The Truth About Conflict: How To Communicate And Grow Together
Relationships aren’t always easy and that’s exactly why they matter. In this episode of the Kreatures of Habit Podcast, Michael Chernow sits down with Vanessa Bennett, a therapist, facilitator, and author, to unpack what it really takes to build connection, navigate discomfort, and stay grounded through the chaos of modern relationships.Together, they explore how societal expectations shape our roles as men and women, what healthy communication actually looks like, and why embracing discomfort is key to growth—both individually and together.You’ll hear Vanessa’s refreshing take on:-The myth of motherhood and breaking free from outdated narratives-Understanding male and female communication styles-How to argue well and repair with intention-Keeping sensuality alive in long-term relationships-The balance between independence and intimacyWhether you’re partnered up, parenting, or just trying to better understand yourself and the people you love, this one’s for you.If today’s conversation with Vanessa hit home, share it with someone who’d get value from it. And if you haven’t yet, drop us a 5-star review to keep the conversations flowing. See you next week, Kreatures!Like & Subscribe for more real conversationsFollow Vanessa Bennett: https://www.instagram.com/vanessasbennett/Connect with me: https://www.instagram.com/michaelchernow/?hl=enListen on Spotify/Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/kreatures-of-habit-podcast/id1497757053 https://open.spotify.com/show/55aRcnBD5UoOgxTYUwtUVL #relationships #communication #personalgrowth #michaelchernow #vanessabennettTIME STAMPS:00:00 Introduction to the Guest and Topic02:16 Exploring Relationship Dynamics16:48 The Power of Pausing in Conflicts23:55 Parenting Strategies and the Mother's Myth31:28 Motherhood and Parenting Realities36:35 Male Loneliness and Societal Expectations46:03 Balancing Work, Family, and Self-Care53:14 Sex and Relationship Dynamics01:04:14 Final Thoughts and Takeaways
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The Truth About Why YOU Haven't Changed Yet | Monday Moments
Today, we commit together to showing up with purpose and discipline. If you’re ready to crush your health and fitness goals and finish the year strong, this episode is for you. I’m walking with you through the mindset shift that changes everything: focusing on just one day at a time.When you do what you say you’re going to do, you build self-confidence, self-love, and unstoppable momentum.No perfection needed. Just daily effort.We’re not waiting for motivation we’re building discipline. Starting now.0:00 Introduction: Want Plus Do Equals Have01:08 Monday Motivation: No More Excuses01:43 Commitment to Fitness and Nutrition03:43 The Power of One Day at a Time05:37 Discipline and Time: Keys to Success07:36 Practical Tips for Daily Discipline09:38 Final Thoughts and Encouragement👉 Hit play, lock in, and let’s commit to the day together.#FitnessMotivation #SelfDiscipline #DailyCommitment #FinishStrong #MindsetShift #HealthGoals
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Forget The Fluff: Redefining Core Values with Robert Glazer
Author, speaker, and entrepreneur Robert Glazer joins Michael Chernow for a deep dive into what core values really mean — and why most of us get them totally wrong. Forget the corporate fluff and buzzwords. This episode of The Kreatures of Habit Podcast breaks down how to actually define, live, and lead through authentic values that align with who you are.Robert shares insights from his book The Compass Within, exploring how core values shape your decisions, relationships, and long-term success. You’ll learn how to uncover your true non-negotiables, create alignment in your work and personal life, and understand the values that drive others so you can build stronger teams, businesses, and connections.If you’ve ever rolled your eyes at the phrase “core values,” this episode will change that for good.WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:How to identify and define your real core valuesWhy most “company core values” failHow shared values build trust and authentic cultureWhat The Compass Within teaches about alignment and purposeWhy understanding others’ values improves every relationshipIf you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe to The Kreatures of Habit Podcast so you never miss a new drop. Rate and review the show — it helps us reach more people who are ready to level up their habits, mindset, and life. See you next week, Kreatures!TIMESTAMPS:0:53 What core values actually are11:13 Relatability: Why people love Curb Your Enthusiasm and Seinfeld33:59 How to uncover your true core values51:27 Why you should align values before starting a business1:03:25 The difference between keeping and earning trustSnag FREE access to Glazer’s Core Value Course for being a KOH Podcast Listener: https://robertglazer.com/compass-kreatures/
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Power Is In The Pause | Monday Moments
In this Monday Moments episode of the Kreatures of Habit Podcast, Michael Chernow explores the powerful difference between reacting and responding. A simple pause and a deep breath can shift us from survival-driven reactions—often rooted in self-preservation or past trauma—into intentional, mindful responses. No shame in how we’ve reacted before, but when we know better, we can do better. Tune in to learn how the power of the pause can help you refocus, regulate your emotions, and strengthen your relationships, mindset, and personal growth journey.
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Cooking Up Character with Chef Chris Scott
In today’s episode of the Kreatures of Habit Podcast, host Michael Chernow sits down with acclaimed NYC chef, author, restaurateur, and filmmaker Chris Scott for a raw and inspiring conversation about what life in the hospitality industry is really like—beyond the recipes and restaurants.Chris and Michael take a look under the hood (yes, this pun applies to restaurants, too):The state of the restaurant business in New York City and what makes it such a high-stakes environment.The major difference between restaurants and retail—and why staffing is the ultimate game-changer.Culinary training and fundamentals: why mastering the basics is the heartbeat of every successful chef.Nightmares from the kitchen that will make you cringe, laugh, and nod in recognition.The unique personalities in restaurants—employees, managers, and customers—and how to navigate them all.The humanity behind hospitality, where every employee is balancing their own ups and downs while serving others.From sink-or-swim environments to personal growth forged in the fire of the kitchen, this episode is packed with real stories, raw truths, and powerful life lessons. If you can’t take the heat, stay out of the kitchen—but if you can, this conversation will light you up. See you next week, Kreatures!TIMESTAMPS: 2:22 – The state of the restaurant business in New York 12:40 – Sink or swim environments 26:02 – Chris's stories about Al Paris 40:34 – The restaurant Michael worked in when he got sober 46:35 – How restaurants differ from other businesses
Michael Chernow, host and founder of Kreatures of Habit, hosts discussions with his guests about their routines and habits, and how committing to them has helped their paths to success. In each episode, Michael asks about the guest’s morning and evening routines, 3 habits that have changed their life, and one habit that they've broken, and how they stay committed to it.
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