27. The Navy SEAL of HR: The Female Founder Who Burned It All Down to Build the Future of Work Culture! - Lisa Oakley
She Burned Her Business to the Ground, Then Built One That Finally Worked for Her LifeIn this episode, I sit down with Lisa Oakley founder of People Associates, HR consultant, mediator, and unapologetic truth-teller whose story is equal parts survival and reinvention. From postpartum collapse, single motherhood, and rebuilding her life after betrayal, to navigating the darkest HR cases no one else wants to touch, Lisa’s journey is one of resilience, clarity, and choosing to design business and motherhood on her own terms.We dive deep into the reality of what it takes to scale a people-focused business, the toxic myths around “doing it all,” and the radical honesty required to build company culture that actually works. Lisa doesn’t sugarcoat the hard stuff and that’s exactly why this conversation is essential for every woman founder.In This Episode We Discuss:00:00 - Episode Trailer02:00 - Postpartum collapse, IVF struggles, and rebuilding after betrayal05:30 - Learning resilience: from faith to finding her superpower07:20 - Burning her business to the ground and starting again10:00 - Building People Associates and scaling with quality over quantity13:30 - Failing forward: mistakes, client chemistry, and letting go of control15:00 - The Navy Seals of HR: sexual harassment and workplace crises18:00 - Power imbalances, ethics, and the role of a mediator22:00 - How to build skin like a rhino (without losing compassion)25:00 - Motherhood, guilt, and rejecting outdated gender expectations28:00 - Outsourcing, SOPs for life, and prioritizing what actually matters30:00 - The HR myths founders get wrong33:00 - Breaking down culture: inputs, outputs, and the leadership lever36:00 - The biggest culture killers in any business38:00 - Toxic employees, feedback cultures, and why avoidance destroys teams41:00 - Practical models for feedback and conflict resolutionEpisode Resources:Guest Website: https://peopleassociates.nz/Guest Instagram (Personal): https://www.instagram.com/lisamareeoakley/Guest Instagram (People Associates): https://www.instagram.com/peopleassociates.nz/Guest LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisamareeoakley/Follow Us On:Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-powerhouse-diaries/id1791081472Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3ExGnkttIzhK8NMjyWLINw?si=184cc0b3c89d440fInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_powerhouse_alliance/Host Website: https://www.drdanielkirkbride.com/