Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children

This episode digs into the evolving understanding of ADHD and what it really means to parent with collaboration, connection, and support at the center. My guest is Cindy Goldrich, an internationally recognized expert in ADHD and executive function support and the author of 8 Keys to Parenting Kids & Teens with ADHD, a compassionate, research-informed guide that she’s just updated for today’s families. In our conversation, Cindy and I talk about why traditional approaches to ADHD often fall short and how parents can shift from managing behavior to building skills and connection. We also explore the challenges so many families face, what kids with ADHD are actually communicating, and practical, supportive strategies parents can start using right away.

About Cindy Goldrich 

Cindy Goldrich, Ed.M., ADHD-CCSP, is a mental health counselor, certified ADHD Clinical Services Provider, and internationally recognized expert in ADHD and Executive Function support. She is the founder of PTS Coaching, a leading organization dedicated to training and supporting parents, educators, and allied professionals.Cindy is the author of 8 Keys to Parenting Kids & Teens with ADHD: Supporting Your Child’s Executive Function, a compassionate and practical guide grounded in the latest research. She is also the co-author of ADHD, Executive Function & Behavioral Challenges in the Classroom, a widely used professional resource for educators.

Through her signature programs—the Calm & Connected: Parenting Kids & Teens with ADHD/Executive Function Challenges® parent workshop series, the ADHD Parent Coach Academy, and the ADHD Teacher Training Academy —Cindy has supported and trained thousands of parents and professionals worldwide. She also provides direct coaching to parents, students, and adults navigating ADHD and Executive Function challenges with empathy and actionable strategies. Known for her warm, engaging presence and practical wisdom, Cindy continues to advocate for a more compassionate, informed approach to supporting those who think and learn differently.

Things you'll learn from this episode  

How reduced stigma and a deeper understanding of neurodiversity are reshaping the ADHD conversation for families and schools

Why parenting the child you have means recognizing their unique needs, strengths, and developmental pace

How collaborating with kids can reduce power struggles and build self-awareness and confidence

Why enabling and supporting are fundamentally different—and how teaching skills fosters true independence

How prioritizing connection over correction leads to healthier, more resilient parent–child relationships

Why focusing on potential and creating low-stress zones can positively transform family dynamics

Resources mentioned

Cindy Goldrich’s PTS Coaching website


8 Keys to Parenting Kids & Teens with ADHD: Supporting Your Child's Executive Function by Cindy Goldrich


ADHD, Executive Function & Behavioral Challenges in the Classroom by Cindy Goldrich

Cindy Goldrich on LinkedIn

Cindy Goldrich on Instagram

Cindy Goldrich on Facebook

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Dr. Kristin Neff, pioneering self-compassion researcher, author, and teacher, talks about the power and benefits of practicing self-compassion as parents to differently wired children.

In our conversation, Kristin shares what she has learned about self-compassion, both through her research and her own experiences parenting an autistic child. She goes deep into what self-compassion really looks like,  why we are often more compassionate to others than ourselves, and shares some strategies for strengthening that self-compassion muscle both for ourselves and our kids. 

ABOUT DR. NEFF

Kristin Neff is an Associate Professor of Educational Psychology at the University of Texas at Austin. She is a pioneer in the field of self-compassion research, conducting the first empirical studies on self-compassion over fifteen years ago. She has co-developed an empirically supported training program called Mindful Self-Compassion, and is author of the books Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself, Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook, and Teaching the Mindful Self-Compassion Program: A Guide for Professionals.

 

THINGS YOU’LL LEARN FROM THIS EPISODE:

How Dr. Neff got into the work of self-compassion research

What it looks like to practice self-compassion

Why we judge ourselves so harshly and what keeps us from being a better self-friend

What it means to practice self-comfort

Strategies parents can use to accept and BE with their suffering

How to teach kids and teens about self-compassion

 

RESOURCES MENTIONED: 

Dr. Kristin Neff’s website


Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself by Dr. Kristin Neff


The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook:  A Proven Way to Accept Yourself, Build Inner Strength, and Thrive by Kristin Neff: 


Teaching the Mindful Self-Compassion Program: A Guide for Professionals by Kristin Neff and Christopher Germer

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Today’s episode is a deep dive into tactile defensiveness and sensory distress, especially around clothing. My guest is Kathryn Hamlin-Pacheco, an occupational therapist who helps kids and families understand their brains and bodies through everyday neuroscience. Kathryn will break down what’s actually happening in the brain and nervous system when children experience tactile defensiveness, and why clothing can feel so overwhelming for some kids. We talk about the role of co-regulation, how parents can help create positive associations with getting dressed, and practical strategies for supporting children in navigating their sensory experiences with more safety and less stress. This episode is a grounding, compassionate look at sensory processing—and a reminder that when we understand what’s underneath the behavior, everything shifts.

About Kathryn Hamlin-Pacheco

Kathryn (Katie) Hamlin-Pacheco, M.S., OTR/L, ASDCS, is an occupational therapist, former teacher, author, and founder of the Brain Executive Program. Kathryn is an Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical Specialist (ASDCS) and holds certifications in Neuroscience for Mental Health Professionals and in Brain Structure and Function: Application to Sensory Integration and Processing. She graduated from Virginia Commonwealth University with a Master’s degree in Occupational Therapy, where she also worked with the Virginia Leadership Education in Neurodevelopmental Disabilities program to pursue her desire to be an advocate and leader in pediatric healthcare.

She has shared her work at AOTA’s Inspire Conference (the world’s largest gathering of occupational therapy practitioners!), Sensory Integration Education’s international conference, and at William & Mary’s Center for Gifted Education. In addition, Katie has written for OT Practice Magazine, Autism Parenting Magazine, Washington Family Magazine, and Stars & Stripes Magazine. Her book, How to Be a Brain Executive: And Get Sensory Sharp!, was a top Amazon release in two categories.

Things you'll learn from this episode 

How tactile defensiveness reflects a nervous system response rather than behavioral resistance

Why understanding sensory processing is essential for supporting children with clothing challenges

How co-regulation helps children feel safe, connected, and more able to tolerate sensory input

Why play and low-pressure practice can make clothing experiences more manageable

How creating calm environments and positive associations supports sensory integration over time

Why sensory health is a vital part of children’s overall well-being

Resources mentioned


Brain Executive Program (Kathryn Hamlin-Pacheco’s website)

Kathryn’s online Sensory Dressing Course


How to Be a Brain Executive: And Get Sensory Sharp! by Kathryn Hamlin-Pacheco

Brain Executive Program on Instagram

Brain Executive Program on Facebook


Deb Dana on Befriending Our Nervous System Using Polyvagal Theory (Tilt Parenting podcast)


Dr. Stephen Porges & Karen Onderko on the Safe and Sound Protocol (Tilt Parenting podcast)


Dr. Mona Delahooke on the Power of Brain-Body Parenting (Tilt Parenting podcast)


Brain-Body Parenting: How to Stop Managing Behavior and Start Raising Joyful, Resilient Kids by Dr. Mona Delahooke


Sensory Processing Differences with Carol Kranowitz (Tilt Parenting podcast)


The Out-of-Sync Child: Recognizing and Coping with Sensory Processing Differences by Carol Kranowitz

Polyvagal Card Deck: 58 Practices for Calm & Change


Polyvagal Practices: Anchoring the Self in Safety by Deb Dana

Debbie’s TedxBerlin talk: What if Feeling Broken Wasn't the End of the Story?

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This is one of only a few solocast episodes I’ve made over the past several years, but I wanted to talk one-on-one with you about self-care. If you’ve read my book or regularly listen to this show, you know I am a big proponent of self-care—I don’t think it’s even close to optional for parents raising neurodivergent kids. And, I also recognize that it can be a hard thing to make time for and prioritize. I get asked a lot about what my self-care looks like, and so today, I’m sharing with you twelve strategies and ideas for creating a sustainable, doable self-care practice. These are all things I rely on
and, I give you my word…they work.

I’ve also created a printable PDF cheat sheet of these strategies in case you want to print them out and post them somewhere where you’ll regularly see them and be reminded of the importance of prioritizing YOU. Grab it on the show notes page.

 

RESOURCES MENTIONED:


Differently Wired: Raising an Exceptional Child in a Conventional World by Debbie Reber (on Amazon)


The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron


Yoga With Adriene (YouTube channel)


The Scientific 7-Minute Workout (New York Times)


Year of Yes: How to Dance it Out, Stand in the Sun, and Be Your Own Person by Shonda Rhimes

Dan Pink’s website

Eye to Eye Learn Different Days

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Today’s show is all about navigating the school system when your child has disabilities—and how to do that with clarity, confidence, and a whole lot more support. My guest is Stacey Shubitz, author of the new book Make the School System Work for Your Child with Disabilities: Empowering Kids for the Future. In this episode, Stacey shares her journey as both an educator and a parent, and we dig into what parents really need to understand about special education, effective communication with schools, and the IEP process. She offers practical, empowering strategies for advocating for your child, managing the complexity of the system without losing yourself, and finding moments of joy and meaning along the way, even if (or when) the path feels overwhelming.

About Stacey Shubitz 

Stacey Shubitz is a certified literacy specialist and former fourth- and fifth-grade teacher in the New York City Public Schools and a public charter school in Rhode Island. Since 2009, she has been a literacy consultant, supporting teachers with writing instruction. Stacey has also taught graduate literacy education courses at Lesley University and Penn State–Harrisburg.

She is the Chief of Operations and Lead Writer for Two Writing Teachers, a leading resource for writing instruction since 2007. She also co-hosts the Two Writing Teachers Podcast. Stacey earned an M.A. in Literacy Education from Teachers College, Columbia University, and an M.S.Ed. in Childhood Education from Hunter College.

She has published several books about writing instruction, including Welcome to Writing Workshop and Craft Moves. Stacey’s most recent book, Make the School System Work for Your Child with Disabilities: Empowering Kids for the Future, was published by Guilford Press in January 2026. In this book, she shares her experiences as both a parent and an educator, equipping families with real-life stories, inclusive resources, and the knowledge to advocate for their children confidently. Stacey lives in Pennsylvania with her husband and children.

Things you'll learn from this episode 

How Stacey’s dual perspective as an educator and parent strengthens her advocacy for families in special education

Why educating yourself about your rights, school processes, and the IEP system is essential for effective advocacy

How partnerships with teachers — built through clear, ongoing communication and regular check-ins — support your child’s success

Why building a support network helps parents navigate the overwhelm of special education

How practicing consistent self-care and finding joy in small moments protects parents from burnout

Why celebrating every bit of progress, no matter how small, helps families stay grounded and encouraged

Resources mentioned

Stacey Shubitz’ website


Make the School System Work for Your Child with Disabilities: Empowering Kids for the Future by Stacey Shubitz

Parenting Training & Information Centers

Two Writing Teachers Blog

Two Writing Teachers Podcast

Stacey Shubitz’s Substack

Stacey Shubitz on Instagram

Stacey Shubitz on LinkedIn


The Kids Who Aren’t Okay: The Urgent Case for Reimagining Support, Belonging, and Hope in Schools by Dr. Ross Greene


Strength-Based Assessments with Dr. Jade Rivera (Tilt Parenting podcast)

The Strength-Based Assessment Lab at Bridges Graduate School of Cognitive Development

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