. While there is still love between them, ongoing conflict, emotional disconnection, and unspoken needs have created a relationship dynamic where Mel feels like she's doing all the emotional work—while her partner withdraws, avoids, or shuts down.
As they unpack the situation, a powerful pattern emerges: the cost of silence.
Mel realizes that in trying to keep the peace, she has slowly disconnected from her own needs—over-functioning, people-pleasing, and tolerating behaviors that deeply impact her sense of safety and well-being.
Christine introduces the concept of the "merging pattern"—where one partner over-functions and the other under-functions—and shows how true healing requires not just internal work, but external expression: speaking up, setting boundaries, and advocating for what you need.
If you've ever felt like you're "doing all the work" in a relationship, or you're afraid to speak up because of how the other person might react, this episode will challenge and empower you.
Press play to discover why your voice matters—and how reclaiming it can transform your relationships. 
 
Consider / Ask Yourself
Are you holding back your true needs to avoid conflict in a relationship?
Do you feel like you're doing all the emotional work while your partner withdraws?
Are you over-functioning or people-pleasing to keep the peace?
What needs have you not clearly expressed or advocated for?
 
Key Insights and A-Ha's
Silence in relationships often leads to resentment, disconnection, and imbalance.
Over-functioning in one partner can enable under-functioning in the other.
True self-love includes advocating for your needs—not just meeting them yourself.
Taking things personally can activate survival patterns that keep you stuck.
Healthy relationships require clear communication, boundaries, and shared responsibility.
 
How to Deepen the Work
Reflect on where you may be tolerating behaviors that don't align with your needs.
Identify and write down your core relationship needs—get specific.
Practice expressing your needs clearly and calmly, even if it feels uncomfortable.
Consider seeking support (coaching or counseling) to navigate deeper relational patterns.
 
Social Media + Resources:
 Christine Hassler — Take a Coaching Assessment
Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner
Christine on Facebook
Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler
@ChristineHassler on Twitter
@ChristineHassler on Instagram
@SacredUnionCouples on Instagram
Email: [email protected] — For information on any of my services!
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In this episode, I'm joined by tapping expert Jessica Ortner for a powerful, experiential session using EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques). If you've been feeling overwhelmed, stressed, or stuck in patterns you can't seem to think your way out of, this episode gives you a tool you can actually use in the moment.
Jessica walks us through a guided tapping sequence designed to calm the nervous system, reduce stress, and help rewire the emotional patterns that keep you looping in anxiety or overwhelm. This isn't just a conversation—you'll have the opportunity to follow along and feel the shift in real time.
We also talk about why tapping works, how it helps regulate your body (not just your mind), and how you can start using it in your daily life to create more ease, resilience, and emotional freedom.
You can go deeper with Jessica's work by downloading The Tapping Solution App and checking out her new book Rewired(available on Amazon).
Whether you're new to tapping or already familiar with EFT, this episode will leave you feeling more grounded, resourced, and empowered with a simple, effective tool for navigating stress.