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The Father of the 4% Rule Finally Sets the Record Straight
#560: Bill Bengen, the former rocket scientist who discovered the "4 percent rule" of retirement planning, joins us at the Bogleheads conference in Minnesota.
Bengen clarifies that calling it a "rule" is misleading since it doesn't fit everyone's situation. The 4 percent figure came from studying the worst-case scenario since 1926, when someone who retired in 1968 could only safely withdraw 4.2 percent annually. Out of 400+ retirees in his database, that was the only one who had such a low safe withdrawal rate — most could take out much more.
Recent research has pushed the "safe" withdrawal rate closer to 5 percent. But Bengen identifies eight key factors that affect how much you can withdraw, including how long you'll be retired and whether you're drawing from taxable or tax-deferred accounts.
For early retirees planning for 50-60 years, Bengen says the safe withdrawal rate asymptotically approaches 4.2 percent — meaning even with an infinite time horizon, it won't drop below that. He thinks the common advice to use 3 percent for early retirement is unnecessarily conservative.
Bengen shares what he calls the "four free lunches" in retirement planning:
1. Using an equity glide path (reducing stocks at retirement, then increasing later)
2. Diversification across asset classes
3. Regular portfolio rebalancing
4. Slightly overweighting higher-returning assets like small-cap stocks
When it comes to market drops versus inflation, Bengen has clear advice: Don't panic during bear markets — they typically recover. But if you hit extended high inflation early in retirement, it's time to "head for the bunkers" and cut expenses drastically.
Beyond finance, Bengen shares his excitement about space exploration as a former rocket scientist who graduated from MIT just months before the moon landing. He hopes to live long enough to see humans reach Mars and believes space tourism helps people appreciate Earth's beauty and fragility.
The interview ends with a light-hearted discussion about whether Pluto should still be considered a planet (Bengen still calls it one, out of habit) and speculation about future tourism to Saturn's moon Titan once the sun's expansion makes it warmer in a few hundred million years.
Timestamps:
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0:00 Paula introduces Bill Bengen, creator of the 4% withdrawal rule
2:19 Bengen explains how the 4% rule represents a worst-case scenario from 1968
10:14 Bengen warns against using a fixed percentage withdrawal method, as it could lead to dangerously low income in down markets
17:32 Discussion of the "smile" pattern in retirement spending - high at start, dips in middle, rises at end for medical costs
23:22 Bengen shares the four "free lunches" in retirement planning, including equity glide path and diversification
34:25 Conversation shifts to bonds and stocks no longer being inversely correlated in 2022
35:44 Deep dive into Black Swan events and how to prepare for unpredictable market crashes
42:14 Bengen advises when to panic (inflation) and when not to panic (bear markets) during retirement
49:20 Analysis of spending categories that rise faster than inflation, like healthcare and housing
51:27 Bengen discusses graduating MIT in 1969, just before the moon landing
51:56 Conversation turns to current space exploration and plans for Mars missions
53:39 Bengen speculates about future tourism to Saturn's moon Titan
54:17 Light-hearted debate about Pluto's planetary status
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Q&A: Should We Ditch Rental Properties Entirely?
#559: An anonymous caller, whom we name “Samantha,” and her husband are financially strained and feeling torn. Shortly after purchasing two rental properties, their income dropped dramatically. Should they sell?
Tina is a full-time environmentalist. She’s worried that her index funds don’t align with her values on sustainability. Is there a world where she can be a savvy investor and fight climate change?
Another anonymous caller, whom we name “Sarah,” is excited and uncertain about her growing business. Should she hold steady or invest more resources into it? And how does she know if she’s making the right call?
Former financial planner Joe Saul-Sehy and I tackle these three questions in today’s episode.
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Why Your Retirement Math Might Be All Wrong — If You Follow the 4% Rule
#558: What happens when you spend three decades talking to retirement experts? You learn that most of what people think they know about retirement planning is oversimplified or wrong.
Christine Benz, director of personal finance and retirement planning at Morningstar, joins us on the Afford Anything podcast to share what she's discovered after 31 years of interviewing experts across personal finance, tax planning, and Social Security.
One key insight: The standard advice about withdrawing 4 percent of your portfolio annually in retirement misses the mark. Real-life spending isn't that simple. In your 60s, you might spend more on travel. By your 80s, healthcare costs often rise.
Benz suggests creating separate "pots" of money for different purposes - like a travel fund you aim to deplete within your first decade of retirement.
Want to protect against market crashes early in retirement? Benz recommends keeping 5-8 years of planned withdrawals in cash and high-quality bonds. This prevents having to sell stocks during downturns.
We talk about why retirement doesn't need to be all-or-nothing. Instead of going from 40 hours to zero, Benz describes how many people benefit from a phased approach. This might mean keeping the parts of your job you enjoy while dropping the rest, or finding new ways to use your skills.
The conversation shifts to housing choices. While many assume retirees move to Florida or Arizona, the data shows most stay put. Those who do move often end up near their oldest daughter. And while single-family homes tend to make people happier until around age 75, apartment dwellers report more satisfaction after that — largely due to increased social interaction.
Benz shares her own retirement planning process. Despite being a retirement expert herself, she works with an hourly financial planner who tells her she'll likely struggle to spend as much as she could in retirement. It's a common problem — after decades of saving habits, many retirees find it psychologically difficult to spend their money.
The interview wraps up with a discussion about relationships in retirement. Research shows that while older adults often have smaller social circles, these relationships tend to be deeper and more meaningful. They've pruned away the "good enough" friendships to focus on their closest connections.
Benz's insights come from her new book "How to Retire" and her work at Morningstar, where she creates free model portfolios and hosts The Long View podcast. Beyond the financial aspects, she emphasizes that successful retirement planning involves thinking about purpose, relationships, and how you want to spend your days — not just your money.
Timestamps:
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0:00 What 30 years of retirement expert interviews reveal
1:34 Why spending in retirement is harder than saving for it
3:12 Beyond money: need purpose, not just leisure
4:00 The challenge: planning for an unknown time horizon
8:52 Should market fears delay your retirement?
13:42 How much cash and bonds to keep safe
15:49 When bonds don't protect against stock crashes
18:33 Phased retirement: keep what you love, drop what you don't
29:24 Take mini-retirements throughout your career
33:20 Spending shifts: from travel to healthcare costs
46:14 Why most retirees don't actually move
57:31 After 75, apartment living beats houses
1:00:42 Friendship patterns change: quality over quantity
1:04:58 Virtual vs real-life connections
1:06:25 Where to find more info
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Help! The Money is Good … But My Dream Life is Different
#557: Imagine saving nearly your entire paycheck while your rental properties cover your bills. That's exactly where real estate investor Andrew finds himself — and yet he's at a crossroads.
At FinCon, a personal finance conference, former financial advisor Joe Saul-Sehy and I sit down with Andrew and another attendee who bring their money dilemmas live on stage.
Andrew's question seems simple at first: should he sell his index funds to pay off his rental mortgages? But the real story runs deeper.
He feels called to entrepreneurship and wants to quit his corporate job to pursue it full-time. He could achieve minimal financial independence (lean-FIRE) if he pays off the properties, but that might limit his options.
Next, Chris, a Gen X dad, opens up about his Gen Z kids' gloomy money outlook. His 22 and 24-year-old children, especially his daughter, believe their generation "will never retire." They see high inflation, expensive housing, and low wages as insurmountable obstacles.
This sparks a deeper conversation about generational perspectives. We note that similar fears existed 15 years ago when millennials entered the workforce during the Great Recession. Joe shares how he helped his own kids develop healthier money mindsets by introducing them to financial voices they could relate to, like Broke Millennial author Erin Lowry.
The discussion evolves into how today's young people actually have more opportunities than previous generations — they can work remotely, start online businesses with minimal capital, and create multiple income streams through platforms that didn't exist before. Chris's daughter, for instance, sometimes makes $35/hour driving for DoorDash during peak times.
We wrap up by talking about the importance of focusing on what you can control and finding purpose beyond just retirement planning. As Andrew points out, it might be worse to spend the best years of your life doing work you don't care about than to face uncertainty in retirement. The key is taking action on the things within your control while building toward long-term security.
Throughout the conversation, both guests share personal stories that illuminate their situations - from Andrew's experience at an oil refinery that pushed him toward entrepreneurship to Chris's daughter storing cash for taxes from her DoorDash earnings, showing she's more financially aware than she might think.
Timestamps:
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1:50 Andrew asks about index funds vs real estate allocation
4:04 Could Andrew reach lean-FIRE by paying off rentals?
5:00 Joe suggests keeping investments flexible vs mortgage payoff
8:05 Debate over HELOC vs index fund liquidity
10:10 Andrew's bigger dreams beyond real estate investing
17:40 Choosing between W2 security and entrepreneurial freedom
19:20 Andrew saves nearly entire salary while rentals cover bills
24:20 Chris worried about Gen Z kids' financial pessimism
28:40 How Joe helped his kids find relatable money role models
33:40 Millennials faced similar fears post-Great Recession
37:20 Today's expanded opportunities vs previous generations
43:20 Andrew's wake-up call at oil refinery job
49:20 Chris's daughter earning $35/hour on DoorDash
52:00 Finding meaning beyond retirement numbers
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Q&A: When a Million Dollars Feels Like a Burden
#556: An anonymous caller was raised to work hard, live below his means, and save. He feels undeserving of his recent $1,000,000 inheritance and struggles to spend it. What should he do?
Jack bought a house with a seven-year adjustable-rate mortgage. He’s confused about when and how he should refinance out of it. What should he do?
Jack is also wondering how to do the breakeven calculation between contributing to a Traditional IRA with upfront income tax savings versus a Roth IRA with deferred savings on investment gains.
Former financial planner Joe Saul-Sehy and I tackle these three questions in today’s episode.
Enjoy!
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You can afford anything, but not everything. We make daily decisions about how to spend money, time, energy, focus and attention – and ultimately, our life.
How do we make smarter decisions? How do we think from first principles?
On the surface, Afford Anything seems like a podcast about money and investing.
But under the hood, this is a show about how to think critically, recognize our behavioral blind spots, and make smarter choices. We’re into the psychology of money, and we love metacognition: thinking about how to think.
In some episodes, we interview world-class experts: professors, researchers, scientists, authors. In other episodes, we answer your questions, talking through decision-making frameworks and mental models.
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