The Thais Gibson Podcast

• Narcissist vs. Dismissive Avoidant: 9 Crucial Differences You Must Know

  Get Free Access to All of My Attachment & Relationship Courses This Mental Health Awareness Month. Start Your 14-day Trial Now and Complete a Course Before the Offer Ends! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Is your partner emotionally unavailable—or emotionally manipulative? In this in-depth episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais is joined by co-host Mike DiZio to unpack the 9 diagnostic criteria for Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and explain how these traits differ from what you see in someone with dismissive avoidant attachment. This episode goes far beyond the surface, giving you practical tools to differentiate between personality disorders and attachment wounds, understand confusing behaviors, and protect yourself from staying in toxic relationships under the wrong assumptions.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ The 9 clinical traits of narcissism (based on DSM criteria) ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants may appear cold—but aren't manipulative ✔️ The root causes of narcissism vs. avoidant attachment ✔️ How each style relates to vulnerability, attention, and accountability ✔️ How dismissive avoidants can empathize and change—and why narcissists often don’t ✔️ Why NPD healing is rare—and how shame avoidance blocks growth ✔️ Practical examples and red flags to look for in your relationships Whether you're confused about a past partner, navigating a current dynamic, or exploring your own behavior, this episode delivers eye-opening clarity and practical insight. ⏱️ Episode Timestamps 00:00 – Attachment Style Quiz 00:42 – Intro: Why This Distinction Matters 05:15 – 1: Grandiose Sense of Self 07:57 – 2: Requires Excessive Admiration 21:33 – 3: Fantasies of Unlimited Power, Beauty, Success 29:18 – PDS Membership Program 30:12 – 4: Entitlement 39:32 – 5: Believes They're Special & Unique 43:23 – 6: Interpersonally Exploitative 48:50 – 7: Arrogant or Haughty Attitude 52:18 – 8: Jealousy of Others 53:25 – 9: Lack of Empathy 59:05 – Conclusion Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, best-selling author, and a global leader in attachment theory and subconscious reprogramming. With a Ph.D. and more than 13 certifications, Thais has helped over 70,000 people heal attachment wounds and build secure, thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #narcissistvsavoidant #attachmentstyles #emotionalhealing #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #attachmenttheorypodcast #howtofindlove #emotionalresilience #mentalhealthawareness #selfprotection #dismissiveavoidant Found this helpful? Please subscribe, rate, and share with someone who’s navigating confusing relationship dynamics. The clarity you gain could save you years of heartbreak.

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• Introducing Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan

  Check out Heather Monahan's Creating Confidence Podcast. Each week, Heather shares techniques and strategies to create your confidence, pursue your dreams and leapfrog the villains you’ll meet along the way. Take your life to the next level and tune into Creating Confidence!

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• Do Dismissive Avoidants Actually Struggle with Low Self-Esteem?

  14-Day All-Access Trial: Transform Your Life with Expert-Led Mental Health & Personal Growth Programs https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Dismissive avoidants may seem confident on the outside—but is that really the full story? In this revealing episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais explores why dismissive avoidants often struggle deeply with self-esteem issues—even when they outwardly appear strong, independent, and unaffected. You'll learn the hidden emotional patterns behind dismissive avoidant behaviors and gain critical tools for healing from within.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants often battle hidden shame despite seeming confident ✔️ How early emotional neglect leads to internalized feelings of being "defective" ✔️ Why strong boundaries can sometimes be a mask for emotional pain ✔️ The role of low-level sympathetic nervous system activation (fight/flight/freeze) in daily life ✔️ How living out of alignment with emotional needs damages self-esteem over time ✔️ What emotional suppression costs avoidants—and how to start reconnecting with feelings ✔️ Practical strategies to accept vulnerability, listen to emotions, and build authentic self-worth   If you've ever wondered why you—or someone you love—seems "fine" but struggles with deep disconnection or self-sabotage, this episode offers eye-opening clarity and actionable healing steps. Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leading authority in attachment theory and subconscious reprogramming. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications, Thais has helped more than 70,000 people build emotional resilience and secure relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Listen to More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Explore the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #dismissiveavoidant #lowselfesteem #attachmentstyles #emotionalhealing #attachmenttheorypodcast #selfworth #selftrust #emotionalresilience #healingjourney #subconsciousmind Enjoying the show? If you found this episode valuable, please subscribe, rate, and share with anyone navigating emotional disconnection or healing from low self-worth.

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• 3 Ways to Increase Self-Esteem, Emotionally Connect with Yourself, and Self-Soothe

  14-Day All-Access Trial: Transform Your Life with Expert-Led Mental Health & Personal Growth Programs https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Struggling with self-esteem, emotional disconnection, or self-soothing? There’s a path to healing—and it starts within. In this supportive and empowering episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais teaches three powerful ways to reconnect with yourself emotionally, increase your self-esteem, and build lasting inner resilience. If you often seek validation from others or struggle to process emotions in a healthy way, these foundational practices will transform your relationship with yourself.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ How giving yourself the same support you seek from others heals emotional wounds ✔️ Why small daily acts of self-care (tailored to your love languages) are critical for self-connection ✔️ How internal validation through kind self-talk rebuilds self-worth ✔️ Why journaling and emotional check-ins create deeper emotional intimacy with yourself ✔️ How honoring your feelings, setting boundaries, and meeting your needs foster genuine self-trust ✔️ Simple practices to strengthen emotional regulation and boost self-esteem every day   When you consistently show up for yourself, you don’t just heal—you thrive. This episode offers real, practical steps to create the safe, empowering inner relationship you deserve.   Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and an expert in emotional reprogramming and attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications, Thais has helped more than 70,000 students worldwide build emotional security and conscious relationships.   Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Browse More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Dive into the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/   Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #selfesteem #emotionalconnection #selfsoothing #selftrust #selfworth #attachmenttheorypodcast #emotionalhealing #reprogrammingbeliefs #selflovejourney #selfawareness   Found this helpful? Please subscribe, rate, and share this podcast episode to support your community’s growth journey. 💙 Real change starts when we reconnect with ourselves.

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• 10 Questions to Ask YOURSELF & Others Before Getting into A Relationship

  Get Free Access to All of My Attachment & Relationship Courses This Mental Health Awareness Month. Start Your 14-day Trial Now and Complete a Course Before the Offer Ends! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Ready for commitment—but want to avoid repeating the same mistakes in love? Start by asking the right questions. In this insightful episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais and co-host Mike DiZio reveal the 10 essential questions you should ask yourself and your partner before diving into a committed relationship. These questions go beyond chemistry—they’re rooted in emotional intelligence, subconscious programming, and long-term compatibility.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ How non-negotiables, standards, and morals shape long-term relational success ✔️ Why asking “Are we emotionally ready?” can save you years of heartbreak ✔️ How to bring up topics like children, lifestyle goals, and emotional needs with confidence ✔️ What patterns to watch for in yourself and your partner before committing ✔️ The art of discerning compatibility without turning dates into interviews ✔️ Why admiration and difference are vital to lasting attraction ✔️ How to set shared visions for love, lifestyle, and commitment Whether you're anxiously attached, avoidant, or working toward secure love, this episode gives you an empowering framework to date intentionally—and protect your future self. Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a renowned expert in attachment theory and subconscious healing. With a Ph.D. and 13+ certifications, Thais has helped 70,000+ people worldwide achieve deep, lasting relationship transformation. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Explore the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Browse More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #datingintentionally #attachmentstyles #relationshipreadiness #nonnegotiables #selfawareness #relationshipgoals #attachmenttheorypodcast #securelove #relationshiptools #healingattachment If this episode resonated… Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share it with a friend. Your intentional love journey starts here. 

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