🎙️ Toward Solutions Podcast | Episode 7: Flexibility, Family Work & Silent Sessions with Ayse Adil
In this vibrant and energising episode of Toward Solutions, we sit down with Ayse Adil — co-founder of Family Based Solutions — to explore what it means to stay truly client-led.Ayse shares her journey from early scepticism (“I thought Solution Focus was wishy-washy!”) to becoming a passionate and creative advocates. Drawing on her experience with families, young people, survivors, and those who have used violence, she shows how Solution Focus can flex to meet the moment — even in silence.Together, we explore how a light touch, a strong intuition, and deep respect can unlock new possibilities, even in complex or high-risk situations. Ayse introduces her metaphor of the “brain librarian,” the surprising power of silent sessions, and how humour, humility, and courage to improvise can shift everything.We explore:Moving from scepticism to living Solution Focus as a way of beingPreparing families to move from problem-focus to possibility-focusAdapting Solution Focus to work with survivors, perpetrators, and childrenLetting go of being “strictly Solution Focus” to stay truly client-ledWhy silence, humour, and mistakes can lead to real changeAyse’s warmth, honesty, and creativity shine in this conversation.Find out more about Ayse's work at https://familybasedsolutions.org.uk/
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🎙️ Toward Solutions Podcast | Episode 6: It’s not about being an expert. It’s about being interested with Paut Struik
"It’s not about being an expert. It’s about being interested.”In this energising episode of the Towards Solutions podcast, we sit down with Dutch Solution Focused practitioner and organisational consultant Paut Struik, whose wisdom, warmth, and practicality make this a must-listen.Here’s what we explore:What makes a truly surprising conversation—and how to invite oneHow to shift an entire organisation’s culture, starting with leadershipWhy SF doesn’t stop at the frontline—and how it grows by osmosisHow to use “Intervision” to sustain team learning and energyAnd a small question that can quietly transform any meeting: Paut reminds us that powerful change doesn’t require grand plans—just small moments of real interest, repeated with intention.Whether you’re in coaching, leadership, education, health, or just love great conversations—this one’s for you.Check out one of Paut's projects here; https://www.sfio.org/interaction/2023-1/sf-supporting-system-change/
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🎙️ Toward Solutions Podcast | Episode 5: Good Reasons and Hypertext with Haesun Moon
In this beautifully expansive conversation, we sit down with Dr. Haesun Moon — communication scientist, author of Coaching A to Z, and creator of the Dialogic Orientation Quadrant — to explore what it means to dwell in meaningful conversations.Together, we unpack the art of listening for good reasons, explore hypertext as a metaphor — where each word becomes a doorway to new possibilities — and reflect on how conversations can either shrink or grow our sense of hope, purpose, and possibility. Along the way, Haesun shares powerful stories from her teaching, writing, and personal reflections on what makes Solution Focused practice both humble and sophisticated.Whether you're a coach, a leader, or someone simply trying to have better conversations, this episode invites you to slow down, listen with greater care, and reimagine what it means to work with — not on — people.
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🎙️ Toward Solutions Podcast | Episode 4: The Power of Not Knowing with Chris Iveson
In this episode, we sit down with Chris Iveson — co-founder of BRIEF and one of the leading voices in Solution Focused Brief Therapy.Chris shares decades of wisdom in a way that only he can: clear, humble, and deeply insightful.Whether you’re a therapist, leader, coach, educator or simply curious about how small conversations can unlock big changes — this one is well worth your time.We explore how not knowing can become a strength, how simplicity helps people discover their own next steps, and how Solution Focused conversations shield us from burnout by drawing strength and renewal from witnessing the resourcefulness and growth of others.If you enjoy this please leave us a review on your favourite platform! It really helps more people find these great conversations.
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🎙️ Toward Solutions Podcast | Episode 3: What really makes Solution Focused work come alive? with Jenny Clarke
In this special episode of the Towards Solutions podcast, Dion Sing and I had the absolute privilege of sitting down with the wonderful Jenny Clarke from SFWork (The Centre for Solutions Focus at Work).Jenny shares unforgettable stories, sparkling insights, and reflections from decades of bringing Solution Focus into workplaces — from glass factories to finance firms. ✨We dive into:🔹 Why it’s more important to know what you want than to understand the problem🔹 How collective hopes can transform team dynamics🔹 The ‘aha’ moments when people truly get Solution Focus🔹 Why listening for good answers beats asking clever questions🔹 What it really means to build memories of a better futureThis conversation is rich, joyful, and full of practical wisdom — perfect whether you’re new to Solution Focus or have been around it for years.🎧 Tune in, enjoy the laughter, the stories, and the serious lessons about bringing Solution Focus to life — not just talking about it.Make sure you go read Jenny's article, Another Copernican Revolution Jenny's talk at the SOLWorld Conference 2014 SF or not - what's the difference?For a limited time you can find a video of Jenny's Rap available here. Lyrics can be found here.
Welcome to the Toward Solutions Podcast with Jason Pascoe and Dion Sing, where creativity meets practical application! Together, we dive deep into the world of Solution-Focus, exploring its transformative power across a variety of contexts.Join us each month as we engage in enlightening conversations with experts and practitioners who are applying Solution-Focus in their unique environments. Whether you're looking to enhance your personal life, professional practice, or community projects, our discussions will provide you with valuable insights and actionable ideas.Tune in to discover how you can implement Solution-Focused strategies and practices in your own context, unlocking new possibilities and creative solutions.Let's embark on this journey of exploration and innovation together!
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