The SPIRAL UP Podcast with Dr. LaChelle Wieme

There's a reason the same mindset work that used to move you forward suddenly stops working the moment things don't go as planned. It's not a discipline problem. It's not a focus problem. It's an identity problem, and in this episode, I'm breaking down why identity is the actual source code beneath every thought, feeling, belief, and behavior you have.

I've spent years teaching the thoughts-feelings-beliefs-behaviors model, and I still use pieces of it. But what I kept seeing, over and over, was people doing everything right until one disappointing result sent the whole thing into a downward spiral. That's because without a stable identity underneath it, the model is only as strong as your last outcome.

In this episode, I walk you through the framework I now build everything on:

The hidden reason your mindset work creates a self-fulfilling loop the moment results disappoint you
What the queen, the ice queen, and the prostitute reveal about the identity you're actually operating from
Why the shift from needing validation to knowing your worth changes everything, in your business and your relationships

Your identity is who you're being before you think, feel, or act. When you get that right, everything else follows.

👉 Episode Page:
https://iam-lifebydesign.com/post/your-identity-is-the-source-code-not-your-mindset

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Rebecca Boyle grew up in a working class neighborhood in Northern Ireland during the end of the Troubles, where she didn't know a single person who owned a business or sat anywhere near the level she'd one day reach. Now she's a brand strategist helping other business owners get clear, confident, and visible. We sat down to talk about the thing most of us would rather avoid: putting ourselves in front of the people we're meant to serve.

We dig into why visibility feels so vulnerable, why the "perfect website" or "perfect setup" can actually become an excuse to stay hidden, and why your background, even the parts that feel like a disadvantage, might be the exact thing that sets you apart. Rebecca also opens up about the early days of building her business with no roadmap and no one to call for advice, and how she turned that into the resilience she now relies on every day.

Here's what we cover:

Why your "disadvantaged" background might actually be your biggest business advantage
The real reason you're more critical of yourself than anyone watching you ever is
The one relationship-building habit Rebecca says matters more than any marketing strategy

This conversation is a permission slip to stop waiting for perfect and start showing up as yourself, today.

Meet Rebecca Boyle
Rebecca Boyle is a brand strategist based in Northern Ireland. She helps businesses get clear, confident, and in control of their branding to impact all aspects of their business.

https://www.linkedin.com/in/beccaboyle/
https://www.lissahandboyle.com/

👉 Episode Page:
https://iam-lifebydesign.com/post/why-consistency-beats-perfection-in-branding

📩 Download the Manifesting Cheat Code
https://iam-lifebydesign.com/cheatcode

📅 Sign Up For a Free Identity Gap Assessment:
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I sat down with Erin Trier and she broke down why so many women hit their late thirties and feel like their body just stopped cooperating, even though nothing else in their routine changed.

Erin is a functional health coach and mom of four who hit a wall around age 38. Everything she had always done to take care of herself stopped working, and she had no idea why. That experience led her to build the Empower Method, a framework for helping women figure out what their bodies actually need instead of following a one size fits all plan. We talked about the difference between capacity and capability, why women are cyclical beings who aren't built to run at 100 percent every day, and how the identity work matters just as much as the physical plan.

This episode is for anyone who feels like their effort and their results stopped lining up.

What you’ll understand:

Why your health routine can suddenly stop working, even when nothing about your habits has changed
The difference between capacity and capability, and why mixing them up keeps you stuck
The four phase framework Erin uses to build a health plan that actually fits your body

If you've felt like you're pouring everything you have into your health and still not seeing it pay off, this conversation will help you understand why.

👉 Episode Page:
https://iam-lifebydesign.com/post/capacity-vs-capability-and-why-women-burn-out

📩 Download the Manifesting Cheat Code
https://iam-lifebydesign.com/cheatcode

📅 Sign Up For a Free Identity Gap Assessment:
https://iam-lifebydesign.com/consult

❤️ Connect on IG
https://instagram.com/lachellewieme

Meet Erin Trier
Erin Trier is a women's wellness coach and Master's-level Social Worker with certifications in Functional Health Coaching, NASM personal training, Pn1 nutrition, and SYNC for Women's Health and Hormones. She's the founder of the Empowered in Health Podcast and creator of the EMPOWER Method, and she's built a six figure wellness coaching business while raising four kids. Her mission is helping moms reclaim their identity and build sustainable health systems that actually fit their lives.

Website: www.erintrier.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/erinktrier
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@erinktrier/
Free SKOOL Community: https://www.skool.com/empowered-in-health-5571/about
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There's a reason your affirmations feel hollow sometimes. You can say all the right things, think all the right thoughts, and still feel that quiet disconnect between what you're declaring and what your body actually believes. That gap is real, and this episode is about why it exists and what to do about it.

In this episode, I break down the science of why your emotional state, not just your mindset, is what drives your manifestation results. Your body is constantly broadcasting a frequency through your biofield, and if your heart and brain aren't in sync, that signal has static. I also walk you through two practical breathing tools you can use right now to calm your nervous system, restore coherence, and get your body aligned with what you actually want to attract.

This is the episode for the woman who has done the work and is still wondering why it isn't landing.

In this episode:

The real reason fake it till you make it only goes so far, and what your body is doing that your words can't override
What your biofield is and why it matters more to your manifestation than the thoughts you're thinking
The breathing technique that can shift your nervous system in minutes, and why that shift has to happen first

If you've ever felt like your body and your brain are saying two completely different things, this episode will show you exactly what to do about it.

👉 Episode Page:
https://iam-lifebydesign.com/post/your-body-is-blocking-your-manifestation

📩 Download the Manifesting Cheat Code
https://iam-lifebydesign.com/cheatcode

📅 Sign Up For a Free Identity Gap Assessment:
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Dianne Shelton turned off her camera within two seconds the first time she went live. Now she runs a business helping entrepreneurs build the digital systems that set them free. In this episode, she and I get into the real conversation behind that kind of growth: what it actually takes to show up when everything in you is saying don't.

Dianne's story is a good one. IT background, burnout she didn't recognize as burnout, a corporate job she walked away from, and a business born out of following the breadcrumbs. We talk about the leap, the fear that came with it, and what she did when the fear didn't go away.

Here's what we get into:
Why the fear of visibility never fully disappears, and what that actually means for where you are right now
The one mindset shift that separates the people who keep showing up from the ones who stay stuck
What Dianne discovered about the rooms she was plugging into, and why it was quietly draining her

If you've been waiting to feel ready before you show up, this episode is going to meet you right where you are.

👉 Episode Page:
https://iam-lifebydesign.com/post/fear-of-visibility-imposter-syndrome-showing-up-dianne-shelton

📩 Download the Manifesting Cheat Code
https://iam-lifebydesign.com/cheatcode

📅 Sign Up For a Free Identity Gap Assessment:
https://iam-lifebydesign.com/consult

❤️ Connect on IG
https://instagram.com/lachellewieme

Meet Dianne Shelton
Dianne Shelton is a digital marketing & systems expert helping mission-driven leaders bridge the gap between big vision and everyday execution. She is also the founder of Passion Breakthrough, a bespoke consultancy that specializes in helping business owners simplify the path to recurring sales and dream client retention.

Her signature approach is backed by an MBA and CS degree, fueled by over a decade of experience scaling multimillion-dollar projects for Fortune 500s and SMBs. Today, Dianne’s AI-enhanced strategies support clients in 170+ countries from her Minnesota home. She has been featured in places like Digital Journal, Thrive Global, and AllBusiness.

https://passionbreakthrough.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/diannecshelton
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