Sex Stories: How To Do You

Exhibitionism, threesomes, and swinger club advice—Steve shares what he’s learned about desire, connection, letting go of shame at 72, and bringing a nearly sexless marriage back to life.

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📈 STATS | 72 male, married 42 years, exhibitionist, served in the military, university teacher, running coach, originally from New Jersey, Virginia-based, into: swing cubs, threesomes, vixen/stag dynamics, and long distance running.

⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 Growing up with sexual shame, subpar sex education, and gender double standards
08:39 Car sex, public flashing, and an unexpected formative threesome
14:46 Letting go of labels and embracing a more fluid view of sexuality
17:21 Exhibitionism, restaurant sex, pool sex, and the thrill of being watched
22:22 Beaches, parties, and fantasies about playing with his wife and another man
25:01 How his marriage became nearly sexless and how he turned it around
27:45 Going solo to a swing club and having an incredible bisexual threesome
31:01 Squirting, creampies, and an over-the-moon MFM experience at a New Orleans swingers club
33:21 Swing club advice for single men: grooming, conversation, respect, and consent
37:37 Rebuilding attraction by working on physical, social, emotional, and spiritual wellness
45:31 Bubble baths, oral sex, bedroom talk, and rediscovering pleasure together
47:57 Considering a threesome with his wife and how sexual conversations are bringing them closer
52:05 Staying sexual as grandparents and refusing to let age dictate intimacy
55:27 What 42 years of partnership taught him about independence, resilience, and taking responsibility
1:00:27 Slow sex, sensual touch, kissing, and prioritizing connection over performance
1:03:10 Rejecting sexual double standards and following feelings and fantasies

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A month of edging, erotic bucket lists, housewife role play, and nonverbal orgasms—Luna and Kimberly share their sexy updates, noodle on "going slow", and answer listener questions.

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⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 September’s Edge: a month of daily edging, masturbation meditations, and no orgasms
02:04 Losing How to Brothel on youtube and transforming the Lunar Loft of Leisure
06:20 Creative retreats, erotic energy, and streamlining toward the bucket list
11:43 Asking “what feels good right now?” and finding presence during sex
15:00 Housewife role play, nurturing kink, and fantasies of a Pleasure Palace
17:02 A catharsis-gasm: crying, cumming, and an intensely vulnerable three-way orgasm
18:45 What does it mean to go slow? Teasing, timing, and going "fasty-slowy"
21:52 Kimberly’s nonverbal orgasm, responsive desire, and making her partner feel wanted
27:59 Rest, spaciousness, and making room to feel desire
30:29 Touch starvation, finding intimacy at a legal brothel, and approaching sexual concerns without performance pressure
38:43 Reframing immediate orgasms, expanding definitions of sex, and finding pleasure beyond penetration
42:02 Laughing during sex, embracing weird body moments, and getting curious about queefing
45:28 Sincere communication, sarcasm, and creating more genuine connection
50:32 Sexual intimacy as a buffet and taking erotic food metaphors literally

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Sexual shame, formative firsts, kinks, fantasies, and pleasure palaces—Luna shares the questions she’s spent years using to uncover how we learned, what we love, and what we’re still curious to explore.

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⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 How to use the Sex Stories questions on your own, with a lover, or to record your own episode
08:20 Intro questions: sexual shame, what’s sexy, your current sex life, wooing, safety, and communication
13:05 How did you learn? Sex ed, consent, formative experiences, sexuality, love, and professional origin stories
15:31 What do you love? Pleasure, body sensations, kinks, fetishes, fantasies, toys, porn, orgasms, and sexy stories
21:58 Nudes, porn, sex dreams, orgasms, and what kind of lover you are
27:06 Co-creation: sexy hopes for the future, your dream pleasure palace, and creating a more loving world
27:55 The question archive: early sex lessons, masturbation, oral sex, safer sex, group sex, parties, and fantasies
33:02 More archived questions: body hair, sex work, your younger self, and the overall Sex Stories arc
37:01 How to introduce yourself, join the live show, or use these questions with your lovers
39:26 Going beyond sex: vulnerability, lifestyle, deeper connection, and journal prompts

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GG joins Luna to explore how a quickie can feel wildly satisfying when the chemistry, communication, and mutual generosity are right. From letting arousal build during the booking process to choosing exactly how to spend those precious minutes, they talk about: making a short session feel expansive, who thrives with a timer, and why the right mindset can turn seven minutes into so much more.

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⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 Why super-quickies can be so satisfying
03:01 Surrendering to flirt energy, letting chemistry build, and keeping the simmer classy
06:02 Appreciation, easy agreements, and why nickel-and-diming kills the vibe
09:04 Nervousness, getting out of your head, and creating the conditions for a great quickie
12:05 What the seven minutes actually includes and why the full visit takes much longer
15:12 Touch, massage, mirror play, penetration, and all the ways seven minutes can unfold
19:12 A pre-flight quickie, mutual pleasure, and stretching seven minutes into an all-day memory
23:17 Who Seven Minutes in Heaven is for and who may be happier booking more time

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One year in chastity, forced-bi fantasies, and urethral sounding—Chris shares how surrendering control helped him shed decades of shame and embrace an adventurous sex life in his 60s.

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📈 STATS | 67 heteroflexible collared kinky submissive male, raised Catholic, former service industry worker, currently self-employed, San Diego-based, into: exploration, sounding, anal fisting, swapping, threesomes, BDSM.

⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 Leaving sexual shame behind through kink, chastity, and self-acceptance
05:29 Serving his Dominatrix, safer play, and speaking up about condom boundaries
10:04 Catholic silence, minimal sex education, and a three-stroke first time
14:05 An unexpected threesome, swapping partners, and navigating group dynamics
19:14 Vanilla married life and the surprising discovery of submission
23:16 Sucking his first cock, tasting cum, and exploring mutual oral pleasure
28:08 Dominant encouragement, anal stretching, fisting, and full-body prostate orgasms
33:17 Kissing men, nipple ecstasy, and letting go of old inhibitions
38:01 Flogging warmups, the fullness of a fist, and year-round cock cages
43:07 Electrical stimulation, internal electrodes, and erotic sensory play
48:24 Relaxing into deep sounding, sensory deprivation, and total trust
53:04 Gangbang etiquette, adult theaters, and unlocking the booth door
57:19 Folsom Street Fair, public pegging, and pride in being collared
1:00:25 Communication, radical acceptance, and creating a more loving world

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