
Choosing Love Over Bitterness Changes Everything
24/11/2025 | 42 mins.
*Special Episode* Outside of Sunday Women's Retreat --Part 2 of 2-- I was blessed to share at the Outside of Sunday Retreat in Spring 2025, here is the second recording. Check out Christa Otter's ministry at  Outside of Sunday Podcast | ChristianWhere do you go when shame lingers and bitterness starts to feel justified? We open 1 John and Matthew 11 to find a path out of the dark and into a life marked by confession, courage, and a surprising kind of rest. I share how keeping short accounts with God lifts the labels we wear, restores joy, and makes space for the Spirit to do the work we canât force on our own.We explore why John holds truth and love togetherâand what goes wrong when we tear them apart. Youâll hear how the Holy Spirit reframes failure, why hatred blinds even when we feel âright,â and how choosing love for a difficult person can actually remove a stumbling block from your own path. This isnât about pretending pain away; itâs about bringing the raw story into the light so Jesus can carry the weight. Along the way, we talk practical steps: pausing to confess quickly, journaling what the Spirit surfaces, asking a friend to pray, and taking one hidden action of love where resentment wants the last word.Jesusâ invitation anchors the journey: come, take my yoke, learn from me. If your faith feels heavy, it may be a sign youâre pulling loads he never asked you to carryâimage, control, old wounds, quiet grudges. The gentle and lowly heart of Christ meets you there and leads you back to lighted ground. Listen for a fresh vision of grace, biblical clarity on walking as Jesus walked, and a hopeful way to face the people and places that stretch you. If this message helps you breathe easier, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs courage today, and leave a quick review to help others find their way back to the light.Send me a text messageSupport the show

Spoiler: Hiding Under A Blanket Isnât Sanctification
18/11/2025 | 39 mins.
*Special Episode* Outside of Sunday Women's Retreat --Part 1 of 2--I was blessed to share at the Outside of Sunday Retreat in Spring 2025, here is the recording. Check out Christa Otter's ministry at Outside of Sunday Podcast | Christian  Ever feel like you believe the right things but live without the joy you were promised? We open 1 John and get honest about the gap. John writes as an eyewitness who touched and followed Jesus, inviting us into koinoniaâdeep, shared life with God and one anotherâso that our joy may be full. Not a fleeting mood, but a calm delight anchored in truth.We unpack the line that changes everything: God is light and in Him is no darkness at all. That claim ends fence-sitting. If we say we walk with Him while clinging to shadowsâcomparison, bitterness, secret comfortsâwe feel like frauds because our lives and lips clash. The turning point isnât willpower; itâs light. When we welcome the light, it reveals what wounds us and heals what binds us. Confession becomes more than a doorway to salvation. It becomes a daily habit that keeps fellowship warm, clears the fog of shame, and lets grace do its cleansing work.Across this conversation we explore how surrender reframes growth, why honest confession leads to freedom, and how joy rises when we stop hiding. Expect practical language, Scripture woven through, and stories that meet you where you are. If youâve been carrying the weight of trying to look âtogetherâ while feeling empty, this is a gentle but clear call back to the heart of the gospel: bring everything into the light and let Jesus do what only He can do.If this spoke to you, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs hope today, and leave a quick review so more women can find these conversations. What will you surrender this week?Send me a text messageSupport the show

Beyond the Ash Heap: How Our Pain Can Become God's Platform
14/9/2025 | 52 mins.
*Special Episode- Session #1 from a Women's retreat I recently taught.What happens when our world collapses around us? When suffering strikes without warning or explanation, our response reveals what truly lives in our hearts. Through the powerful contrasting stories of Job and Jonah, this episode explores the fundamental question: how can we glorify God through our pain?The glory of GodâHis honour, reverence, and splendorâisn't just some abstract concept. For believers, Scripture tells us we've become living temples containing God's glory at all times. Yet our actions and attitudes can either reveal or veil this divine presence. The crucial difference lies not in experiencing pain (both Job and Jonah suffered), but in how we process that painâwith God or apart from Him.Job lost everythingâhis children, wealth, health, and reputationâyet initially responded with astonishing faith: "The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord." Even when questioning God through his suffering, Job kept bringing his heartache directly to God. When God finally appeared, Job immediately repented and was restored to a place of honour as an intercessor. Contrast this with Jonah, who technically obeyed God's command to preach to Nineveh but remained bitter when God showed mercy to his enemies. Jonah missed participating in a beautiful revival because he couldn't surrender his anger and judgment.Where are you fixing your eyes when life falls apart? On yourself? On others? Or on Jesus? The answer determines not whether God will be glorifiedâHe will be regardlessâbut whether you'll experience the profound joy of participating in His redemptive work. Today, make the choice to bring your wounds to the Healer rather than nursing them in isolation. Your pain might just become the very platform where God's glory shines brightest.Send me a text messageSupport the show

For His Eyes Only: Rediscovering Pure Motivation in Christian Service (Part 1 of 3)
04/5/2025 | 32 mins.
The Life of Moses- Episode #32 (Part 1 of 3) 𩺠Have you ever questioned your purpose or wondered if you're spending your time on the right things? Once we start serving and working in our calling, how do we maintain the right heart and motivation?? Today's episode dives deep into the heart of service by examining the building of the Tabernacle in Exodus 35.  When Moses invited the Israelites to donate materials for God's dwelling place, he revealed some solid principles that can transform how we approach service today.  This episode challenges us to examine our motivations in all areas of service. Whether you're uncertain about your gifts or have been serving for years, this message will help you rediscover the purpose and purity in your service to God.Send me a text messageSupport the show

Beholding, we Become
23/3/2025 | 24 mins.
The Life of Moses- Episode #31 ð Have you ever noticed how something truly changes when it's been in the presence of light? Growing up in the 80s and 90s, I was fascinated by those glow-in-the-dark stars that would shine brightly after being "supercharged" against a light bulb. This childhood memory perfectly captures what happens when we spend time in God's presenceâwe begin to radiate with His light, often without even realizing it.In this deeply reflective exploration of Exodus 34, we witness Moses descending from Mount Sinai after 40 days and nights in God's presence. His face literally emitted beams of light so bright that the Israelites were afraid to approach himâyet remarkably, Moses himself was completely unaware of his transformation. This powerful image reveals the authentic nature of spiritual growth: those most transformed by God are often the least conscious of their own glow because they remain utterly focused on Him rather than themselves.Moses' supernatural fast during these 40 days demonstrates how God's presence can sustain us beyond natural human limitations. When we silence the loudest voices in our livesâour physical cravings, our anxieties, our self-consciousnessâwe create space to hear God's voice and receive His transforming power. As 2 Corinthians 3:18 reminds us, "as we behold Him, we become like Him." True spiritual transformation isn't about self-improvement techniques or proving our spirituality to others; it's the natural result of extended, intimate communion with our Creator.If you're feeling insufficient today, remember that your sufficiency comes not from yourself but from God who makes you enough. Press into His presence, supercharge your spirit through His Word, and watch as His light begins to shine through youâperhaps in ways you don't even notice yourself. Subscribe to Whispers of Grace for more encouragement as we continue our journey through the life of Moses and discover transformative truths for our own spiritual walks.Send me a text messageSupport the show



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