The Hopeaholics

At the height of her addiction, Abbey Fickley lost custody of her daughter to her own parents. Then, in one of the most painful turning points of her life, her father pressed felony charges against her. What followed was a journey through addiction, motherhood, sobriety, and the difficult reality of rebuilding a life in recovery.

In this powerful episode of The Hopeaholics Podcast, we sit down with Abbey Fickley, a mother and recovery advocate, to discuss the devastating impact of substance abuse on her family, the heartbreak of losing custody of her daughter, and the life-changing decisions that ultimately pushed her toward sobriety.

Abbey opens up about navigating addiction as a single mother, the consequences of substance use disorder, and the complicated role of tough love in addiction recovery. When her parents stepped in to protect her daughter, Abbey was forced to confront the reality of her addiction and the damage it was causing to the people she loved most.

She also reflects on her father's decision to press felony charges against her, a painful experience that became a pivotal moment in her recovery journey. Through accountability, healing, and a commitment to change, Abbey began rebuilding her life and repairing the relationships that addiction had impacted.

This conversation goes beyond addiction and sobriety. It's about motherhood, family intervention, generational healing, forgiveness, and what it truly takes to break free from the cycle of addiction.

For anyone struggling with addiction, navigating recovery as a parent, or loving someone battling substance abuse, Abbey's story is a reminder that even when everything feels lost, recovery and a different future are possible.

Watch this powerful conversation with Abbey Fickley on The Hopeaholics Podcast.

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At 18 years old, Ian Bick was running a nightclub and booking major artists. Just a few years later, everything came crashing down — leaving him facing massive debt, federal charges, and ultimately three years in federal prison.

In this episode of The Hopeaholics Podcast, Ian Bick shares the unbelievable rise, fall, and comeback that completely changed the course of his life.

Ian opens up about the pressure of finding success so young, the decisions that led to his federal conviction, what life was really like behind bars, solitary confinement, and the reality of rebuilding your life after prison. But Ian’s story didn’t end there.

After his release, he eventually turned his experiences into a platform for second chances, redemption, and conversations about the criminal justice system. Today, he is the host of Locked In with Ian Bick, where he sits down with former inmates, law enforcement, attorneys, victims, and others to tell stories from every side of the system.

This is a conversation about ambition, consequences, accountability, resilience, and what it takes to rebuild after losing everything.

$1.2 MILLION in Debt & Facing Federal Prison with Ian Bick | The Hopeaholics Rereleased

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In this re-released episode of The Hopeaholics Podcast #109, Orange County Sheriff Don Barnes shares warnings about fentanyl, the rise of counterfeit pills and the programs his department developed as the crisis grew. Sheriff Don Barnes has spent more than 35 years in law enforcement and has been confronting the fentanyl crisis in Orange County since his department began seeing the drug in 2015. 

Barnes discusses naloxone deployment by deputies, medication-assisted treatment inside the jail, reentry programs, counterfeit pills sold as Xanax, Percocet and Adderall, social media drug sales, youth drug education, mental health crisis response and why he believes there is no single solution to fentanyl.

We Should Have Seen the Fentanyl Crisis Coming w/ Sheriff Don Barnes | Re-Release #109

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0:00:00 Intro
0:05:54 Orange County starts seeing fentanyl in 2015
0:13:41 Addiction treatment inside the Orange County Jail
0:16:15 Prop 47, drug arrests and consequences for addiction
0:23:56 Marijuana, psychosis and the developing brain
0:29:19 Addiction, mental illness and homelessness
0:32:31 Why short insurance stays fail people in treatment
0:36:55 Reentry, relapse risk and counterfeit pills
0:41:35 "If it's not from a pharmacist, it's fentanyl"
0:50:02 Kids selling fentanyl and the changing drug market
0:52:39 Cartels, trafficking and border security
1:00:45 Overdose vs. poisoning
1:05:38 Fentanyl dealers, murder charges and criminal liability
1:12:13 Barnes recalls years of warnings about fentanyl
1:18:36 How Narcan races against fentanyl
1:25:59 What Orange County's death investigations show about addiction
1:36:20 Fentanyl deaths among teens and talking to your kids
1:52:51 The arrest Barnes says helped change one man's life
2:01:24 Mental health stigma and Orange County's Be Well centers
2:16:11 Chad: "This is a podcast that I wish never existed"
2:19:45 Chad thanks the deputies who helped save his life
2:22:43 Preventable deaths, education and final thoughts

Retired Long Beach Fire Captain James Owen spent his career running toward other people’s emergencies while addiction, trauma, and post-traumatic stress were building behind the badge.

In this episode of The Hopeaholics, James opens up about the murder of his close friend and fellow firefighter Captain Dave Rosa, surviving a motorcycle crash that broke his neck, losing and rebuilding his sobriety, and the realization that ultimately changed his life: after spending his career trying to save everyone else, the last patient he needed to save was himself.

James joined the Long Beach Fire Department and built the career he had dreamed about, eventually becoming a fire captain. But as the job became more of his identity, his recovery began to disappear. After years of sobriety, James found himself drinking again while dealing with divorce, overwhelming stress, internal investigations, traumatic calls, and the cumulative weight of life as a first responder.

James also discusses first responder PTSD and suicide, Alcoholics Anonymous, Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families (ACA), nonlinear recovery, alternative recovery modalities, the importance of continuing to seek new ways to heal, and his book, The Last Patient.

Firefighter PTSD, Addiction & the Cost of Being "Tough" w/ James Owen | The Hopeaholics Podcast #363

Rachel Sereni is co-host of the 2 Girls in a Chair podcast and sober for over 2 years. She grew up mostly alone with her little sister while their dad worked two jobs, because their mother was addicted to opiates and spent most of Rachel's early childhood nodding out on the couch. Rachel got a DUI after she left work early to drink and forgot to pick up her son from school, woke up in jail with her car impounded and her son at his grandma's house. By the end of her drinking she was 221 pounds, had over 32 W2s because she couldn't hold a job, and was blacking out most nights and cursing out her husband without remembering any of it. On April 10th, 2024, she drove to a parking lot with a bottle of wine and two shooters for one last hurrah, got halfway through the wine, started throwing a tantrum in her front seat and almost kicked her windshield in. She got out, threw everything into a field, and landed on her knees sobbing. She drove home, woke up April 11th, and that was her sobriety date. She's been sober since, lost 80 pounds, and chose April 11th as the date she married her husband.

Rachel also announces an amazing surprise for the very first time in our show's history!

Check out the 2 Girls In A Chair podcast here: https://www.youtube.com/@2GirlsInaChair

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Visit our Treatment Centers: https://www.hopebythesea.com
If you or a loved one needs help, please call or text 949-615-8588. We have the resources to treat mental health and addiction. 

Sponsored by the Infiniti Group LLC:
https://www.infinitigroupllc.com 

Join our patreon to get access to an EXTRA EPISODE every week of ‘Off the Record’, exclusive content, a thriving recovery community, and opportunities to be featured on the podcast. https://patreon.com/TheHopeaholics 

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#TheHopeaholics #redemption #recovery #AlcoholAddiction #AddictionRecovery #wedorecover #SobrietyJourney #MyStory #Hope #wedorecover #treatmentcenter #natalieevamarie

00:00 — Intro
04:00 — Pregnancy Announcement
08:00 — Day one of sobriety: got on the scale, saw 221
13:29 — In and out of halfway homes with Mom
15:14 — Mom came back at 11
16:57 — Mom had numerous overdoses
17:31 — The night mom died
21:51 — Daily drinking by 19; violent, fighting people;
22:20 — Found out she was pregnant
23:33 — The friend nobody wanted to go out with
24:18 — Left work early to drink; forgot to pick son up; woke up in jail
29:40 — The surrender moment
31:39 — Friend did an intervention while she was the one who got Rachel drunk
33:17 — Started 2 Girls in a Chair with Jessica
36:41 — She thought she'd never genuinely laugh again
37:49 — Addiction doesn't have to define your whole personality
43:55 — "I married the love of my life the day I got my life back."
46:41 — Grief in sobriety
47:24 — Started EMDR for PTSD from seeing her mom's body
50:47 — Not continuing EMDR while pregnant
53:33 — What you feel during pregnancy, the baby feels
54:33 — Her son forgives her
57:22 — Blackout drinking
57:47 — How alcohol is glamorized vs what it actually is
1:02:19 — AA experiences mirror bad church experiences
1:07:04 — How she and Jessica met
1:09:14 — Grew up with no mother; all mother figures have passed