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  • Reclaim Your Feminine Power | 062
    Keri Khalighi, somatic guide, shares her journey from shape-shifting, performing, and stifling her voice to reclaiming her feminine power through embodied listening. She remembers her shy 13-year-old self from small-town Nebraska who was catapulted into the world of high fashion. Modeling in New York and Europe, she underwent a trial by fire, learning to shut down her sensitivity to survive. Naive, and craving safety and stability, Keri became a serial monogamist, and failed to find the emotional intimacy she needed. Being a mother, a doula, and caregiver for her dying father cracked open a new level of awareness, connection, and wisdom. But, it took a divorce to usher in a renaissance of being. Through tantra and other ancient traditions, feminine embodiment practices, and guidance from mentors, Keri moved into a deeper understanding of herself. That planted the seeds for a soul connection with her husband, Amir. She takes us inside their partnership, and how it serves as the foundation for their work as somatic and embodiment guides. Celebrating the wisdom of age, we honor the stories we carry in our bodies as women, the beauty of exploring our sexuality, and how breath, movement, and poetry open our hearts and possibilities. We dive into the power of women’s circles, and the ancient magic of feminine gathering. Then, Keri shares the beauty of tea ceremonies, which help us slow down and catch up—both to ourselves and with the fast pace of life. She encourages us to live in “the juice” and humility of the unknown, listen to the truth of the moment, and share your imperfect offering. TESS’S TAKEAWAYS: Somatics, tea ceremonies, and other practices open us to embodied listening. Women are always birthing, not only babies, but ideas, and new versions of themselves. Women’s circles provide a space for connection, free expression, and healing. Pleasure is yours to have and share. Not something somebody gives you. Have the sovereignty to walk away from what isn’t yours, and step into what is. Grief is an initiation portal that opens up new possibilities and knowing. Your darkest experiences turn into the gold from which to serve. Celebrate the mystery and humility of the unknown and listen to the questions. ABOUT KERI KHALIGHI Somatic guide and ceremonialist, Keri Khalighi invites women into deeper connection with their bodies, their truth, and the rhythms of the natural world through private mentorship, circles, and workshops. Guided by archetypal and ancestral threads, and rooted in decades of experience with embodiment, birthwork, trauma healing, and sacred ritual, Keri’s offerings create space for women to listen to their inner knowing. At the heart of her practice is Cha Dao - the Way of Tea - a ceremonial path which she weaves with somatic listening, expressive movement, and feminine wisdom traditions. Keri collaborates with her husband, Amir Khalighi, founder of Embodied Masculine, offering immersive experiences that explore the sacred dialogue of the feminine and masculine energies that exist within us and between us. CONNECT WITH KERI Website: https://wayoftheelements.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/keri_khalighi Guided by archetypal and ancestral threads, and rooted in decades of experience with embodiment,...
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  • Food and Hormones—Avoid Hidden Traps | 061
    Are your eating habits messing with your hormones? Meghan Donnelly, lead dietitian for the 60 Day Reset, shares the science behind why so many women struggle to lose weight despite “eating healthy.” Many of us are unknowingly sabotaging thyroid function and metabolism by eating too little, not too much. The results include blood sugar crashes, hormone imbalances, brain fog, brittle nails, hair loss, sleep problems, fatigue, and mood swings. Disordered eating patterns, Meghan says, aren’t always as stark as anorexia and bulimia. They show up in subtle everyday behaviors we consider normal, but are damaging our bodies. Meghan gives us strategies to boost metabolism and weight loss, and the best foods for hormones. She explains why gut health and protein are critical for hormone health and lays out the reasons we should be snacking every day. We discuss the importance of personalized nutrition solutions, then weigh the side effects of Ozempic and other GLP-1 injections, covering how these medications can seriously decrease muscle mass and bone density. Tune in for some vital nutrition information that may surprise you. TESS’S TAKEAWAYS: Eating balanced meals frequently promotes weight loss and hormone balance. Undernourishment slows down metabolism, digestion, circulation, and brain function. Disordered eating includes many behaviors normalized today. Quality snacks support thyroid health to ward off and combat autoimmune disease. Better gut health is crucial for better hormone and blood sugar regulation. Meeting your protein needs is a game-changer for better hormone function. Working with a dietitian isn’t about restriction, but about strategies to expand choices. Ditch generic diets. Personalized nutrition is the path to sustainable lifestyle change. ABOUT MEGHAN Meghan Donnelly, MS, RDN, CDN, is a registered dietitian specializing in gastrointestinal nutrition, and is Director Of Health Communications at the Celiac Disease Foundation. Her experience spans clinical practice, nutrition counseling, medical nonprofits, and the food industry. In her private practice at Nutmeg Nutrition, Meghan helps her clients establish a balanced and joyful relationship with food, particularly when managing digestive disorders (IBS and SIBO), food intolerances, gluten-related conditions (celiac disease), and disordered eating. She also provides nutrition counseling for heart health, kidney disease, weight management, and food intolerances. Monash University certified, she guides clients on Low-FODMAP diets. As lead dietitian for Skinny60®, Meghan provides nutrition education and support for participants in the 60-Day Reset. CONNECT WITH MEGHAN Nutmeg Nutrition: https://www.nutmegnutrition.org/ 60-Day Reset: https://www.skinny60.com/60-day-reset/ MEET TESS MASTERS: Tess Masters is an actor, presenter, health coach, cook, and author of The Blender Girl, The Blender Girl Smoothies, and The Perfect Blend, published by Penguin Random House. She is also the creator of the Skinny60® health programs. Health tips and recipes by Tess have been featured in the LA Times, Washington Post, InStyle, Prevention, Shape, Glamour, Real Simple, Yoga Journal, Yahoo Health, Hallmark Channel, The Today Show, and many others.
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  • Menopause: How To Avoid The Common Mistakes | 060
    Is menopause making you miserable? What you’re doing to fight it could be making things worse. I’m sharing the biggest mistakes we make so you can avoid them, and some strategies that actually work to lose weight over 40. Recounting my struggles, I weigh up what I’d do differently to avoid the hot flashes, weight gain, brain fog, sleep issues, and mood swings. Top-line takeaway: I’d ditch the diets and get serious about gut health. We’ll dive into how the gut controls hormones and metabolism, and cover why “eating healthy” isn’t enough to combat tanking estrogen and progesterone. Then, we’ll walk through my strategy for thriving through menopause: personalized nutrition, knowing your food triggers, and meeting your protein needs. Drawing in wisdom from previous guests, we’ll go over the importance of advanced labs and early DEXA scans, how to improve bone health and avoid osteoporosis, and why a dietitian should be a core member of your medical team. A key strategy that’s missing for most women? Sharing experience and resources in a supportive, like-minded community. You can’t Chat-GPT-your-way through this transition. Tune in to get proactive and take charge of your health. TESS’S TAKEAWAYS: Personalized nutrition is the key to achieving health goals at any age. What you eat dramatically affects how you feel during menopause. Optimizing gut health and blood sugar helps to balance your hormones. Over 40, meeting your protein needs is a game-changer. Dieting can make menopause symptoms and health issues worse. The 60-Day Reset includes access to dietitians and community support. Reduce hot flashes, brain fog, and other symptoms by knowing your food triggers. Get advanced hormone and thyroid panels with a menopause-trained doctor. MEET TESS MASTERS: Tess Masters is an actor, presenter, health coach, cook, and author of The Blender Girl, The Blender Girl Smoothies, and The Perfect Blend, published by Penguin Random House. She is also the creator of the Skinny60® health programs. Health tips and recipes by Tess have been featured in the LA Times, Washington Post, InStyle, Prevention, Shape, Glamour, Real Simple, Yoga Journal, Yahoo Health, Hallmark Channel, The Today Show, and many others. Tess’s magnetic personality, infectious enthusiasm, and down-to-earth approach have made her a go-to personality for people of all dietary stripes who share her conviction that healthy living can be easy and fun. Get delicious recipes at TheBlenderGirl.com. CONNECT WITH TESS: Website:  https://tessmasters.com/ Podcast:  https://ithastobeme.com/  Health Programs: https://www.skinny60.com/ Delicious Recipes: https://www.theblendergirl.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theblendergirl/ Instagram:
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  • Fear To Forgiveness—Redefining Spirituality | 059
    Struggling to process fear, anger, and grief? Karen Kenney—writer and spiritual mentor—gives us a masterclass in finding love, compassion, and resilience in challenging times. When Karen was 12, her mother was brutally murdered. She and her sister were sent to live with strangers. Through years of trauma and confusion, Karen sought solace in books and stories. While others around her took satisfaction in vengeance, she found peace in forgiveness, through guidance from mentors, and her study and practice of somatics, yoga, and other healing modalities. This put Karen, who grew up Catholic, on an unexpected path to a different relationship with spirituality and the divine. After getting a communications degree at Boston University, she lived and worked with Marianne Williamson, then immersed in study of A Course In Miracles, finally claiming her role as coach and thought leader. We discuss the impact of family and cultural conditioning in shaping internal narratives, and the importance of shifting limiting beliefs to temper the dialogue with ourselves and others. Cornerstones of Karen’s approach are personal responsibility, harnessing the agency we have, recognizing what spirit and source mean to us, and developing a unique connection to them. She maps how to assemble a team of spiritual advisors, noting the importance of tapping into our resources and community to consider things in different ways. Then shows us tools to resist fear, acknowledge risk, and feel ‘safe enough’ to take action toward what we want. Karen’s story epitomizes “It has to be me.” But her message is: You don’t have to do it alone. TESS’S TAKEAWAYS: A Course In Miracles is a workbook to prompt self awareness and growth. Developing your own approach to spirituality supports self-love and compassion. Intimacy heals. Personal responsibility and deep relationships expand your choices. Grief is a sacred path to your deepest healing and highest service. You can feed a grievance or you can seek peace. You cannot do both. Forgiveness isn’t forgetting. Choosing compassion means suffering doesn’t run the show. You’re not the sum of what happened to you, but what you’ve been called to because of it. We’re never completely safe. Feeling safe enough is enough. ABOUT KAREN KENNEY Spiritual mentor and writer Karen Kenney uses humor and dynamic storytelling to bring a down-to-earth, no-BS perspective to self-development. Bringing together tools that coach the conscious and unconscious mind, Karen helps clients deepen their connections with self, and discover their unique understandings of spirituality. Her practice combines neuroscience, subconscious reprogramming, integrative hypnosis, somatics, and other holistic modalities to help regulate the nervous system, examine internal narratives, remove blocks, and reimagine what’s possible. A passionate student of A Course in Miracles, devout yoga teacher, and Gateless Writing instructor, Karen is a frequent speaker and retreat leader. Via her programs The Quest and The Nest, she coaches individuals and groups. With The Karen Kenney Podcast, she encourages listeners to shift from a thought system of fear to one of love, compassion, and personal responsibility. CONNECT WITH KAREN Website: https://www.karenkenney.com/ Podcast:
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  • Pete Coles, transpersonal counselor and somatic practitioner, shares how listening in an embodied way to grief, anxiety, and other overwhelming emotions softens self-judgment and shame. He tells us about his journey, from working musician to therapist for adolescents dealing with drug and alcohol addiction. Seven years in this work led to burnout. A 600-km trek through the Tasmanian wilderness brought him to a deeper, more holistic relationship with healing. Pete transitioned into working with adults, integrating somatics to enhance trust, body listening, and self awareness. We discuss the significance of family narratives and inherited personality traits. Understanding those, we can explore our internal landscapes with curiosity and compassion, recognize destructive patterns, and move to deeper understanding of ourselves and others. Pete offers insights into relationship dynamics, and how conflict is often a collision with events in the past. He says: Slow down and listen to your body. Honor the discomfort that arises—not as a problem, but as a signal that there’s something to take care of. This conversation will move you beyond words. TESS’S TAKEAWAYS: Rather than trying to solve reality in your mind, listen and care for your body. Somatic practices expand how we meet ourselves and others. Reframing problems as puzzles shifts our responses to disruptions. Give anxiety, sadness, and other overwhelming emotions seats at the table. Grief is a meticulous and sacred journey that heals and builds resilience. Observing yourself with curiosity expands inner dialogue and choices. In taking responsibility for our inner stories, we can move from conflict to resolution. Knowing your internal myth leads to greater compassion for yourself. ABOUT PETE COLES A transpersonal psychotherapist with extensive experience in drug and alcohol addiction, Pete has a nuanced understanding of mental health, compulsive behavior, and trauma. In his therapeutic approach, he integrates somatic awareness, helping people connect with their bodies and explore internal myths and formative stories that shape perceptions and behaviors. Pete also supports clients in the safe use of psychoactive plants in their therapy. Specializing in relationship dynamics, Pete works with couples to uncover how personal narratives intersect, guiding them toward greater clarity and connection. As co-founder of Elk & Me Therapies and Dispensary, Pete works with a complementary team to offer a holistic and integrative approach to mental health and wellbeing. CONNECT WITH PETE Website: https://elkandme.com.au/practitioners/pete-coles/ Website: https://www.emotionalintellect.com.au/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elkandme/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ElkMeTherapiesDispensary/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pete-coles-125879a2/ MEET TESS MASTERS: Tess Masters is an actor, presenter, health

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What are your “It has to be me” moments? Those key points in your life where you know “This is what I want to do” and you go for it! I’m Tess Masters and I’m getting the skinny from people who are smashing their fears and doubts to make the things they want happen. Let’s dive in, get fired up, and go after your next “It Has To Be Me!”
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