In this episode, I share thoughts on how our confidence can sometimes trigger the insecurities of those around us, leading them to shrink back instead of celebrating our growth. This dynamic is rooted in our individual beliefs and past experiences, which shape how we perceive the world. If our confidence makes someone else shrink, they were never truly cheering for us in the first place. Bless and release and thank them for the role they have played in your life. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - The Fear of Judgment 00:01:05 - Personal Story: The Book Incident 00:03:35 - Embracing Imperfection 00:05:14 - Confidence and Triggers 00:07:42 - The Need for Connection 00:08:25 - Responsibility for Growth 00:09:29 - Reframing Reactions 00:10:33 - Identifying Supportive Relationships 00:12:09 - Anchoring Positive Feelings 00:13:31 - Surrounding Yourself with Positivity 00:14:15 - Being Evidence of Possibility 00:15:08 - Finding Your True Supporters Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Meet me at the Heart-Wired CEO LIVE Event on November 7th & 8th. Grab your tickets HERE and save $260!! Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in Oct 2025 in person or virtual) HERE The Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE. Tap the “Follow” button to never miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.comConnect on IG, click HERESubscribe on YouTube, click HERE
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906 | Reprogramming Your Mind: How to Write Your Book with Ease
In this episode, I speak into the often-overlooked connection between subconscious writing blocks and the process of writing a book. I open up about my own vulnerabilities and the misconceptions that many aspiring writers face when they struggle to put pen to paper. I start by addressing a common sentiment among writers: the confusion about how subconscious rewiring relates to the writing process. Many people have invested in strategy programs, only to find themselves stuck and questioning their abilities. I explain that our subconscious mind is a powerful force, controlling 95% of our actions and beliefs. It stores all our past experiences, decisions, and identities, which can create hidden blocks that prevent us from pursuing our writing goals. I emphasize that writer's block is not just about the act of writing; it’s about feeling safe to express oneself. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - Introduction to Subconscious Writing Blocks 00:01:00 - The Impact of Strategy Programs 00:02:30 - Understanding Subconscious Influence 00:03:50 - Identifying Hidden Blocks 00:05:00 - Case Study: Overcoming Limiting Beliefs 00:06:30 - The Importance of Safety in Writing 00:08:00 - Reframing Negative Thoughts 00:09:30 - The Role of Subconscious Reprogramming 00:10:30 - Success Stories: From Fear to Action 00:12:00 - Invitation to Join the Program Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Meet me at the Heart-Wired CEO LIVE Event on November 7th & 8th. Grab your tickets HERE and save $260!! Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in Oct 2025 in person or virtual) HERE The Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE. Tap the “Follow” button to never miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.comConnect on IG, click HERESubscribe on YouTube, click HERE
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905 | Pray It Doesn't Work with Jeremy Delk
In this episode, we are speaking with Entrepreneur, Investor, Author, and Public Speaker, Jeremy Delk. Jeremy’s story is all about taking ownership of his failures, his wild successes, and every lesson in between. From jumping into entrepreneurship as a teenager to walking away from a half-billion-dollar exit, Jeremy has never shied away from bold decisions. He embodies the idea of creating your own path, embracing failure, and taking unbound action to live life on your terms. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - Introduction and Early Entrepreneurial Pursuits 00:02:30 - Lessons from Early Failures 00:03:50 - Childhood and Family Background 00:06:30 - The Journey to Success 00:09:30 - Mindset and Overcoming Fear 00:12:30 - The Importance of Authenticity 00:15:30 - Navigating Challenges in Business 00:18:00 - The Impact of Early Financial Success 00:21:30 - Turning Setbacks into Strengths 00:24:00 - The Value of Taking Risks 00:27:00 - Real-World Examples of Business Decisions 00:30:00 - Creating Impact Beyond Profit 00:33:00 - The Role of Vulnerability in Leadership 00:36:00 - Conclusion and Final Thoughts Connect with Jeremy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremysdelk Website: www.jeremydelk.comJeremy’s Book – Without A Plan, https://a.co/d/4DX3oKh Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download FREE “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) HERE Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program HERE. Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.comConnect on IG. Click HERESubscribe on YouTube. Click HERE
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904 | Can You Allow Others to Hold Your Vision With You?
In this episode, I am sharing the process of embracing big visions and the fears that often accompany them. I start by sharing a personal anecdote from 2016 when I first received the idea to write my solo book. The initial excitement was quickly overshadowed by fear and skepticism from those around me, which led me to caution against sharing my ideas too freely. I reflect on my experience with launching my NLP coaching certification, Outspoken, where I had to build everything from scratch without any proof of concept. A mentor pointed out the difference between that experience and my current vision for Unbothered, emphasizing that now I have a supportive community that sees the potential in my vision even before I do. This support is crucial as it helps me navigate the fear and excitement that come with pursuing something new. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - Embracing Big Visions 00:01:05 - The Bigger Picture 00:02:30 - The Role of Support 00:04:27 - Navigating Fear and Excitement 00:06:44 - Identifying Resistance 00:08:09 - The Power of New Perspectives 00:10:57 - Building Proof of Concept 00:12:43 - Reframing Your Narrative 00:14:41 - Receiving Support 00:16:48 - The Journey of Unbothered Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Meet me at the Heart-Wired CEO LIVE Event on November 7th & 8th. Grab your tickets HERE and save $260!! Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in Oct 2025 in person or virtual) HERE The Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE. Tap the “Follow” button to never miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.comConnect on IG, click HERESubscribe on YouTube, click HERE
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903 | A Quick Way to Shift Your Thinking to See What is Possible
In this episode, I address a common question: how do we shift our thinking? I emphasize that while the concept may be simple, the execution is often challenging. I share my personal experience of being in a crisis and how it forced me to reevaluate my choices and control over my life. I encourage listeners to consider how they want to show up in their lives, especially as we approach the end of the year. I discuss the importance of setting realistic goals and focusing on what we want rather than what we don’t want. Many people struggle to articulate their desires, often fixating on their frustrations instead. I challenge listeners to shift their language and mindset, speaking about their aspirations as if they have already been achieved. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - Gratitude for Episode 900 00:02:00 - The Challenge of Shifting Mindsets 00:04:00 - Setting Realistic Goals 00:06:00 - Language and Focus 00:08:00 - Interrupting Negative Patterns 00:10:00 - Creating a Supportive Environment 00:12:00 - Visualizing Success 00:14:00 - Boundaries and Self-Care 00:16:00 - Empowering Others Through Your Journey Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Meet me at the Heart-Wired CEO LIVE Event on November 7th & 8th. Grab your tickets HERE and save $260!! Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in Oct 2025 in person or virtual) HERE The Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE. Tap the “Follow” button to never miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.comConnect on IG, click HERESubscribe on YouTube, click HERE
Welcome to the podcast, "Own Your Choices Own Your Life". Your host, Marsha Vanwynsberghe is a Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the Bestselling Book, "When She Stopped Asking Why". On this podcast, we will share the tips, tools and strategies used by our guests to breakthrough and overcome the challenges in their lives. Marsha is on a mission to educate, empower and inspire you to recognize that when you truly own your choices, you own your life.
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