The Anxious Achiever

How do you stay grounded when technology is changing work faster than any of us can keep up with? In this episode, I sit down with journalist and CNN contributor Jacob Ward to talk about the emotional and psychological impact of living and working alongside increasingly powerful technology. Jacob shares why he believes the bigger threat isn’t just automation, but the way these systems shape your behavior, attention, and relationships at work. We talk about loneliness, agency, management, the pressure to keep producing, and what happens when more of our thinking gets handed over to machines. Get ready to rethink productivity, management, and the value of human judgment.

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In this Episode, You Will Learn

00:00 What is AI doing to your mind and mood?

04:45 Why technology is really a story about human behavior.

09:00 How “fast thinking” makes us easier to manipulate.

13:00 What an AI co-parenting tool reveals about convenience, conflict, and control.

15:15 Can technology really support mental health without replacing human care?

17:45 Why the systems built to help us often prioritize engagement instead.

20:00 What a more “human-free” workplace could mean for all of us.

26:45 The human skills at work that are most at risk of disappearing.

30:00 How to deal with the helplessness so many people feel about the future of work.

36:00 The Pope’s warning about AI, dignity, and human value.

43:30 Why trust matters so much when institutions are under pressure.

47:45 How to decide when to use AI and when to resist it.

50:00 Why the pressure to produce more can quietly trap high achievers.

54:30 How do you stay relevant without giving up your standards?

Resources + Links

Visit Jacob Ward’s website HERE

Get a copy of Jacob’s book, The Loop: How Technology Is Creating a World Without Choices and How to Fight Back HERE

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Can achievement become a coping mechanism? In this classic episode, I sit down with entrepreneur, investor, and former Facebook and Twitter growth leader Andy Johns to talk about the connection between childhood trauma, anxiety, achievement, and self-worth. Andy shares how growing up with instability, loss, and trauma shaped his relentless drive to succeed, why panic attacks eventually forced him to confront his mental health, and how years of healing helped him realize that achievement and self-love are not the same thing. We also dive into PTSD, entrepreneurship, intrusive thoughts, overwork, and why so many successful people struggle to slow down even after they've reached their goals. Tune in to learn why healing is the most important achievement of all.

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In this Episode, You Will Learn

00:00 What’s the connection between achievement and self-worth?

05:00 What "growth" really means in the startup world.

07:15 Why entrepreneurs are more likely to struggle with mental health conditions.

08:45 How anxiety can fuel exceptional performance and success.

15:00 Why speaking publicly about mental health felt so risky.

18:30 What are intrusive thoughts?

20:30 How childhood trauma can shape adult anxiety and depression.

25:15 The childhood experiences that contributed to Andy's PTSD.

30:15 When does achievement become an addiction?

34:15 How to recognize when overachievement is masking emotional pain.

35:45 Why mental health is about more than brain chemistry.

36:45 What is the biopsychosocial model of mental health?

38:15 How your experiences shape the way you think, feel, and live.

Resources + Links

Read Andy's writing at https://andyjohns.substack.com

Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever

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How do you build a meaningful career when AI is rewriting the future of work? In this episode, I sit down with New York Times investigative reporter Jodi Kantor to talk about why so many young professionals feel discouraged about the future, and how digital shifts are reshaping our modern workplaces. Jodi shares how she survived getting fired from her college paper and dropping out of law school, and how those setbacks paved her way back to journalism. We also dive deep into the realities of AI-driven hiring, the loss of workplace autonomy, and the formula for reclaiming your agency. Get ready to rethink what it truly takes to protect your career in a rapidly changing world.

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In this Episode, You Will Learn

00:00 What Jodi Kantor believes is one of the most important ingredients for a meaningful career.

04:15 How do you think about hope?

05:45 The question that Columbia students wanted answered during a year of campus turmoil.

09:45 How technology has reduced worker autonomy over the last decade.

14:45 Why AI is making the hiring process feel increasingly impersonal.

17:00 How do you define craft?

19:45 What's the relationship between strengths, interests, and building expertise over time?

24:00 Why career setbacks are often essential parts of growth.

27:00 How to stay focused on the work instead of public praise or criticism.

30:00 How to identify the problems, opportunities, or needs you want your work to serve.

31:45 Why AI won't eliminate the need for fresh talent and new ideas.

33:00 What colleges can do to better prepare students for today's workforce.

35:15 How universities can better help students find their life's work.

38:00 Jodi's advice for anyone starting their career today.

Resources + Links

Get a copy of Jodi’s book, How to Start: Discovering Your Life’s Work HERE

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What if achievement doesn't have to come from suffering? I sit down with Congressman Adam Smith to talk about the complicated relationship between anxiety, achievement, and self-worth. Adam shares his journey through panic attacks, psychotherapy, chronic pain recovery, and the difficult work of building self-worth that isn't tied to performance. We also dive into why so many high achievers believe anxiety is the price of success, how trauma and stress shape the way we lead, and what happens when you stop using fear and self-criticism as your primary source of motivation. Get ready to discover a healthier path to high achievement.

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In this Episode, You Will Learn

00:00 Can anxiety make you a better leader?

04:30 Why ambitious people often struggle with fear and insecurity.

06:15 How can you give your anxiety a productive job to do?

08:45 What's the difference between feeling anxious and having clinical anxiety?

10:45 How Adam navigated years of panic attacks, chronic pain, and mental health challenges.

12:15 Why a lack of self-worth can fuel anxiety and achievement.

16:30 How ambition can remain strong even after anxiety is no longer the primary motivator.

28:45 Meditation techniques that help stop the cycle of chasing anxious thoughts.

31:15 What does it mean to demystify trauma?

33:30 New approaches that help people reprocess and heal from trauma.

35:30 The leadership skills that create healthier teams and workplaces.

37:15 How mental health struggles can become a source of empathy, patience, and stronger leadership.

Resources + Links

Get a copy of Adam Smith's book, Lost and Broken: My Journey Back from Chronic Pain and Crippling Anxiety HERE

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Why does modern work feel impossible for so many families? In this episode, I talk with sociologist, former Navy pilot, and workplace researcher Dr. David Smith about why so many modern couples feel trapped in work-life conflict, how to navigate the structural stress of dual-career life, and the realities of modern caregiving. David breaks down the "Lead-Follow" relationship strategy used by highly successful couples. We also dive into the anxieties men face surrounding workplace allyship, why traditional mentorship scripts are broken, and how organizations must design work for a cross-generational workforce. Tune in to learn about the pressures modern families face and what needs to change.

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In this Episode, You Will Learn

00:00 Why the traditional "breadwinner" corporate model is completely broken.

03:15 How repetition and exposure help build confidence under pressure.

06:15 What can military families teach us about work-life conflict?

08:45 Why women were leaving the military at much higher rates than men.

11:15 The 4 strategies dual-career couples use to navigate work and family stress.

16:45 Why constant renegotiation is essential in long-term partnerships.

22:00 What does work-life conflict mean?

25:00 How outdated workplace structures create burnout for both women and men.

27:30 Why millennial fathers are demanding flexibility and shifts in family culture.

35:00 Why many men now feel anxious about mentoring women at work.

37:15 How avoidance and fear damage workplace culture.

41:45 Can workplaces support women without men feeling left behind?

44:15 How device reliance and isolation are reshaping the incoming Gen Z workforce.

51:15 What can leaders do to better support modern families?

54:45 How organizations can better support career breaks and re-entry.

Resources + Links

Get a copy of David Smith’s new book, Fair Share HERE

Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever

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