Toward Solutions Podcast

In this episode of Toward Solutions 2.0, we catch up with Ayse Adil, who first joined us back in Episode 7, and meet her co-founder Joe Lettieri. Together they run Family Based Solutions, a charity that grew out of a single case when they discovered child-to-parent abuse and realised there was almost nothing out there to support the families living with it.
Ayse and Joe share how their new book on child-to-parent abuse and a solution-focused approach, published by Routledge, came about and what they hope it offers families who feel too ashamed to come forward, and the professionals trying to support them. Built around real case studies, each chapter draws out a different solution-focused assumption, from problem free talk to best hopes, brought to life through the families they have worked with. Along the way they talk honestly about the reality of family work, knowing when not to be solution focused, and why they no longer see themselves as Solution Focused purists.
Whether you work with families, support young people, or simply care about having good conversations, this one is for you.
Get the book
Understanding Child to Parent Abuse: Recovery through Solution-Focused Brief Therapy by Ayse Adil and Joseph Lettieri (Routledge, 2026)
Routledge: https://www.routledge.com/Understanding-Child-to-Parent-Abuse-Recovery-through-Solution-Focused-Brief-Therapy/Adil-Lettieri/p/book/9781041224082
Also on Amazon and through all major booksellers.
Find out more about Ayse and Joe
Family Based Solutions: https://familybasedsolutions.org.uk
Email: admin@familybasedsolutions.org.uk
Ayse Adil: https://linkedin.com/in/ayse-adil-9b3438153
Joe Lettieri: https://linkedin.com/in/joe-lettieri-bem-694876316
Facebook: https://facebook.com/familybasedsolutions
Instagram: @fbsolutions_

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In this rich and thought-provoking episode, we sit down with Elvira Kalmar, founder of the Go Beyond Project and a solution-focused organisation development and design consultant, to explore what happens when a solution-focused mindset meets the messy, complex work of transforming organisations.

Elvira has spent over 20 years working in and with organisations, and around 15 years ago discovered Solution Focus through a team coaching course with the Hungarian Solution Surfers. From that first moment, she started experimenting with taking the approach beyond individual and team coaching and into whole-company change, eventually leaving the corporate world to become an external consultant. She is now the author of the two-book Go Beyond: Solution-Focused Pocket Mentor for Work Evolutionists series, and runs the internationally accredited Native in Change course through the Go Beyond Project, teaching solution-focused organisation development and design in English, German and Hungarian.

In this conversation we explore:
Why the solution-focused approach is "mind-blowingly different" for organisational change, and why so many transformations fail because they spend all their time diagnosing the problem instead of co-creating the preferred future
The five parallel realities at play in every organisation - formal, informal, value-creating, legal and digital - and why so many change efforts fail because they try to solve every problem in the wrong one
Why Elvira prefers the word "evolution" to "transformation," and how small, confidence-building steps compound into much bigger change than one big forced leap
The four-part "calibration meeting" Elvira uses with teams: acknowledging what's been achieved, acknowledging individual contribution, a solution-focused stop/start/continue, and agreeing the next deliverables
Why AI can only ever be as good as the notes and data you feed it, and what gets lost when you skip the human noticing
A simple tool you can try tomorrow: asking what your customers or clients would notice before asking what needs to change

This is a conversation about trust, permission, and the small experiments that add up to real evolution, whether you're leading a team of five or trying to shift an entire organisation.

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Show Notes Resources
Elvira's Books
Go Beyond: Solution-Focused Pocket Mentor for Work Evolutionists, Book 1: Start Transformations Today by Elvira Kalmar (SolutionSurfers)
Go Beyond: Solution-Focused Pocket Mentor for Work Evolutionists, Book 2: Support the Evolution of Complex Systems by Elvira Kalmar (SolutionSurfers)
Both books, reviews, and ordering info: gobeyond-project.com/resources/book

The Go Beyond Project
Courses, consultancy and mentoring with Elvira and her trained team: gobeyond-project.com

Native in Change
Elvira's internationally accredited Solution-Focused Organisation Development and Design course, run in English, German and Hungarian: gobeyond-project.com/native-in-change

Go Beyond Consultancy
Book a free mentoring session with one of Elvira's trained consultants: gobeyond-project.com/consultancy

Connect with Elvira
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/elvira-kalmár-5b74661a

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In this wide-ranging and quietly moving episode, we sit down with Dr Gil Greene, Professor Emeritus at Ohio State University's College of Social Work, after a thirty-eight-and-a-half-year academic career, and one of the field's most dedicated (and best-read) students of Solution Focus.
Gil found his way to the approach the long way round: starting in psychiatric social work at a Veterans Administration hospital in Nashville, through transactional analysis and Gestalt therapy, into the work of Milton Erickson and the Mental Research Institute, and eventually to Steve de Shazer and Insoo Kim Berg's work in Milwaukee. Along the way he built one of the largest personal libraries of Solution Focused material anywhere, and has spent decades writing, teaching, and researching the approach from every angle.
In this conversation we explore:
How Gil discovered Solution Focus through the Mental Research Institute lineage, and why the approach "sold itself" once he saw the results
The neuroscience of change: Hebb's principle, neurons that fire together wire together, and why simply asking someone to imagine a different future is a genuinely creative act
Why we can never unilaterally empower a client, and what a truly collaborative, co-created conversation looks like instead
Gil's recent work connecting Solution Focus to patient activation and resource activation research in healthcare settings
The simplest and most powerful lesson from nearly fifty years of practice: go slow
This is a conversation that moves from history to neuroscience to the kind of hard-won, practical wisdom that only comes from decades in the room with people. Whether you are brand new to Solution Focus or have been practicing for years, there is something here worth sitting with.
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Show Notes Resources
Gil's Books
Coaching for Person-Centred Healthcare: A Solution-Focused Approach to Collaborative Care by Elaine Cook, Gilbert J. Greene, and Joanne Maxwell (Routledge, 2024)
Routledge: routledge.com/Coaching-for-Person-Centred-Healthcare-A-Solution-Focused-Approach-to-Collaborative-Care/Cook-Greene-Maxwell/p/book/9781032539560
Solution-Oriented Social Work Practice: An Integrative Approach to Working with Client Strengths by Gilbert J. Greene and Mo Yee Lee (Oxford University Press, 2011)
Oxford University Press: global.oup.com/ushe/product/solution-oriented-social-work-practice-9780195162622
Integrative Family and Systems Treatment: A Strengths-Based Common Factors Approach (Oxford University Press), co-developed by Gil Greene with Mo Yee Lee and colleagues

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In this warm, curious and quietly profound episode, we head off into the unknown with Dr Stephan Natynczuk, a self-employed academic, accredited counsellor, and Solution Focused practitioner who takes useful conversations outdoors. Stephan has spent decades co-adventuring for change with young people in forests, rivers, caves and on mountainsides.
Stephan started out as a scientist, studying social odours in mammals, before following his curiosity into experiential education, the care sector, and eventually training with BRIEF. What ties it all together is a simple mission he names without grandeur: to generate contributors to a better world. 
This is a conversation full of stories, gentle wisdom, and the kind of practical insight that only comes from doing the work for real.
In this conversation we explore:
The low visibility navigation metaphor for change: knowing where you are, where you've been, and being able to picture exactly what it will look like when you arrive
Why Stephan rarely explains Solution Focus and instead just gets on with it, asking the questions and seeing what happens
Leave No Trace as an ethic borrowed from the outdoors, and what it means to do the work with people rather than to them
Why his parting advice for a good conversation is simply to listen hard and be curious
Whether you work outdoors, sit in a therapy room, lead a team, or simply care about having better conversations, this one is for you.
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Show Notes Resources
Connect with Stephan
Website: sparekrab.com
Email: sparekrab@icloud.com
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/stephannatynczuk
Stephan's Book
Solution-Focused Practice in Outdoor Therapy: Co-Adventuring for Change by Will W. Dobud and Stephan Natynczuk (Routledge, 2023). Available to order online via Routledge, Amazon, and most major booksellers (print on demand). A free field manual is available with purchase of the book. 
Routledge (publisher): https://www.routledge.com/Solution-Focused-Practice-in-Outdoor-Therapy-Co-Adventuring-for-Change/Dobud-Natynczuk/p/book/9781032108810
Amazon (paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Solution-Focused-Practice-Outdoor-Therapy-Dobud/dp/1032108819
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Toward Solutions 2.0 is a second series running alongside our usual monthly show - same passion for Solution Focus, different format. Shorter conversations, a little less structured, and a lot more wide-ranging. We catch up with past guests to follow the ripples, and we bring in new voices too; coaches, therapists, leaders, educators, and practitioners applying Solution Focus across all kinds of different contexts.
Think of it as the conversations that happen after the main event. The ones over coffee, at the edge of a conference, or on a random Tuesday when someone has something worth saying.
If you're new here, the main Toward Solutions series is a great place to start. If you've been with us for a while - welcome to 2.0.
Andrew Gibson was our second ever guest, and that conversation quietly set something in motion.
Andrew is a coach, trainer, and Solution Focus practitioner based in Leeds, UK. He came back to tell us a story, about a stranger at a conference in Belgium, a talk with no slides, an afternoon in a garden in the Netherlands, and how all of it traces back to an episode of this podcast recorded a year earlier. The result is a brand new book: The Essence of Solution-Focused Practice 485 words that distil what Andrew believes Solution Focus actually is at its core. You can read it in the time it takes to drink a coffee.
Get the book 
Single copies: amazon.com/dp/191677668X 
Bulk orders: contact Andrew directly
Find out more about Andrew 
andrew-gibson.com linkedin.com/in/growthbusinesscoach 
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