We're Not Your Typical Podcast

What happens when you leave an abusive relationship with two young children and have to rebuild your entire life from scratch?

In this powerful episode of We're Not Your Typical, we sit down with Evie, better known online as Council House Mama, to hear her story of escaping domestic violence, becoming a single mum, navigating temporary accommodation and raising a neurodivergent child.

Evie opens up about the reality of leaving an abusive relationship, the importance of telling someone you trust, and how her best friend helped her take the first steps towards safety. She shares what happened when she left with her two children, the challenges of accessing temporary accommodation, and what it was like to start again in a council property.

We also talk about Evie's own autism diagnosis and her son's autism and ADHD, including the signs that were initially mistaken for the effects of trauma. Evie explains her son's masking, struggles with transitions, communication differences, sensory needs and emotional regulation, as well as the support he receives at school.

From navigating an autism diagnosis and paying privately for an assessment to finding practical strategies that work at home, Evie shares the realities of parenting a neurodivergent child while managing her own autism.

Evie also talks about her journey as a content creator, how sharing her life online grew from a difficult period into a career, and why she chooses to openly discuss council housing, SEND parenting, autism, ADHD and life after domestic abuse.

Most importantly, this episode is about finding hope after trauma, building a new life and understanding that starting again is possible.

🎙️ In this episode:
• Evie's experience of domestic violence
• Leaving an abusive relationship with two children
• How to tell someone you trust when you're struggling
• Escaping domestic abuse and finding support
• Temporary accommodation and homelessness
• The reality of starting again as a single mum
• Council housing and rebuilding a home
• Evie's autism diagnosis
• Her son's autism and ADHD diagnosis
• Recognising autism beyond trauma
• Masking in autistic children
• Autism, ADHD and transitions
• Communication differences and understanding language
• Sensory needs and emotional regulation
• Supporting autistic children at school
• One-to-one support in mainstream education
• Paying privately for an autism assessment
• Parenting a neurodivergent child
• Life after domestic violence
• Council House Mama and social media
• Rebuilding your life after trauma
• Finding hope after difficult experiences

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What happens when children with ADHD and other neurodivergent needs are expected to fit into an education system that doesn't fully understand how their brains work?

In this episode of We're Not Your Typical, we sit down with Jamie Gilbert, a former assistant head teacher who spent 18 years working with children with social, emotional and mental health (SEMH) needs, around 95% of whom were neurodivergent.

Jamie shares his experience working with children with ADHD, autism and other additional needs, and explains why he believes emotional regulation needs to come before academic achievement.

We discuss the challenges children can face in mainstream and specialist education, the impact of masking, why children may release their emotions at home after holding everything together at school, and how working memory and executive function can affect everyday life.

Jamie also opens up about his own experience growing up with undiagnosed ADHD, including the importance of understanding yourself, building confidence and finding the right tools to regulate your emotions.

He explains how movement, sport, positive relationships and dynamic learning can help children engage, and why he believes ADHD should be understood as more than either a "superpower" or a deficit.

We also talk about ADHD medication, diagnosis, rejection sensitivity, hyperfocus, working memory, parenting ADHD children, and how parents can adapt communication to better support their children.

Jamie also shares more about ADHD School, his virtual educational programme designed to help children understand their ADHD brain, develop executive functioning skills and build their own ADHD toolkit.

🎙️ In this episode:
• Understanding ADHD and the ADHD brain
• ADHD and emotional regulation
• ADHD, autism and neurodivergence in education
• Social, emotional and mental health (SEMH) needs
• Why emotional regulation can affect learning
• Understanding masking in children
• Why children may release emotions at home
• ADHD and executive functioning
• Working memory and communication
• Supporting children with ADHD at home
• Movement breaks and ADHD regulation
• Hyperfocus and the strengths of ADHD
• ADHD diagnosis and understanding the diagnosis
• ADHD medication and individual choices
• Avoiding the "ADHD superpower" narrative
• Helping children understand themselves
• Jamie's experience of growing up with undiagnosed ADHD
• ADHD School and supporting neurodivergent children

📚 Find out more about Jamie's ADHD School:
https://adhdschool.com/

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Finding the right childcare for an autistic or neurodivergent child can feel incredibly difficult especially when trust, safety and understanding are so important.

In this episode, we sit down with Josh, also known as Jossy.cares, an experienced childcare professional who has spent 18 years working with children and families, including children with autism, ADHD and other neurodivergent needs.

Josh shares what it is really like to care for neurodivergent children, from supporting non-verbal children and understanding different forms of communication to creating a safe environment where children can be themselves.

We also discuss why male carers and male nannies are still relatively uncommon, how parents can build trust with a new carer, the importance of introducing carers gradually, and the challenges parents face when leaving their children in someone else’s care.

Josh also opens up about supporting neurodivergent adults at inclusive events and why he believes care should never be seen as a gender-based role.

🎙️ In this episode:
• Finding trusted childcare for autistic and neurodivergent children
• Caring for non-verbal children
• Autism, ADHD and additional needs
• How carers can support overwhelmed parents
• Building trust between parents, children and carers
• Why male childcare workers are important
• Supporting neurodivergent adults in social spaces
• Creating more inclusive environments
• Understanding children through their behaviour and communication

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What is it really like raising a child with complex autism and high support needs?

In this episode of We’re Not Your Typical, we sit down with Lucy, mum to 16-year-old Jacob, to hear her honest story of raising a child with autism, ADHD, developmental delay and significant care needs.

Lucy shares the realities of parenting Jacob from his early diagnosis through to his teenage years, including non-verbal autism, sensory challenges, self-injurious behaviour, toileting, sleep, medication, education and accessing support.

She also opens up about the challenges of being a full-time carer, the importance of respite care, supporting siblings and the difficult questions that come with thinking about an autistic child's future and adulthood.

This is an honest and emotional conversation about autism parenting, complex autism, high support needs, disability support, respite care and life beyond childhood.

If you're a parent of an autistic child, caring for someone with additional needs, or simply want to better understand the realities many families face, this episode is for you.

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When Eri's son Rio was born, she immediately knew something wasn't right. Having seen her brother live with Craniosynostosis, she recognised the signs that others missed. What followed was a journey of multiple brain surgeries, months of uncertainty, and learning to trust her instincts when medical professionals weren't convinced.

In this emotional episode of We're Not Your Typical, Eri shares Rio's story, from his diagnosis at birth to undergoing life-changing surgery at Great Ormond Street Hospital, and why parents should never ignore their gut feeling.

In this episode:

🧠 What Craniosynostosis is and how it affects brain development
🏥 Rio's first surgery at just four months old
⚠️ How routine eye tests revealed dangerous pressure on his brain
💙 The emotional reality of watching your child undergo brain surgery twice
👶 The signs every parent should know to look out for
🙏 Why trusting your instincts can save your child's life
✨ Life after surgery and Rio's recovery journey

If you're a parent worried about your child's development, head shape, or you've experienced a rare diagnosis, this episode is filled with hope, awareness, and practical advice.

💬 Have you experienced something similar? Share your story in the comments to help raise awareness for other families.

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